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Hi Everyone

I am new to this forum having joined recently.

I decided many years ago that sex and I aren't compatible so I have lived most of my life as a solo and made no apologies about it! In fact I am proud of it, I have worked most of my life and paid into the economy and not taken from it.

The only thing that makes me annoyed is being single, when I go on holiday, you go solo so you have to either find friends to go with or find a company that does solo holidays which are priced through the roof because of the single supplement.

Also Christmas can be difficult because people think you are on your own but I enjoy being on my own so don't worry!

I try and look on the positive side of being single and asexual. Most of my friends are now becoming grandmothers and they are having their grandchildren given to them to be looked after by their children and it is storing up a lot of resentment! At least I can do what I want when I want without having to ask anyone's permission.

I wish I had found this forum years ago so that I know I am amongst people who live and think the same way as I do!

Dartsue

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Welcome, Dartsue :cake::cake::cake: I hope you enjoy being a part of the AVEN community, and find some new friends here :)

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Hi, welcome. I agree with you about Christmas. I just decided that, for the second year in a row, I will be spending Christmas alone, far away from my family.

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Hey and welcome! :cake: :cake:

Also Christmas can be difficult because people think you are on your own but I enjoy being on my own so don't worry!

It sounds like what annoys you is more the reaction of people, not the fact of being single...? You say you enjoy being on your own? So that's the only thing that matters! If the others find it weird...well, whatever, they can't understand everything xD

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Hello, and welcome to AVEN!! :cake: :cake:

I agree that at certain times it can feel lonely to be single, but I'm glad that you're still happy with who you are. Being single and asexual might not be the norm, but it can still lead you to a very satisfying life, and I'm glad you realize that. Continue to be happy with who you are!

Anyway, thanks for introducing yourself here! It's nice to meet you, and I hope you enjoy being a member of this community! :)

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Hello, and welcome to AVEN!! :cake: :cake:

I agree that during certain times it can be a bit hard to be single, but I'm glad that you are happy with it for the most part. Being a single ace might not be what most people think of as "normal", but it's totally possible to lead a happy and fulfilling life that way. Just continue being you and not worrying about what others might think. :)

Anyway, thanks for introducing yourself here! It's nice to meet you, and I hope you enjoy being a member here! :)

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Hi and welcome! Thanks for your intro! Good for you for staying true to yourself. This a great place to make some new friends and feel supported too. I'm glad you joined and hope you love being part of this awesome community.!!! :)

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Hullo, nice to meet you and welcome to AVEN! :cake: :cake: I'm glad that you have decided to join and thank you for introducing yourself. A lot of people can relate. And it sure is pretty awesome to find a whole community of people that can relate and understand each other and know that we're not alone. :) I hope you enjoy it here and... more cake!

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Hi everyone I'm new on this forum and glad that I found it....I'm confused so need support. I have been married for 15 years with 2 children. I've always secretly dressed as a woman when I'm alone....The older that I'm getting, the more trouble I'm having living as a man...I need to be a woman.

Anyway glad to join you all!!!

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Hi everyone I'm new on this forum and glad that I found it....I'm confused so need support. I have been married for 15 years with 2 children. I've always secretly dressed as a woman when I'm alone....The older that I'm getting, the more trouble I'm having living as a man...I need to be a woman.

Anyway glad to join you all!!!

Welcome! :cake:

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Hi everyone I'm new on this forum and glad that I found it....I'm confused so need support. I have been married for 15 years with 2 children. I've always secretly dressed as a woman when I'm alone....The older that I'm getting, the more trouble I'm having living as a man...I need to be a woman.

Anyway glad to join you all!!!

Hello, and welcome to you as well! :cake: :cake:

Perhaps you feel you want to be a woman, you might want to specifically check out our gender discussion forum. There's a lot to learn here, and I hope you enjoy being a member here! :)

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