DentChan Posted January 30, 2015 Share Posted January 30, 2015 I just turned 20 few days ago, and somehow I found this website and just registered just a while ago I just have no where else to talk about this so I guess I should try posting them here, it seems to be a good thing to do People in my country most likely won't agree on the existence of Asexuality, or rather I'd say barely even 1% of the citizen know about this, when I told my friend about this, they did not deny me, but they just find it hard to accept that there is such sexuality existed, or maybe they dun even believe in me, I only chose friends that really closed to me to tell, but even so, they dun really seems to trust me that I have no intention of having sex, with man or woman. So I guess I'll stop telling people and let them go and decide whatever they think my sexuality is. I feel no difference in having relationship with man or woman, for me it's the same, I fall in love with man sometimes, sometimes woman, and I'm glad of this because I have wider choice of people to fall in love to, some of my friends know about this as well. But, I'm having a hard time to get into relationship right now, with my realization of self being asexual, I always thought I was bi until nearly half year ago I realized about myself, and I feel happy about being asexual, for no reason I'm really happy that asexual is part of me. At the same time, I know it will be nearly impossible for me to get into relationship, sex is necessary to almost everybody, not to mention that the country I live in right now, is probably impossible for me to meet someone or get in relationship with someone that can agree not to have sexual activity, I'm not being desperate alright, I'm just facing the fact here.. Sorry that I talked so much ,haha, thanks for anyone who read this, I feel a lot better now Link to post Share on other sites
element83 Posted January 30, 2015 Share Posted January 30, 2015 I can identify with that to a pretty large extent. In high school sex education class, I mentioned asexuality (because by then I'd figured out that part of my identity) and the teacher said that she didn't think that existed, because everyone has 'urges'. I thought that I'd be forever alone, or that I'd have to engage in compromise sex, because I didn't think I'd ever meet another asexual person, or rather that if I ever met an asexual person, I wouldn't know that they were asexual. Meeting people online has the added benefit that people sometimes list their asexuality publicly, and that can make people easier to find. There are also specifically asexual dating sites. But you might also surprise yourself like I did and find people offline who are asexual. I met three people offline through university who turned out to be asexual (I'm still amazed that that happened). Link to post Share on other sites
PatheticGirl Posted February 1, 2015 Share Posted February 1, 2015 Difficult to understand those who speak different language. Asexuality is new language for the world and so, no one believes that there are people who can communicate in that language. Link to post Share on other sites
ClaroBralis Posted February 1, 2015 Share Posted February 1, 2015 Relationship for me: Understanding, love, support, talk, be together in good in bad, planning future... Link to post Share on other sites
Anete Posted February 3, 2015 Share Posted February 3, 2015 I would like to have a romantic relationship with a person who have a similar mindset as much as possible although I know that to find exactly similar person is impossible and I don't keep it in my mind. Everyone has different mindset, hobbies, habits and need to ingnore the differences if it is possible. For me is important compassion, supporting, emotional closeness but I don't concentrate on entertainments like different hobbies and activities. Link to post Share on other sites
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