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Raina. Posted November 19, 2015 Share Posted November 19, 2015 A friend of mine! I'm still not over my ex/last girl I was in love with, not by far, but this one friend, she's so fucking c u t e and we have a lot in common? I know it's never gonna work but I just enjoy her prescence cause she makes me smile. :3 Haven't really told anyone about it since it's just a squish, though. And I'm not her type. Link to post Share on other sites
IndigoGael Posted November 19, 2015 Share Posted November 19, 2015 I'm currently seriously squishing on a girl (the only other girl) in my Search and Rescue/Wilderness Emergency Medical Care class. She is just SO FREAKIN' PERFECT, and totally the type I want as a close, lifelong friend. She is just so sweet, not to mention gorgeous, and sooo gentle too; today we were learning to check blood sugar levels on patients and the two of us, as well as one other were working together with the instructor, since we're the only three in the class that don't have our EMT certs yet, so we need more "hands-on" experience; our instructor was trying to get her to prick his finger with the needle and she kept saying, "I don't want to prick you, I hate hurting things!" (Our instructor is a tough paramedic, SAR Technician, and crossbow enthusiast.) (She eventually was able to do it, but she looked like she'd never forgive herself, LOL.) Me, I was emotionally abused at a school and for the most part of it am an insecure bitch, but I'm always so happy being around her. She could slowly but surely be helping me heal, and learn to love and care for others again. For that, I will be forever grateful to her. And it's almost like the two of us were meant to be friends; we almost always end up working together at our Field Training Exercises and class activities; she drove me to our first FTX back in September when my car was in the shop (when we barely even knew each other), not to mention we have everything in common; we're both outdoorswomen; we both love hiking, camping, and road trips; we're both extremely Irish. Really, I just want to hug her. She seems SO cuddly. The semester is over in a month and we're totally going to stay in touch-I think she does want to be friends and it could be the start of a beautiful, lasting friendship if bitchy me will let it. I have to say it-God and Goddess I freakin' love this girl!!! EDIT: Got her number!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted November 21, 2015 Share Posted November 21, 2015 Have a mini squish on a tumblr person. They write good fanfiction and I just really like their personality. ...I don't know what else to say, lol. I just like them. Link to post Share on other sites
NekoInk Posted November 28, 2015 Share Posted November 28, 2015 I actually have a pretty big squish on someone on this website. She's just so awesome and sweet and I wanna be her friend so badly. I'm just super nervous to directly speak to her. I don't want her to think I'm weird. Besides, I don't even know what we'd talk about if I did work up the nerve to start a conversation with her What am I supposed to say? "Oh hey, I know you don't know me but I'm squishin' on you hardcore right now. Wanna be friends?". Probably not gonna go over well Yup! Go for it! :) I'm sure she'll respond well Link to post Share on other sites
floralprinting Posted November 28, 2015 Share Posted November 28, 2015 I have a squish on someone in my theater department but I learned a few weeks ago that she's straight and I don't think she'd be receptive to the kind of qp relationship I want. I want to respect her boundaries, of course, but sometimes I'm worried that I'll never have a squish that goes anywhere b/c so many people don't understand asexuality. Link to post Share on other sites
J. van Deijck Posted November 28, 2015 Share Posted November 28, 2015 I have a squish on one of my favourite musicians and yes, it's definitely a squish, not a crush. He is almost 40, though. I wonder if he would like me at all XD Link to post Share on other sites
K!m Posted November 28, 2015 Share Posted November 28, 2015 I have a squish on someone in my theater department but I learned a few weeks ago that she's straight and I don't think she'd be receptive to the kind of qp relationship I want. I want to respect her boundaries, of course, but sometimes I'm worried that I'll never have a squish that goes anywhere b/c so many people don't understand asexuality. I feel ya. A friend asked my then-squish how she'd feel if a girl had a squish on her and she outrightly said "Eww!" I so wish there was more representation of QPRs, aromanticism and asexuality, and that people were more open-minded about these things. Link to post Share on other sites
SubØhm Posted November 30, 2015 Share Posted November 30, 2015 My squish is a British YouTuber who doesn't even know I exist. Link to post Share on other sites
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EmotionalAndroid Posted December 1, 2015 Share Posted December 1, 2015 Unfortunately, most of my squishes are people who passed away years ago (most of them before I was even born). So that's a bummer. :< Link to post Share on other sites
Keumi Posted December 2, 2015 Share Posted December 2, 2015 I had (have?) a huge squish on one of my best online friends from about 2 years ago. She was great, we had so much in common and she was the only person I truly felt I could talk to about anything. We called ourselves twins and others saw us that way...as inseparable. We did everything together. She was too jealous and possessive though, which eventually led to our falling out when I got into a relationship with a mutual friend. I didn't realize how deeply I cared until she declared her hatred and went her own way about 9 months ago. :( I still stalk her tumblr Link to post Share on other sites
kaysir Posted December 7, 2015 Share Posted December 7, 2015 Have a mini squish on a tumblr person. They write good fanfiction and I just really like their personality. ...I don't know what else to say, lol. I just like them. Ugh, same, but mine's not so mini. My squish/crush/stranger-I-have-worryingly-strong-feelings-for is a popular blogger in one of my bigger fandoms. She's a precious girl, super playful, cheesy, and borderline obnoxious, and she was constantly making art and socializing with everyone under the sun like a ray of sunshine herself up til recently. I've been trying to be her friend for over a year now, and she calls me that, but we rarely speak and I highly doubt she thinks about me as often as I think about her. Link to post Share on other sites
words are futile devices Posted December 7, 2015 Share Posted December 7, 2015 Forever squishing on a former co-worker of mine. Have you ever met a person and something about them just draws you in like a moth to flame? In ways you can't possibly explain using logic or sense? 301 days ago he smiled at me for the first time, and since that moment he has never left my mind. A lot has happened in between then and now... I've been racked with sorrow, filled with compassion, and overwhelmed with inexpressible emotions, on his behalf. He went through hell back in May, suffering from a psychotic episode that required hospitalization, and I didn't see him for two months. In that time, though, (and with the help and encouragement of several AVENites :D) I hacked up the guts to get beyond merely admiring/adoring/melting over him from a safe distance, and actually contacted him directly. It was mildly terrifying because I had no clue how he would respond to me. I was afraid he'd be completely weirded out or annoyed. But... well, we've been talking ever since. We've hung out together several times as well. So I guess he is at least somewhat fond of me too! I have this burning desire to help him however I can; to be someone he knows he can talk to any time, if he ever needs it. I want him to know how important and precious he is. And I feel so amazingly fortunate to have met him, and that we've actually progressed into friends, and that he enjoys spending time with me, and that I get to wrap my arms around him and smile at him and be affectionate and tell him what he means to me. And I love that there is no romantic tension, and that he hasn't tried to make a "move" of any sort, that our relationship is as platonic as they come. It's the most perfect situation I could imagine. I love him, truly love him, and would do anything for him. He's been branded on my heart in a way that I don't even understand, and knowing him has changed me. Gahh, okay, I will stop gushing. Link to post Share on other sites
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