cosmosredshift7 Posted May 4, 2015 Share Posted May 4, 2015 I identify as a demisexual, but i'm not really sure..where i fall on the sex positive/neutral/repulsed/averse spectrum. I never even really thought about having sex myself until college; I learned my sophomore year that I asexuality was a thing, and assumed I was just ace, until I got into a relationship. There's a problem, though, that makes me unable to figure out whether I am fully ace, or demi: I find naked bodies...really meh- it doesn't matter if i'm dating the person long enough to want to have sex with them; I can have fantasies but I generally like people a lot more with their clothes on? >_> Link to post Share on other sites
Elluna Hellen Posted May 4, 2015 Share Posted May 4, 2015 that's okay. Give yourself time to figure it all out. You don't owe anyone an explanation but yourself. :) Link to post Share on other sites
Skycaptain Posted May 4, 2015 Share Posted May 4, 2015 I agree. be yourself, and don't try to look for labels, that becomes even more confusing than just considering the concept of asexuality. Your body and your mind know what you like/appreciate and what revolts you. Don't fight this, just follow your instincts, it will save you a lot of heartache later on. The very best thing you can do is to be honest with yourself Link to post Share on other sites
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