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Dreams in which sex happens are very rare for me (once a year or so); dreams in which I am an active participant in sex, from a 1st-person-perspective are even rarer (I remember exactly two of the latter over my whole life, and I'm turning 41 next month).

Neither are pleasant in the least bit, but the latter are a class to themselves in terms of being utterly horrifying.

Nudity, however? Very, very common in my dreams. And bizarrely, while I'm super-modest with my body during waking hours, I often walk around barenaked or just in underpants in my dreams - whether it's out in the dream-streets, or back in school, or going shopping, or whatever... and nine times out of ten, I just don't give a shit about it in the dream, it's not embarrassing at all.

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Mycroft is Yourcroft

I think I had one once, a while ago, but can't remember anything about it. I didn't know they were a thing for ages!

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Iwantyourface

Warning maybe TMI:

When I was about 10 years old, I had a dream I was in the studio audience at a late night talk show. If I recall correctly, I think it was Letterman. There was nothing sexual about being there. It's not like everyone had their clothes off. It's not like I was naked on the stage in front of everyone. It was simply as if we were watching a normal live taping of the show.

So he looks out to the audience, and says in his signature comic tone, "Okay everyone, let's all tighten everything up!"

And boom, at the moment I woke up and found myself... um... nocturnally emitting.

So. Was it a sex dream? No idea.

Was it weird? Yes. Yes indeed.

I remember when I use to "nocturnally emmit" I would have the same reoccurring dream of becoming a priest, then failing to hold in my bladder and peeing myself in church.

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I've had a few very surreal dreams involving sex. I don't think I've ever been a participant and usually everything is kind of distorted and weird. Like, that's not even how humans are shaped. Why does that old woman have a mushroom for a penis. Stuff like that.

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Lewis Pavey28

I had one once but is was about someone I lived and cared for but rarely happens hence why I consider myself grey asexual

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Lord Jade Cross

I haven't had a sex dream in a long time. The last time I had a dream in which things could have been sexual, I directly declined to participate in the act. The person who I was dreaming with (total stranger since I had never met her in real life) wasn't too happy about it.

At the time, I thought that this dream meant that I was right in saying that I didn't want to ever have sex, contrary to the popular belief that if I had sex dreams, that it meant that deep down, I really wanted sex. And pretty much I still think this. At least so far, nothing has happened that would suggest otherwise.

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I think I had a sexish dream last night. Went to my highschool reunion had an old friend come up to me and tell me she was in porn now. She gave me one of her DVDs and offered to give me sexual favors. I turned her down... weird dream.

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I've had a few kissing dreams (which were weird), but sex dreams? No, never. I'm kinda curious though.

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Strangely, I've had lots of them. I always have very vivid dreams and sex dreams are no exception to the rule. The thing is, I actually really come in those dreams (too much information ? Sorry) but the same situations in real life leave me cold. Dreams are such weird, weird things.

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I'm 13, but I've got a friend who's a junior in high school who's told me about her sex dreams. Lol no, she didn't say details, but just said "then we had sex" and I sat there, like "ok." My friends, the ones in the 8th grade, don't talk about that, but if they did, I wouldn't be surprised. There's plenty of peeps that don't have sex dreams. You'd kinda have to think about sex to have 'em. If you don't think about sex that much, it probably wouldn't end up in your dreams. Dreams don't really mean anything, you're unconscious. It's just a bunch of random stuff your mind threw together.

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HeartfulPeach

I have had a few in my life. I wish I could forget 2 of them that were really messed up.

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I've legitimately have never had a sex dream and always wondered that if it happened, would sex still be repulsive or would I enjoy it? Who knows.

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I don't remember most of my dreams. But, I've had a few sexual dreams. Mostly about people that I've got a pretty deep connection with and not very often. I wouldn't say it means much though as most dreams are your brain processing your memories and with all the sex around us, it's no wonder we don't have those dreams every day.

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Skycaptain

I have only ever had one, when I was around twelve, where I dreamt that I was having sex with a woman. Since then nothing, not a spark. I do have dreams involving other people, often those I know, but in a weird context, and everyone is always fully clothed, no dreamt contact or anything.

This in a way is odd, because I frequently remember dreams, and I often feel that not only can I control them, but I can revisit a dream and continue it for several nights

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I've never had a sexual dream and find the idea kind of odd just because I've never experienced one. The closest type of dream I've had involves kissing.

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i did have a bunch of dreams about a "boyfreind" years ago, had a few dreams with the same guy (who didnt exist in real life) but there was NO sex. or kissing, or anything like that. we just... hung out or whatever. really we were basically just freinds i suppose i dunno why he was my bf :wacko:

(but then i hardly ever understand my dreams so whats new)

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CN: wet dreams, orgasms, mention of romantic relationships

I've had them off and on, but they're still pretty rare. Unless I'm in a romantic/friendship relationship, then I have them more often. My favorite ones are where I'm woken up by my own orgasms.

