I'm Asexual and Aromantic, Can I Still find a Partner?

[Guest Kam97]

There is one for everyone! Try your luck, u have nothing to lose. :D

[Sylphgoddess]

Queer platonic or Quasiplatonic relationships are just what you are looking for then. Good Luck.

[Xavy]

I am aro ace myself, and I believe it is possible to find a partner, although I am quite fine without one.

[Barylambda]

Just keep searching, I'm sure there has to be someone you can share your life with yet respect your boundaries. I think of myself as the Doctor, looking for a companion for adventures.

[Skycaptain]

Barylambda, thanks, you have just put my thoughts about me into a coherent sentence.

[binary suns]

I'm romantic asexual, but I can accept being in a life long relationship with an aromantic asexual, as long as he still love me in a non-romantic way and want me to keep him ccompany for life long. As long as being loved and cared about, I don't care much about whether I'm being loved in a romantic or non-romantic way.

Fully agreed. In fact, I /prefer/ being loved in a non-romantic way, because it means they want me for who I am, and will continue to want me even if their life situation/mood changes.

because it's way easier for me to compromise to not asking for romantic act than for sexual people to compromise to not asking for sex

I think you can be aromantic and sensual at the same time. As in, you might not get "attracted" to people, but you might still very much enjoy physical contact with someone you feel close to.

romantics don't care about you for you? :O that's ignorant :p

aromantic sensual? :O you're talking about me :D

I am an aromantic and asexual who wants a lifelong partnership. For me the way part is that the way I am demisensual allows me to appreciate the physical aspects of a sexual or romantic relationship, actually. The downside is, I have no way to validate a relationship when someone is interested in me, and no way to pick someone out of a crowd and say "they're the one I want"...