Allotasm Posted February 27, 2015 Share Posted February 27, 2015 *waves* Suppose I should say hello. I'm 24 and sexual, my partner is realizing he is asexual but we've been together long enough most of it is just readjusting in a space we've already built for each other. Forums and discussion and research and googling is how I process, so here I am. I'm also like, way more interested in asexuality now that it'll be all up in my life all the time instead of just part of my queer spectrum (I am bisexual/pansexual/whatever) Link to post Share on other sites
Lady Girl Posted February 27, 2015 Share Posted February 27, 2015 Hi and welcome to AVEN! I saw your topic in the For Sexual Partners, Friends and Allies forum. I still might respond there, but I'm coming up on a couple busy days at work (so I might not get a chance to do it). Just off the top of my head, I can say this (as I'm in a reaaalllly long term relationship with an asexual guy), I do appreciate other people noticing if I am attractive. Like you said in your thread, you know he finds you beautiful, but it's that extra something you really need for a portion of your self esteem. Anyway, not to derail your intro thread...I hope you love being a member here!!! :) Link to post Share on other sites
Perseus Posted February 27, 2015 Share Posted February 27, 2015 Welcome to AVEN. Link to post Share on other sites
Xavy Posted February 27, 2015 Share Posted February 27, 2015 Hello and welcome Link to post Share on other sites
kelico Posted February 27, 2015 Share Posted February 27, 2015 Welcome to AVEN! You've come to the best community around!! : ) We're all super nice and helpful...and you'll learn a whole lot. It's great that you joined here and want to work with your partner. Take care! I hope you like it here~ Link to post Share on other sites
Allotasm Posted February 27, 2015 Author Share Posted February 27, 2015 Hi and welcome to AVEN! I saw your topic in the For Sexual Partners, Friends and Allies forum. I still might respond there, but I'm coming up on a couple busy days at work (so I might not get a chance to do it). Just off the top of my head, I can say this (as I'm in a reaaalllly long term relationship with an asexual guy), I do appreciate other people noticing if I am attractive. Like you said in your thread, you know he finds you beautiful, but it's that extra something you really need for a portion of your self esteem. Anyway, not to derail your intro thread...I hope you love being a member here!!! :) Thanks so much, its nice to know I'm not unreasonable and other people have similar feels :D Link to post Share on other sites
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