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So I have been having issues with a friend I communicate with on Skype IMing, but we are having a hard time seeing seeing exactly what those issues are. We were going to go to a therapists but even the cheapest option was a bit much. We found a free service that said are best option was to have another friend mediate, but that is something of a problem because we do not have third person in this circle so far so we need somebody outside. I am not sure where else to go with this so I guess I am asking here. Does anybody here think they would be good (or at least good enough) at this and are willing to help us out?

It is a friend I care about very much and I would hate to loose them, but we can not keep going the way we have been.

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Mediate how exactly?

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I'd be willing and I might be able to help (depends on time), but as mentioned I'd like to know what exactly you need.

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Sadly, I don't use Skype, but I do want to tell you that I hope this works out.

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nerdperson777

I would help but I'm not confident in my mediation skills. I just try to take a non-biased look at the situation.

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AnActualAngel

I might be able to help, but I don't really understand what you mean

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MissLunarWolf

You can add me to your list of potential mediators. Message me if you need anything ^_^

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So for those asking, I asked them how to explain what we needed with mediation and they said I could copy and paste this to explain.

"You had both sides presenting what they have to say.
Their feelings, perspectives, and thoughts
And the mediator tries to calm both of them down and try to see where the fundamental disagreements are.
They're a third party.
That's the whole reason why I sought out therapy.
I just wanted a mediator in the first place.
It'd be the best thing for us.
It would help to defuse arguments before they became arguments in the first place.
Someone who doesn't have a personal attachment to us or this relationship can clearly see where things start to go haywire in ways we can't see until it's too late."
Basically out conversations are too often devolving into exhausting arguments and we need a third person to help us not do that.
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Calamity Jim

You could just copy paste the conversations, not tell us which person is you, and basically get everyone here to mediate so you would get all the sides.

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You could just copy paste the conversations, not tell us which person is you, and basically get everyone here to mediate so you would get all the sides.

I think that's a good idea, if you're comfortable with it OP.

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You could just copy paste the conversations, not tell us which person is you, and basically get everyone here to mediate so you would get all the sides.

I asked them, they said they would not be comfortable with this.

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I regret to inform you all that based on recent events and a recommendation from a specialists and my parents I have been forced to terminate the friendship indefinitely. Sorry to waste your time with all this.

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I'm sorry. :(

I don't see it as wasted time at all, it was trying to solve a problem. It was good of you to try so hard.

I wish you the best.

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