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I want the endorphins and cuddles and blankets part of sex...


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But without the sex itself.

Like, I'm very attracted to the aesthetic part of sex in media and the pleasure (and sensation) and endorphin part of sexual stimulation in real life? But the moment I see a picture/read about actual sex happening ("sex" here defined as the part where genitals meet and fluid is exchanged and it is all very messy and gloopy)(yes, I have not experienced sex, why do you ask?) , my reaction ranges from "This is boring go away" to outright retching.

Any thoughts on this?

(Sorry for posting twice. That was a glitch.)

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LeaveOnYourColours

Haha saying I felt kind of alone on this is getting to be a cliche. I see what you mean, all the good parts without the sex part sounds great to me. I agree

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I totally get you! The sensual and aesthetic aspects of physical intimacy really appeal to me, but I am not at all interested in sexual contact.

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So you're just interested in foreplay? Then that's not sexual, that's sensual. What is sexual involves arousal in any direct or indirect way. Your body may respond with arousal/find things sexual but an act should not be called sexual unless its wanted for the arousal.

(though aparently dictionaries define kissing and touching as sexual; they're not)

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SomethingOrAnother

That sounds good to me too. You can keep all of your sex, I just want the sensual and aesthetic parts without the actual sexual contact. Yuck.

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