Awkward Scientist Posted January 29, 2015 Share Posted January 29, 2015 Hello, I'm a 24 year old student. I've been debating about whether to do this for a while now, but didn't know if I was justified to do so. I've never had sex- I got with a guy once to see what the fuss was about and I'm still wondering. It just felt completely pointless and not enjoyable. And that's it. I wondered whether it was just a bad kiss, whether I could be gay (as my name suggests, I play rugby, so it's hardly a new concept) but then I realised that I just absolutely no desire to get with/sleep with anybody, male or female, so here I am. I'm pretty sure I'm not aromatic and I'd quite like to be in a relationship and see what happens. I don't know where I am on the asexual spectrum- whether I'd be demisexual, or whether I'd continue to be indifferent, even in a relationship. Or is it one of those things where you can either know you are or know you aren't? Anyway, here I am, hopefully I'll find some answers and learn more about myself. I don't think I know anybody like myself in real life (though who really knows?) Hobbies: rugby- I watch and play. I'm a bit of a science geek. I quite enjoy playing computer games (though I'm by no means a gamer in the sense that I only play occasionally) and like a bit of Pokemon (the games, I don't follow the anime or manga). Sorry for the long post and I hope it was the right sort of thing for this forum :) Link to post Share on other sites
Amimere Posted January 29, 2015 Share Posted January 29, 2015 Welcome to AVEN :cake: :cake: Link to post Share on other sites
ThaHoward Posted January 29, 2015 Share Posted January 29, 2015 Welcome! Still an awesome picture :D Link to post Share on other sites
theam Posted January 29, 2015 Share Posted January 29, 2015 Welcome! It's great to have you here. Link to post Share on other sites
Perseus Posted January 29, 2015 Share Posted January 29, 2015 Welcome to AVEN. We are glad you are here. Link to post Share on other sites
Gizamaluke Posted January 29, 2015 Share Posted January 29, 2015 Allo, you're sure to find like-minded people here, if not out there in the big bad world. Link to post Share on other sites
kimbo21 Posted January 29, 2015 Share Posted January 29, 2015 Welcome :) lovely to have you here. I hope you love it as much as I do :) I'm from the uk also Link to post Share on other sites
kelico Posted January 30, 2015 Share Posted January 30, 2015 Welcome to AVEN! So glad you joined and introduced yourself. : )) This is a really awesome community. Tons of great people and helpful information everywhere! You'll certainly be on your way to learning more about yourself, and we're happy to help. Best wishes! Link to post Share on other sites
Lady Girl Posted January 30, 2015 Share Posted January 30, 2015 Hi and welcome! Your intro was great and definitely in the right place. I hope you love being a member here (there are others who are still figuring out where they are in the spectrum like you). Happy posting and friend making!!! :) Link to post Share on other sites
deltaX Posted January 30, 2015 Share Posted January 30, 2015 Hello and welcome to AVEN! :cake: Some people know their sexuality immediately, but others need some time to figure it out, so don't worry that you aren't completely sure of yourself yet. You've come to the right place though, as AVEN is a great place to learn and discover yourself. Hopefully being a member here will help you gain more confidence and acceptance of yourself and your identity :) Link to post Share on other sites
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