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Have you experienced physical attraction without sexual attraction?


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whocaresthough

Yis. Only on guys, though. I find guys generally cute.

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When I was 17 this handsome guy in my class thought I was attractive. He would see me standing in the hall and wink. Then come up to me and put his hand on the wall behind me and say 'hey' like they do in the movies. He also smiled like he was super in love. I liked it and it made me blush. The whole school would laugh. I did not mind. He continued to do it for a whole year. Then he got mad at me for never actually flirt with him or texting him/hanging out with him. He said it was a joke that he got mad but I am very sure that it wasn't. I only laughed at him. I knew he only wanted sex because he never said more than hey beautiful and how are you. Up until this day I still don't really know him and I also don't really feel the need to. I just liked it. That's it.

Not that long ago a friend confirmed that he never wanted a relationship but just wanted to do me.

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Yes. Not long ago a new guy started working at my job and I immediately gained a crush on him.

He was pretty good looking.

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I do with very specific girls - the kind where I want to be with them and cuddle/kiss with them all the time. It is sometimes a desire that grows over time - they all share some specific look/vibe that triggers my emotions - I can't put my finger on it though :huh:

One of them was a celebrity so I'm not sure if this counts, even though I have crossed paths with her in real life (don't hate me): :wub:

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I could never stop looking, though I don't think I ever had any sexual attraction (the way allosexuals define it), it is frustrating but it is just the way it is I guess...

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ColorfulShine

I feel physical attraction, as other people said, usually a mix of finding someone eye-pleasing (not just the looks actually, but something in the air, the way they carry themselves that makes your head and you notice them) but also you feel attracted to them sensually (wanting to be close mainly, also perhaps being held tight). It's extremely confusing, because for the longest time since I felt physical attraction I thought that it was sexual attraction.

I really thought that my attraction to someone "ouuh, I'd tap that" was sexual, in fact it was not it was sensual (never actually wanted to havesex, just thought the two went together) and that is VERY different. It means that I may (although rarely) feel a desire to be close to someone but NOT be sexual. It's extremely confusing.

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