confused again

[vadam]

I have a few friends that are very active in the LGBTQ community and know much about all the sexuality identies that are out there, and after consulting a few and explaining how I feel about sex and relationships and what not, they were able to confirm what I had thought. That I was asexual. But I continue to wonder if I'm really asexual. I know there really isn't a set criteria on what specifically is asexual other than asexuals either do not experience a sexual attraction or there is a lack of sexual attraction. But I just continue to wonder if I'm asexual because;

• I actually don't mind casual sex, however, I do not have any emotional feelings connected with having sex.
  
• I do have romantic interests, but I would rather not include having sex with our relationship because I don't believe sex is needed to have an emotional or mental bond with a partner (and also because I have no emotional feelings connected with sex like stated above)
  
• And at times I think sex would be great, but when actually presented with sex or about to engage in sex; I get really disgusted by the acts of sex in an instant.
  

so again, i come back to the question. am I asexual?

[Member54880]

Welcome! Some asexuals feel the same way, for any, or all 3 of the points that you mentioned. Personally I can most strongly relate to your second point.

[Amathy]

The asexual community is very diverse. Nothing you mention would exclude you if you choose to identify as asexual. to know more about the asexual community google asexual census.

[Lennie]

Sounds like you could be asexual. If your not sure you can always try calling yourself asexual, you can always change it later.

[Meudwen]

Yep, all of those feelings fit within asexuality.