interpol Posted August 7, 2015 Share Posted August 7, 2015 I have no earthly idea where the HELL this came from. I don't have sex, and I only get off to erotic fiction or if I like someone the thought of that person or actor/character (was forced to watch porn as a kid a few times and was turned on but hated it.) I'm lying down today and all of a sudden I get a random thought: "I wanna f*** randos and masturbate to porn." Huh???? I don't even WATCH porn. The only explanation I have for this is that I'm due for my (very irregular) period. I've had the feeling of wanting to try sex before, but that was more an itch to scratch due to how I was feeling at the moment. Unless I'm just über sexual and waiting to happen.... Thoughts? Advice? This is weird... Link to post Share on other sites
LilJul02 Posted August 7, 2015 Share Posted August 7, 2015 I have come to accept that the human body (and mind) is weird and can get odd, sudden desires that are not the usual norms we are used to. So I don't think your situation is weird in general because I believe similar situations happen to a lot of people (like me....). In my experience, it goes like this: Body/Mind: That's hot. Me (aka my self-consciousness): Ummmm... No, not really?? Body/Mind (that I cannot control and likes to rebel): THAT'S HOT SHIT RIGHT THERE. ME: WHAT. WHY. It's a struggle sometimes. Maybe it's a one time thing or a recurring event but I don't think it's something to worry about. Just know that fantasy is not reality and your unconsciousness is not your self-consciousness (why am I stating the obvious.....). Link to post Share on other sites
LeaveOnYourColours Posted August 7, 2015 Share Posted August 7, 2015 Well a couple years ago before I had had any relationships, I thought it would be too weird to have sex with someone I knew or would have to see. So I guess I get you on the f*cking of randos. I can't really explain it that well either! My feelings have changed a bit since I have had romantic relationships, one in particular that made me feel extremely sexually comfortable. I would do it for that person I was with because we're close and I care about meeting his needs in that way, knowing that he wants me. I really don't like porn and it's not arousing at all for me :P They just never look like they're enjoying it! It's just... I don't know, it's awkward. But erotic fiction can be okay, I don't get off on it because empathetically I'm satisfied by just the characters' satisfaction. It sounds like you have a strong sex drive but maybe no sexual attraction. It happens. Sexuality is crazy. Link to post Share on other sites
scarletlatitude Posted August 7, 2015 Share Posted August 7, 2015 It is sometimes common for females to feel more of a libido during that "time of the month". I know that's when my libido goes bananas. Link to post Share on other sites
interpol Posted August 7, 2015 Author Share Posted August 7, 2015 I have sexual attraction to actors and a few people I've liked, but the attractions are different. Only one time have I really thought "I wanna f*** you" when I've talked to a guy. The rest just make me feel bashful, like maybe sex is a thing, but love and talking and puns and cleaning house are too and.....just....a guy isn't going to want to deal with a girl with a sex drive /blushes and bashful/ Link to post Share on other sites
UncommonNonsense Posted August 8, 2015 Share Posted August 8, 2015 About a week before my period was going to start, I'd get lots of odd stuff... which, though often uncomfortable, disturbing, and inconvenient, at least gave me warning... I was so irregular with my cycle that I could have two periods in one month or skip periods for up to six months. I'd get cravings for foods I normally disliked or knew to cause migraines (KFC-greasy and kinda gross most of the time, irresistible when ovulating), start wanting alcoholic drinks despite having no liking for booze at any other time, and get that annoying yearning for masturbation, when I normally had no interest. I've not had a period since I was 26. I'm 39 now. I very rarely get any urge to masturbate that I can't just ignore. Link to post Share on other sites
Member 92789 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 I have no earthly idea where the HELL this came from. I don't have sex, and I only get off to erotic fiction or if I like someone the thought of that person or actor/character (was forced to watch porn as a kid a few times and was turned on but hated it.) I'm lying down today and all of a sudden I get a random thought: "I wanna f*** randos and masturbate to porn." Huh???? I don't even WATCH porn. The only explanation I have for this is that I'm due for my (very irregular) period. I've had the feeling of wanting to try sex before, but that was more an itch to scratch due to how I was feeling at the moment. Unless I'm just über sexual and waiting to happen.... Thoughts? Advice? This is weird... I've had these exact same feelings. Though I feel I don't need sex. I find seeing a guy with no clothes on attractive and fascinating. The human form is. But I value romantic relationships! Link to post Share on other sites
Kiss-My-Ace Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 I just recently discovered through the internet that girls are hornier on their periods but I've never had the experience myself. The only thing my period does is give me cramps and make me sad :( So, from what I've heard it's probably normal because a lot of people get horny on their periods Link to post Share on other sites
Shamala Posted August 16, 2015 Share Posted August 16, 2015 I don't watch porn, it's just weird. Whenever I feel the need to watch hentai I know my period is about to start. That's the only time I can watch it though. Link to post Share on other sites
SilentButFriendly Posted August 24, 2015 Share Posted August 24, 2015 Well, this will be quite the first post. Been lurking for a while, finally made an account. Hello. To break the ice: Most of the time, I have very, very low libido. But, mid-cycle- when I'm ovulating- I am *extremely* horny. It's like my hormones have hijacked my body in the name of evolution and are attempting to drive me to perpetuate the species. Ah, biology. Very clever, as it's the time I would be most likely to get pregnant. There is definitely some sex drive during that time, enough that I notice it. I feel flush around pretty much any male that's breathing. But, I wouldn't want to actually do anything with them. My body says an emphatic (yet confused/conflicted) yes, but my brain and emotions say categorically, "Eh, ew, no." So, I just masturbate a lot that week. *shrug*We're all human. So, if you are experiencing something, it's part of the human experience. You're not the only one. You're never alone. :) Link to post Share on other sites
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