Member 92789 Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 I think I kind of enjoy it... or at least I don't mind it, its in a way like scratching an itch... the only issue is its easier to do with certain stimuli, and since sex itself usually doesn't turn me on, I have to rely on fetish stuff, and even then half of the stuff in my fetish doesn't appeal to me at that moment, I spend most of the time that I masturbate trying to find a story or piece of art that will get me aroused... I don't actually know if that's weird, I think I could do it without that, I usually feel the desire to masturbate first (or not so much a desire as an oncoming erection) and then look for something to arouse me... or I just do it as a way of passing the time like clean out the plumbing while I'm bored and not have to worry about it later. I agree. I started off doing it without thinking about anything sexual, but then that stopped working, then I had to think of something sexual to get aroused. It takes a while sometimes, but that's what works for me. I feel you though..it works with stimuli. Link to post Share on other sites
Kiss-My-Ace Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 I honestly don't even know how to masturbate. Like, I have a vagina, so I guess I'm supposed to stick something in there? But for whatever reason I just can't understand how it would be pleasurable. My ex-boyfriend always tried to convince me to try it and he described it as "euphoria" but I just never felt the need to. It's a thing ^ That's pretty much how I feel about it Link to post Share on other sites
Tea.EarlGrey.Hot Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 I honestly don't even know how to masturbate. Like, I have a vagina, so I guess I'm supposed to stick something in there? But for whatever reason I just can't understand how it would be pleasurable. My ex-boyfriend always tried to convince me to try it and he described it as "euphoria" but I just never felt the need to. Personally, I can't masturbate. It just feels like nothing. Did I already mention that on this thread? I don't even remember lol.. Basically my problem is that, first of all, it just feels like nothing. Second of all, even reaching orgasm with a partner takes some SERIOUS concentration. It's like... borderline impossible. Anyway, to answer your question in the least graphic way possible, most ppl with vaginas can't orgasm just by "sticking something in there." You have to stimulate the clitoris, like, a lot. For most, a dildo or something may not even be involved. But for masturbating to work in the first place, you have to be horny or aroused or WANT to do something, or it will never happen. So trying to force it just won't work. There ain't nothing wrong with that, though. Link to post Share on other sites
Kiss-My-Ace Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 Don't even know what a clitoris is, lol. I haven't taken health yet ^_^ Link to post Share on other sites
Tea.EarlGrey.Hot Posted August 14, 2015 Share Posted August 14, 2015 Don't even know what a clitoris is, lol. I haven't taken health yet ^_^ Haha that's fine! Googling it could bring up some potentially unwanted images for you so I'm not sure how to help you there, but you will learn about it soon I'm sure. Basically it's a bundle of really sensitive nerves that people with vaginas have. That's it! No other function, really. I don't want to bring this too off topic, but that's the gist of it! Personally, I don't understand how people can masturbate at all. How is the exhausting/repetitive movement not distracting??? Link to post Share on other sites
turtleswithhats Posted August 14, 2015 Share Posted August 14, 2015 Idk. I tried it. Boring and kind of gross. I orgasm fairly easily but it just doesnt feel like anything pleasurable to me. Link to post Share on other sites
Kiss-My-Ace Posted August 14, 2015 Share Posted August 14, 2015 Don't even know what a clitoris is, lol. I haven't taken health yet ^_^ Haha that's fine! Googling it could bring up some potentially unwanted images for you so I'm not sure how to help you there, but you will learn about it soon I'm sure. Basically it's a bundle of really sensitive nerves that people with vaginas have. That's it! No other function, really. I don't want to bring this too off topic, but that's the gist of it! Personally, I don't understand how people can masturbate at all. How is the exhausting/repetitive movement not distracting??? I feel like your arm would get really tired really fast Link to post Share on other sites
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