James Oswald Posted March 12, 2015 Share Posted March 12, 2015 I've been experimenting. Although I'm asexual I know I have a high libido because I masturbate every day. But, I stopped doing it 4 days ago and I feel different. I am not so disgusted by the idea of having sex anymore and of course I get super horny everyday and can't stop looking at guys' asses, but I'm still not sure I want to try sex. I don't know. Maybe it's just the libido having fun with my brain. :D Do you ever feel like this? And do you ever dream about having sex? I've had this dream, once. :\ Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Caehlim Posted March 12, 2015 Share Posted March 12, 2015 I haven't experienced exactly that before. It's hard to say because I wouldn't describe myself as disgusted by the idea of having sex, just not interested. If I go a long time without masturbating I do get physically aroused a lot more often but I don't really find it changing much else. I don't really find looking at attractive men to be linked to arousal with me and I've never understood the appeal of looking at a guy's ass from an aesthetic point of view. (Aesthetically I'm more into men's chests personally). I've never had an arousing sex dream that I can remember. I did once have a heterosexual dream, although I'm not even aesthetically attracted to women. That didn't make me feel aroused, just a little creeped out and wondering what was going on in my subconscious when I woke up. Doesn't sound as though it's anything to be too concerned about though. If you find that you do start desiring partnered sex then potentially you have a very minimal sex drive that requires you to have a very high unsatisfied libido to experience. Perhaps you'd be somewhere in the grey-a part of the spectrum. It's also possible that your brain is just trying to find an outlet for your unsatisfied libido and is using your dreams and subconscious thoughts to try out different options. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Howard Posted March 15, 2015 Share Posted March 15, 2015 I can't say I start feeling sexual attraction when I stop masturbating. I do have erotic dreams from time to time, but I don't see a connection with my masturbation. Be assured though, it's okay if you feel those attractions. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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