FtW Posted August 29, 2015 Share Posted August 29, 2015 I've never had good luck with relationships and for a long time I just gave up completely (6yrs). I've recently started trying to put myself back out there and I just can't do it anymore. I dated a regular girl for a bit, but she doesn't think she can work with me on my sexuality. I don't have any better luck with the other women I've met. Whether it's bad timing or they're in a different place, none of them seem to be a decent fit. Then I found another asexual woman who I've got so much in common with she's me with a vagina, but she doesn't want to be in a relationship at all or with anyone. I know I should give it more time or work, but I feel like it's just a mountain that I can't climb. I feel like I wasted my late 20's by not putting myself out there at all and I might have missed my opportunity to be happy. Why is it so hard to find someone who just wants to spend time together? All I'm looking for is someone who thinks of me as much as I think of her. That's not too much to ask is it? Anyway, thanks for listening, I'll go stop my pity party. Link to post Share on other sites
Bad_Mr_Tree Posted August 29, 2015 Share Posted August 29, 2015 It's difficult. I suggest doing the things you love, and then love the person you are doing them with. Easier said than done a lot of the time, but worth trying. Link to post Share on other sites
Irezumi Hikari Posted August 29, 2015 Share Posted August 29, 2015 I know the feeling. I'm still young, only 22, but I met my husband when we were 15 and sex wasn't really part of the picture back then. But now, he still loves me regardless of whether or not I want sex (I'm demi). If you are looking for a partner, I've found kind of an odd site. It's www.meetme.com . I've noticed that most of the guys on there just want hookups and the girls want someone to be there for them and don't like the sexual advances. I've met some of my best friends on there that were men and they didn't try to be sexual with me. It's a lot of younger people, but there's also older people on there and you can filter out the ages you don't want to see. Link to post Share on other sites
Kalyke Posted August 29, 2015 Share Posted August 29, 2015 Too bad you are in Texas. Finding an asexual to cohabit with is fairly difficult. I'd like one too. Maybe you can find a friend on one of these forums? I am planning on moving to Misouri, and I would want a man or woman who likes animals, fish tanks, modern furniture, and gardening. I wonder if there is an Ace dating site? Link to post Share on other sites
Star Bit Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 There's a meetup section in the forum and asexual dating sites. Link to post Share on other sites
EmiGurumi Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 Ugh. This scenario just recently happened to me too. I've never gone on dates or anything because well...I've never felt connected to anyone and mostly guys are either way too forward with me or ignore me completely. There's more but...nevermind. So I met this guy who was also an asexual (which has NEVER happened to me before) and I even felt a real connection with him. We have so much in common. But he didn't feel the same way. He just wants to be friends. Which I can respect but I just felt so heartbroken. So I know how you feel. Link to post Share on other sites
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