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Lexi-Grace

Hi, im Lexi and I'm 15 years old ^_^ (some :cake: for all of you who are reading this :P)

So i have always felt a little different from all my friends, especially over the last few years what with sex becoming all the rage for most people my age; but i had never really got why and for the past year i have been really confused about why i just wasn't interested in sex, i mean i don't mind talking about it but the actual act has always just been meh to me, like there are things id prefer to be doing like going on an adventure to a new country or climbing a mountain. I had never heard the term 'asexual' until about 4 months ago i think, when i stumbled across a Laci Green video explaining what it is and it just clicked! it was (cliche i know) like all the puzzle pieces just fit together.

I finally understood why i didn't want to have sex with all these guys or why i didn't feel anything for all these hot celebrities that my friends are melting over. Don't get me wrong, i find people aesthetically pleasing to look at but it has never been followed with sexual thoughts, and when i told this to me friend she replied with "how can you not?" and i just replied with "like this".

Although i got really confused because when i became really close friends with a guy once, i got really deep romantic feelings for him and in that i did have some sexual thoughts i guess, soooo i got super confused again. But then i found Demi-sexsual and i thought that that label kinda worked too. But for the most i would say I'm pretty much Asexual but i am obviously still young and i haven't had a boyfriend before just that one crush like a year ago that i mentioned above; but at the same time i feel like i just know.

But for now while I'm still trying to figure it all out, i am so happy to have found this place where other people feel similar things to me, it wonderful :lol:

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CosineTheCat

Hello and Welcome to AVEN!

You've come to the right place if you're questioning, There are some great places to go to and ask questions if you want such as the Asexual Q&A. I'm glad that you found this place, you're still young and I always like to say that in life you're never meant to define yourself as something and feel constricted by your own definition. Life is fluid just like all of us should be :) Anywho, I hope you come to love AVEN as much as many of us do.

Welcome again!

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Lexi-Grace

Thank you, I'm sure i will

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Elluna Hellen

Welcome. Give yourself time to figure it all out! :cake: :cake: :cake:

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Ocelot111014

Hai welcome I hope you like it here!!!!!!! It's a pretty maxing place! If you ever need to talk to someone feel free to message me!

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KaitMarie

Welcome Lexi, :cake: I hope you like it on here it's a pretty amazing place with awesome and accepting people, I'm 16 so I myself am sort of going through the same thing at the moment, if you ever want to talk feel free to message me !! :cake:

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ElectricMongoose

Hiya Ms.Lexi! Welcome to AVEN!! :cake: :cake: I can definitely agree that there is much more to life than sex, like scaling mountains and visiting ancient civilizations. :D I hope you enjoy it here and good luck on your journey of discovering more about yourself and your Ace identity friend!

Here is some Ice cream cake for you!

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Steph Ace

Welcome to AVEN lexi!

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Lady Girl

Hi and welcome to AVEN! There are others here still figuring things out like you, and many do have similar feelings. I'm glad you found the Laci Green videos. I'm glad you joined and hope you love being part of this awesome community!!! :)

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Lexi-Grace

Thanks all, yeah i am still trying to figure everything out, but I'm glad i have got this far :D :D

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