pantless_ninja Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 Well, can I still be shiny if I'm pantless? In any case, I'm Keren, 35, from Northern Israel. I've been struggling with this for quite a while. About two years ago someone posted a comic about that true definition of Asexuality and it got me thinking. It made me think about why I had been single for over a decade, even though I identified as Lesbian; it made me think about why even though I can have a grand ol' time getting myself off, I have no desire to seek out an actual partner; it made me think about why I never enjoyed sex when I did have, but gave in because it made my partners happy. I keep getting asked by family and friends how I can be happy when I'm alone, but honestly, I'm just so very content as I am right now. It's taken me ages to be body confident, and goal confident...I thought I had reached sexual confidence, but there was always something just...off. I guess I'm just attracted to women, but not sexually. Aaaaaand, I'm done. Link to post Share on other sites
CatastropheCat Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 Hey, a homoromantic buddy! Welcome to AVEN, Keren. The community here is absolutely fantastic and I hope you enjoy it :) Feel free to PM me if you want to talk about all things lesbian/asexual, or pass on a little wisdom to a younger ace. I'm glad you've found yourself. Have some cake! Link to post Share on other sites
mustardblood Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 Welcome to AVEN, I hope you enjoy it here. Link to post Share on other sites
SkyWorld Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 Hullo, nice to meet you and welcome to AVEN! :cake: I'm glad that you have decided to join and thank you for introducing yourself. A lot of people can relate and you are most certainly not alone. I hope you enjoy it here and... more cake! :D Link to post Share on other sites
deltaX Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 Hello, and welcome to AVEN!! :cake: A lot of people here have mistaken romantic attraction for sexual attraction at some point, so you're not alone! I'm glad you were finally able to discover the real definition of asexuality and figure out who you are. You seem really happy with yourself, and that's awesome! Anyway, thanks for introducing yourself here! It's nice to meet you, and I hope you enjoy being a part of the asexual community! :) Link to post Share on other sites
CosineTheCat Posted August 31, 2015 Share Posted August 31, 2015 Hello and Welcome to AVEN! This is a wonderful site full of amazing people and I’m glad that you’ve become a part of it, and thank you for sharing your story, I know it’s not always easy thing to do. Be sure to browse around and check out all the different areas. I’m sure you’ll find something that interests you! Welcome Again Link to post Share on other sites
Lady Girl Posted August 31, 2015 Share Posted August 31, 2015 Hi and welcome! Thanks for sharing your story. This a great place to make some new friends and feel supported too. I'm glad you joined and hope you love being part of this awesome community.!!! :) Link to post Share on other sites
pantless_ninja Posted September 1, 2015 Author Share Posted September 1, 2015 Thanks everyone! (Especially for the cake!) Link to post Share on other sites
Xavy Posted September 2, 2015 Share Posted September 2, 2015 Welcome to AVEN Link to post Share on other sites
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