Philghtid Posted May 6, 2015 Share Posted May 6, 2015 Hi everyone I'm new on here I'm asexual and hetroromantic yet I get turned on by porn I need to make new friends who understand me I feel so alone it's horrible. I beg your help. Please help Link to post Share on other sites
Elluna Hellen Posted May 6, 2015 Share Posted May 6, 2015 Hello! Don't worry, there are plenty of people like you, here :). Link to post Share on other sites
Autumn Season Posted May 6, 2015 Share Posted May 6, 2015 Agreed. ^^ Many people here feel the same. Welcome to AVEN! I hope you enjoy it here. Link to post Share on other sites
Philghtid Posted May 6, 2015 Author Share Posted May 6, 2015 Thank u hun. Not sure if I'm on right site hun I only feel sexual while I have had drugs and its been towards men. Most ppl will just think I'm a closet gay but I'm def hetero romantic. Tried meeting a cpl of guys before but it felt so wrong. It felt right with women a few times when I was kissin and cuddling them on one occasion it felt fantastic but when it came to the sex...Nothing. I don't know what to do not sure if anyone has the same problems as me it's awful 😞 Thank u Autumn. Would be nice to meet some ppl on here sometimes. Non of my friends know anything about this Link to post Share on other sites
Chello Posted May 6, 2015 Share Posted May 6, 2015 I understand completely, except I've never had an interest in porn, just book smut haha. I'm new here too, so hey:) Link to post Share on other sites
Lewis Pavey28 Posted May 6, 2015 Share Posted May 6, 2015 Hi there I am new as well and I agree with what you say I love cuddling and kissing but sex is boring I'd rather watch the wall by pink Floyd tripping lol :) Hi there I am also new and I agree with you for me I love cuddling and kissing but find sex boring rather spend a hour listening to my mum lol Link to post Share on other sites
Philghtid Posted May 6, 2015 Author Share Posted May 6, 2015 What's book smut lol? I think I'm asexual but the gay feelings I get when I used drugs were intense to the point I'm concrete certain I'm gay. I get turned on by male genitali but not female. But it's just porn. But when I'm out I don't look at guys and think "bloody hell I want him" the desire just isn't even there. Yet I do look at women and I am attracted to them but not in a sexual way. I also cross dress when I look at the porn. I want these feelings to stay when I'm like this but they fade away everytime. Does this class me as asexual or not? I'm so confused 😞 Link to post Share on other sites
Nowe13 Posted May 6, 2015 Share Posted May 6, 2015 well Philghtid i think i'll introduce you to a term that may help define that but honestly you might want to research it into more depth cause i only really know of the term and little else. anyway go have a look for autochorissexual As i understand it may be basically what your trying to say Anyway welcome to the land of the Ace's and i hope you find what you need here. Welcome to the Ace house Link to post Share on other sites
Philghtid Posted May 6, 2015 Author Share Posted May 6, 2015 Cheers mate. I'm gonna research it in a bit. This is a great site so glad I found it its keeping me goin 😃 Link to post Share on other sites
Steph Ace Posted May 6, 2015 Share Posted May 6, 2015 Welcome to AVEN Phil :) Link to post Share on other sites
<Tom> Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 I'm new here too, feel free to message me any time if you fancy a chat, you're not as alone as you'd think :D Link to post Share on other sites
Lady Girl Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 Hi and welcome to AVEN! There are others here who have similar feelings as you. I'm glad you joined and hope you love being part of this awesome community!!! :) Link to post Share on other sites
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