lady_Ivory Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 I've dated a few guys and have really liked them a lot but not enough to go all the way with them,in the past .So now that I've found someone who makes me want him sexually it kinda shocks me every time I feel that way. Me and him have been on and off for a few months now and so every time we get back together its so easy for him to make me want him and its kinda scary to me because I'm use to not wanting a sexual relationship and so when he get me in the mood it blows my mind.I don't understand how I can feel that way, its so intense and it feels good to let the desire out .I wonder is this how sexuals feel all the time ? Lol . I've never felt like this about a guy ever and I can't even imagine saying no to him. I'm just freaking out because I don't know how to control my feelings or if I should ,like I don't know how this is suppose to work . Link to post Share on other sites
dissolved Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 I don't think sexuals feel that way all the time, they just probably find it easier to get to that stage. Probably. I know what you mean about the intensity though - I used to find it quite overwhelming but with time I've found it easier to be around that particular person. I haven't had the chance to "let the desire out" though :-D Link to post Share on other sites
SidesSeer Posted February 3, 2015 Share Posted February 3, 2015 I consider myself hetero-demi, and I think I get where you're coming from. I've got a male FWB and I'm intensely attracted to him, have been for a couple of months, and sometimes it still startles me. Like, (TMI) I'll get all horny thinking about him, and somewhere I inevitably stop and am like, "Whoa guys! This is a man I'm mooning over!" I wouldn't think twice if it was a woman. It's really a strange feeling, especially when I can't imagine thinking about other guys that way, and this man is the first I've seriously been attracted to in years. I also get wanting him every time he comes back lol. But hell, it feels good, the desire and the reciprocity, so I say go for it if it makes sense to you! I think the only time you should try to control it, in general, is when there could be regretful consequences later. Like, I have a major crush on a woman right now, and sometimes I REALLY REALLY want to start something with her, but I know better because I actually don't want commitment right now, so we'd probably just get hurt in the end. BTW, thanks for posting this. I'm getting more and more comfortable with the hetero-demi identity, and it's posts like yours that help. XD Link to post Share on other sites
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