Cee Posted July 30, 2015 Share Posted July 30, 2015 Hi everyone! *waves*I'm not really good with introductions, but here goes... Back when I was in high school, yes, I like a few guys but not to a point where I felt I needed to act out that attraction sexually. Having studied in a Catholic school during my growing up years, I really did not notice my asexuality and there was no pressure on having sex or anything because again I'm in a Catholic school. Moving on to college, I decided to go against the current and studied at a school that's different from the previous. People around me were dating and/or in a relationship. I really don't get it at that time because people just change partners like it's just changing their brand of cereals. I began to question myself like is there like a manual that I missed to read? Not that I want to be in a relationship, but I knew there's something that I can't exactly point my finger on.Two years ago, I met this guy. I liked him and he liked me. I wanted to be with him, but I dreaded the idea of sex. Sex for me is unnecessary. So, I thought maybe I'm just different from everyone else. I was fine with it. And until recently, I saw this documentary entitled (A)Sexuality.It's like I found a treasure! IT MADE ME HAPPY LIKE FINALLY I BELONG!So here I am now: 25, cave-dweller, blogger, and asexual. Thanks for reading,Cee Link to post Share on other sites
NothingMuchToDo Posted July 30, 2015 Share Posted July 30, 2015 Welcome to AVEN :D Link to post Share on other sites
Confusion 0 Posted July 30, 2015 Share Posted July 30, 2015 Heya Cee! Welcome to AVEN! :D "Sex for me is unnecessary." You took the words right out of my mouth! :lol: Yeah, it's amazing how casually people treat sex sometimes. I'm kind of lucky I managed to avoid being in relationships until this point, because until a few years ago, I thought everyone else was like me, but sex-crazy. Nope, turns out sex is 'important'... Welcome again! More cake! :D Link to post Share on other sites
aisu_hawk Posted July 30, 2015 Share Posted July 30, 2015 Hey there! Welcome! I love your intro and I really understand that idea of feeling like you fit in. I'm 25 also, and I'm glad you made it over to the site! We're really supportive and if you want to chat we're here! Link to post Share on other sites
Ficulnean Posted July 30, 2015 Share Posted July 30, 2015 Hey, welcome to AVEN. Where I for one would like if they wrote a manual on that stuff that made everything make sense. Link to post Share on other sites
Cee Posted July 30, 2015 Author Share Posted July 30, 2015 Hey there! Welcome! I love your intro and I really understand that idea of feeling like you fit in. I'm 25 also, and I'm glad you made it over to the site! We're really supportive and if you want to chat we're here! Thank you! Oh, you're also 25? YAAAY! I'm glad that I'm not alone. :cake: :cake: Hey, welcome to AVEN. Where I for one would like if they wrote a manual on that stuff that made everything make sense. Thanks! And yeah, I am still in search of that manual. the ever elusive manual. Heya Cee! Welcome to AVEN! :D "Sex for me is unnecessary." You took the words right out of my mouth! :lol: Yeah, it's amazing how casually people treat sex sometimes. I'm kind of lucky I managed to avoid being in relationships until this point, because until a few years ago, I thought everyone else was like me, but sex-crazy. Nope, turns out sex is 'important'... Welcome again! More cake! :D Yo thanks! :cake: :cake: Society today considers sex as "important". People can just hook up with whoever and they do it effortlessly like it's next to breathing. AND I'M like I want cake. lol :D Welcome to AVEN :D Thank you! You get tons of cake since you're the first commenter :cake: :cake: :cake: :cake: :cake: :cake: :cake: Link to post Share on other sites
Ficulnean Posted July 30, 2015 Share Posted July 30, 2015 Hey, welcome to AVEN. Where I for one would like if they wrote a manual on that stuff that made everything make sense.Thanks! And yeah, I am still in search of that manual. the ever elusive manual. The thing is, if we pick up the wrong manual, then it's pretty traumatizing. Link to post Share on other sites
CosineTheCat Posted July 30, 2015 Share Posted July 30, 2015 Hello and Welcome to AVEN! This is a wonderful site full of amazing people and I’m glad that you’ve become a part of it, and thank you for sharing your story, I know it’s not always easy thing to do. Be sure to browse around and check out all the different areas. I’m sure you’ll find something that interests you! Welcome Again! Link to post Share on other sites
Lady Girl Posted July 31, 2015 Share Posted July 31, 2015 Hi and welcome! That documentary has really helped a lot of people recognize this about themselves. I'm glad you joined and hope you love being part of this awesome community!!! :) Link to post Share on other sites
Cee Posted August 1, 2015 Author Share Posted August 1, 2015 Hello and Welcome to AVEN! This is a wonderful site full of amazing people and Im glad that youve become a part of it, and thank you for sharing your story, I know its not always easy thing to do. Be sure to browse around and check out all the different areas. Im sure youll find something that interests you! Welcome Again! Thank you. Everyone has been sooo nice. I checked out different areas. I posted on topics regarding books and games.It's been so much fun so far!!! Hi and welcome! That documentary has really helped a lot of people recognize this about themselves. I'm glad you joined and hope you love being part of this awesome community!!! :)That documentary was indeed helpful. I even saw people on Youtube sharing their asexual stories. It just makes me so happy. I do hope more people will be aware of asexuality. Thank you for all your warm welcome. :) Link to post Share on other sites
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