Superstring Posted March 23, 2015 Share Posted March 23, 2015 Hey guys, first post here. I'm a 25 year old male and I don't know what my sexuality even is anymore. I'm definitely not homosexual, but I've never had sex, and I'm also not attracted to the vagina or breasts. Typical sexual porn does nothing for me. I don't go out of my way to get laid, unlike most guys (hence why I'm still a virgin). This, to me, is a sign I might be asexual. However... I am very much aroused by a lot of other aspects of a woman's body, such as the belly, neck, heartbeat, breathing, etc. I am into vore, I fantasize about being a hot woman's doctor, and I masturbate visualizing all this (either in my head or on my computer screen), basically every day. Of course, the woman has to be someone I find attractive, with a cute face and a thin enough figure. I have a few female friends who attract me in this way, and I've gotten boners around them before (by something as simple as seeing their belly button, for example, never related to wanting intercourse). I also desire a romantic relationship, again only with an attractive woman. I love the idea of cuddling and physical intimacy, which makes me a heteroromantic for sure. But it's the whole "let me examine your body" arousal thing -- around certain women and with indifference towards sex -- that's throwing me off. Am I just some kind of heterosexual fetishist? Or am I an asexual? I'm quite confused. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
SorryNotSorry Posted March 23, 2015 Share Posted March 23, 2015 I can relate, being a 47-yo straight man with no desire to have sex... I have my own ideals of feminine beauty, which I daresay few other men would find attractive, even allowing for cultural differences in body aesthetics. Basically, my ideal of feminine beauty omits reproductive capabilities, so I'm not automatically turned off to a potential partner just because she might be infertile---to me this is not a source of shame. Likewise I'm not turned on by large female breasts, again because my ideal partner would never use them for their natural purpose. Psychologically, she has no maternal instincts and no desire to reproduce. A tall order, to be sure... but I know what I find attractive, and what I don't. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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