Dimonaire Posted April 24, 2015 Share Posted April 24, 2015 Hey guys! Jw, what consists of sensual activities? I think cuddling is one of them......holding hands maybe...no genital stimulation though right? Ack! Link to post Share on other sites
Squirrel Combat Posted April 24, 2015 Share Posted April 24, 2015 Eating cake together is pretty sensual, don't ya think? ;) Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted April 24, 2015 Share Posted April 24, 2015 For me, sensual activity is everything that doesn't involve actual sex (sex being genital stimulation by the other person for your sexual pleasure/release) Link to post Share on other sites
WünderBâhr Posted April 24, 2015 Share Posted April 24, 2015 Moved to The Gray Area, Sex and Related Discussions forum. Bipolar Bear Asexual Q&A Mod Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted April 24, 2015 Share Posted April 24, 2015 For me, sensual activity is everything that doesn't involve actual sex (sex being genital stimulation by the other person for your sexual pleasure/release) Agreed to your definition of sex... but this "everything" needs clarification: Everything that involves physically touching each other. (I'd say regardless of whether IRL or over virtual channels, though.) Yes, Captain Nitpick strikes again. :p Link to post Share on other sites
Kuromi Akumura Posted May 6, 2015 Share Posted May 6, 2015 stoking, massaging, kissing, holding, nibbling and actually i heard of licking as well :3 Link to post Share on other sites
Otakon Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 the possibilities are seemingly infinite as it is entirely based on perspective Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 I kinda like the idea of leaning against someone while watching tv or something. But I like hugs in my head and not real life, so what plays out in my head won't necessarily be what happens in real life. *shrugs* Then again I've never been in a relationship, so who knows. Link to post Share on other sites
RedOwl Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 Eating cake together is pretty sensual, don't ya think? ;)I like you for this.In a more serious note, for me it would be something along the lines of holding each other, lying together, kissing (not just on the lips) and any kind of skin to skin contact. Link to post Share on other sites
Guy Fawkes Posted May 9, 2015 Share Posted May 9, 2015 Anything thst isnt sex. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted May 9, 2015 Share Posted May 9, 2015 For me, sensual activity is everything that doesn't involve actual sex (sex being genital stimulation by the other person for your sexual pleasure/release) Agreed to your definition of sex... but this "everything" needs clarification: Everything that involves physically touching each other. (I'd say regardless of whether IRL or over virtual channels, though.)Yes, Captain Nitpick strikes again. :p Just saw this. hmmm I don't know if I agree with you! what about flirting and dirty talk? no touch required but they can both still be very sensual activities between partners/friends with benefits.. even random strangers who are looking for a good time if that's your thing haha ..and can certainly get the blood flowing the way touch can (even moreso for me actually) ..Maybe I should have worded it: any pleasurable intimate act between two people that doesn't involve sex? :o Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted May 9, 2015 Share Posted May 9, 2015 Just saw this. hmmm I don't know if I agree with you! what about flirting and dirty talk? no touch required but they can both still be very sensual activities between partners/friends with benefits.. Hmm... I wouldn't call that sensual... I really dunno what to call it instead, though. IMO, that's closely related to sensuality in the same way that foreplay is closely related to intercourse. Not "it, itself" yet, but coming very close on the pathway to that destination? Hehe. I just find it... well, odd... to call something sensual that doesn't involve touch; it doesn't matter whether it's physical/"real", or simulated/virtual touch... but touch must be involved, for me. It's okay if you draw that line elsewhere, though. This isn't one of the words where I'd insist my definition were the "true meaning". :P ;) Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted May 9, 2015 Share Posted May 9, 2015 well for me dirty talk/flirtation cause exactly the same feelings inside my body as any sensual activity that would involve touch.. and I also find both of them very intimate and bonding.. so to me, definitely sensual. But if you're not someone who can experience that same deep pleasure from dirty talk/flirtation etc that you can experience from sensual touch, then I understand how it wouldn't count as sensual at all (Maybe just weird and awkward haha) Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted May 9, 2015 Share Posted May 9, 2015 Well it's not like touch itself didn't feel awkward for me a lot of the time, too. I'm not overly good at this, and I sure prefer typing *hug* into a chat window than to actually wrap my physical arms around a physical fellow human being... Trying to imagine flirts/dirty talk that explicitly go without (clear intent to lead to) touch... Yeah, that does sounds pretty odd to me, personally. I'd probably ask you "why do you have to be such a tease?" in the hypothetical scenario that you tried that on me. :lol: Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted May 9, 2015 Share Posted May 9, 2015 haha well it's actually quite a bit of fun :p getting the other person all worked up and getting all worked up yourself and knowing there is no expectation for it to go anywhere.. Probably just another kink of mine though clearly not everyone's cup of tea ehe. To be honest, I enjoy it more than actual sensual activities themselves a lot of the time, so much less effort to carry on a kinky convo and *maybe* send some pics haha, than try to think about where to type to put your arms and head etc.. awkward (and yes I really am that lazy haha) .. and when I say sensual activities mine are actually all cyber heh, I haven't been with a meat person for many years :p edit: I hope there aren't too many typos btw I'm on my phone and it's so unpredictable, that is also the reason for the current lack of pretty purple :c Link to post Share on other sites
C-Lo Posted May 9, 2015 Share Posted May 9, 2015 ... To be honest, I enjoy it more than actual sensual activities themselves a lot of the time, so much less effort to carry on a kinky convo and *maybe* send some pics haha, than try to think about where to type to put your arms and head etc... This thoroughly confused my brain... ... and when I say sensual activities mine are actually all cyber heh, I haven't been with a meat person for many years :P ... Now I get it. Link to post Share on other sites
Kuromi Akumura Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 hey guys i got a weird question i was asked not a while back but like some BDSM (but just the dominant side) activities but sensual not sexual?? i tried googling some but i found nothing. Someone asked me if there is such thing as sensual BDSM and i couldn't answer them. Link to post Share on other sites
RK800 Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 Theoretically anything that involves physical touch is sensual however in a broader, hypothetical sense it could be anything that causes 'feels'. hey guys i got a weird question i was asked not a while back but like some BDSM (but just the dominant side) activities but sensual not sexual?? i tried googling some but i found nothing. Someone asked me if there is such thing as sensual BDSM and i couldn't answer them.It can indeed be sensual and entirely non-sexual. Link to post Share on other sites
DiamandisQueen Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 It's different for everyone :~) for me its mainly cuddling cuddlin is fun Link to post Share on other sites
allrightalready Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 For me, sensual activity is everything that doesn't involve actual sex (sex being genital stimulation by the other person for your sexual pleasure/release) Agreed to your definition of sex... but this "everything" needs clarification: Everything that involves physically touching each other. (I'd say regardless of whether IRL or over virtual channels, though.) Yes, Captain Nitpick strikes again. :P the first day i was with someone i ended up in a relationship with we did not touch each other at all but just shared pie and conversation and eating some of each others pie was very sensual hey guys i got a weird question i was asked not a while back but like some BDSM (but just the dominant side) activities but sensual not sexual?? i tried googling some but i found nothing. Someone asked me if there is such thing as sensual BDSM and i couldn't answer them. BDSM is in fact almost entirely about the sensory/sensual experience and then the support afterwards, any sex that might be included (and it is not always included) is just an added sensory/sensual experience Link to post Share on other sites
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