Another fetish related article!

[Usernamethe2nd]

Hello,

My name is Jon and I wanted to talk about different kinds of fetishes. I am also looking for those who share similar ones to mine and to be able to talk about it. Just a note but I don't particularly like the use of the word "fetish" its just that it best describes what I am talking about without too much confusion. I guess I'll start then...

I have what some refer to as a fat fetish. Using jargon, I am what is called a mutual gainer. This means that I like to gain weight(fat) but also like to see other gain weight. The amount of weight doesn't have to be specific and I enjoy everything involved in the process of gaining weight. Things I like:

The look and feel of fat pressing up against clothing, the outgrowing of clothes, clothes that tear or don't fit. Increased lethargy, not being as "fit":as before, sleepiness. Reckless abandon, gluttony, messy eating. The waves and ripples of a person's skin, jiggles. The feel of fat. Having a friend to eat with and indulge.

I wonder how much of this fetish mixes with other fetishes. I've noticed that furs and vore are somewhat common with this fetish. One thing that is particular to me is that I don't care for the whole dominant and submissive force feeding(although force feeding can be pleasurable too!) and role play thing. I don't believe that it has to be about that. Fat "fetishism" has kind of gotten a bad name because it can be seen as manipulative and controlling. Its not about that unless your into that, but then consent is key in that situation. I guess I am ranting a bit but I just wanted to reach out in one of the few places I think it makes sense. I feel like I am different than other feedees (jargon) in that I don't want any sort of sexual relationship just good times and food.

Any other people have "strange" fetishes of any kind? Perhaps similar issues with feeling estranged from a fetish community due to asexuality? Anyone with a similar fetish as mine?

[Robin L]

Oh god, I have tons of weird fetishes, but I've never heard of this one. I don't think asexuality necessarily excludes one from a fetish community, because in both cases, the fetish is practically their sexuality. Sexual intercourse is not always an important part of fetishes.

[Usernamethe2nd]

Hello Robin,

This is a very good point.

I don't think asexuality necessarily excludes one from a fetish community, because in both cases, the fetish is practically their sexuality. Sexual intercourse is not always an important part of fetishes.

Anyways what kind of fetishes do you have?

[Robin L]

Anyways what kind of fetishes do you have?

I don't feel like typing it again so I'll just link it.

[Usernamethe2nd]

Huh,

That is interesting, though I can imagine it. There is nothing that really gets me aroused besides specific imagery.

[EchoesOfACity]

I honestly find myself very attracted to fat guys. I don't have a desire to have sex with them but I do experience some arousal when I see someone who has a nice chubby figure. I've heard of the gainer lifestyle but I'm not really interested in watching that. But I guess I kind of have a fat fetish because of how aroused I get seeing a fat belly. I like when the person rubs their belly and jiggles their body, and when they wear really tight clothes. That's a very basic description of what I experience.

So you're not completely alone with your fetish, I can kind of relate and I'm glad you posted about it! Fetishism is a very interesting topic and it's good to talk about it as long as you're in a safe, supportive, and understanding environment.