Have you had sex?/Have you not had sex?

[chuckylover911]

Nope and I don't plan too. I just don't see the point.

[Digitus1]

have 'made love' instead.
That is, I engaged in said activity in a loving relationship as a way of expressing my love in an extremely intimate manner.
The act itself was at most OK.
When the relationship cooled it became more like work, then like unpleasant work, and I stopped.
Cannot see myself ever doing it again in this lifetime...

[Randomchaos]

I have not had sex, and I don't really plan on it. Who knows though, I have never been in a relationship and while sex grosses me out I would probably be okay with compromising if I felt a deep connection with a sexual person. Won't know until it happens lol

[swirlyink]

Have had sex. I've had some I've really regretted and some I really enjoyed and some I've felt ambivalent about. Overall most of it I feel I could of done without and most of it, especially when I was younger I was pressured into. Ive had one partner sex was a positive experience with. I dont find it gross I just don't find it fun much in it either and I tend to feel bad after.

[karmickaren]

I'm sure this topic has come up before, but I'd like to ask anyway. This is for everyone (ace, grey-ace, demi, etc).

Have you had sex? Do you wish you hadn't?

Or:

Have you not had sex? Do you wish you had?

I have had sex, in all of my past relationships....but NEVER was I aroused or even had an orgasm....sad but I did it because they wanted to......now I live my life for me and I do not have any interest in finding anyone or starting a relationship.....because I know....sex is going to come up and be something they are expecting.....so unless I meet another Asexual or someone who understands me, I could easily be single the rest of my life....hell, I can get my own self off don't need someone else for that :)