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I've had similar dreams, but I rarely ejaculate. But the subject of the dream is someone I'm currently or want to be romantically involved. Usually it's me pleasuring her in my dream until I wake up.

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justalittledifferent

I've never had one. I think maybe twice in my life I've had a naked person show up in one of my dreams, but the context wasn't sexual; there was no sex happening whatsoever. For whatever reason, they were just naked... I was weirded out both times, but admittedly not as much as I would've been if someone was actually getting it on :blink:.

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thatotherguy57

I've had a few, but in hindsight, it's always someone I have a strong emotional connection to (the grey-a/hetero-demi-ro at work, I suspect). I have very vivid dreams normally, and sex dreams are always lucid dreams. Lucid dreams are not normal for me, and I tend to wake up with sleep paralysis when I have them.

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I haven't had any and I remember quite a lot of my dreams.

I have had one dream where I kissed someone and I woke up thinking their mouth tasted really weird. (weird dream)

I have had one dream where my sister wanted to discuss my friends masturbation habits. (weird dream)

And I have had one dream where the feeling in the room was that I was going to be raped- I tried to get the attention of someone out the window, they just walked away, I knew that was my last hope, and then I woke up. (nightmare)

The best dream I had that included physical contact was I was ballroom dancing with a friend. (good dream)

that is pretty much the sum total of my dreams including physical stuff... usually I am running through forests chasing aliens or something like that :P

The topic some how came up with a family member (awkward conversation to say the least), and they think they didn't have them until after they had sex... so that might have something to do with it?

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The only time I had a dream closest to a sex-dream was when I was in secondary school and had a dream about kissing a girl I had a major crush on. I remember feeling a bit freaked out when I woke up because it was one of those dreams where it felt very real - and I had that brief moment of being half asleep/awake where I started to wonder if it was a real memory or not lol.

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I've had them off and on, but they're still pretty rare. Unless I'm in a romantic/friendship relationship, then I have them more often.

Same. Especially if I share a bed with someone I have feelings for I will have sex dreams about them (even if we are just friends). The weird part is when I wake up and they're next to me in bed and they have no idea...

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Realizing that I actually have had a couple of sex related dreams, but it was tw type stuff. Not entirely sure what brought it on...material I had been reading and news stories, I suppose.

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SomethingOrAnother

The closest things I've had to sex in a dream are snuggling/cuddling, kissing, and hand holding. Never any actual sex though, which is totally fine by me

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chrysalis1975

I've never had a sex dream. I've never even had a sensual dream. I've had a few dreams (very few) where the guy cared for me, lead me out of danger, hugged me, ruffled my hair, and I felt a sense of belonging, and those were the best dreams. But nothing else, and I'm happy for that. Usually, I don't see the man's face, however...just some of his physical characteristics and his hands. Always his hands (yeah, I'm a hand person)

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nerdperson777

I'm not sure if mine counts but I've had odd things happen in my dreams. Normally it's doors that lead to one place and the next moment opening leads to another. I've had a few dreams where I'd be wearing clothes one moment and then not the next. Sometimes I'm wearing underwear, sometimes I'm not. It's like clothes appear and disappear for no reason. I think I recall one time I was a shallow body of water with a friend, kind of like a bathtub. I don't recall exactly but I think one of us was wearing a swimsuit and the next moment it was missing. :blink: I think we were hugging or cuddling for a moment. My only thought was, this is very awkward... My anxiety just makes it so that it happening means something about me, whether that person knew about this or not. It felt like another one of my squish moments, which were all on girls. It was about 5 years ago when I had this dream so I just thought I was a internally homophobic lesbian that refused to believe it. But yeah, my mind doesn't comprehend sex (or explicit body parts or blood) so not sure how to go about it.

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Agent Shade

I'e never had any sex anything in any of my dreams. It's like I don't understand how sex can pop up in a dream. I mean, I do, but at the same time, I don't. I hope that makes sense.

Though there was one time at the beginning of 2014 when I had a crush on a friend of mine (who ended up being straight and he's been in a serious relationship with a girl ever since a couple months after the dream. However, I wasn't aware he was straight at the time.), and I'm not sure how it happened, but we appeared in my living room and he confessed his love for me, taking his and my shirt off. As if that wasn't enough, my dad was sitting a few feet away, but was reading the newspaper and somehow didn't notice any of this whatsoever. So then my former crush dragged me into my room and tried to make out with me. I was so confused and bewildered that I didn't know what to do, and he didn't listen to me when I asked him why he was doing all this. When things couldn't possible get more strange, out of nowhere, a giant ass Pokemon called Dialga (Google it and the rest of the dream will make much more sense) stormed into my room, destroyed almost half of it, and ate my former crush. I think it was about to eat me too, but then I woke up.

Yes, it was pretty damn strange seeing him at school the next day. Other than around three years ago when there was another dream which I was resting outside and this guy I didn't even know thought it would be funny to kiss me, I've had no other sexual, or even romantic, dreams.

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nerdperson777

Dialga Om Nom Nom Adventures, coming to a screen near you. :lol:

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