Skylynxify Posted January 23, 2015 Share Posted January 23, 2015 Hey there, as you might have guessed I am new to this site! My sexuality (or should I say lack their of) has confused since puberty first hit and in some aspects still confuse me. Naturally at first I thought I was straight, that is until I came across a rather adult site and watched some videos and found myself more drawn to the lady then the man. After that I had thought that I was a lesbian and it didn't help that some my female classmate started "growing" at alarming rates. However once the guys caught up and started getting taller and more muscular and I thought that I was bi. It actually wasn't until last year when I looked back on those awkward teen years and one failed relationship that I finally realized I had never felt the desire or need to have sex with anyone. Sure I have though people were visually pleasing but never once thought about sex. I looked up a list of different sexualities and asexual seemed to make the most sense but I kind of just pushed it off to the side because I still sure that I was bi and just didn't find the right person. I don't know why but today I just suddenly began to think about it again, I reread the Wikipedia page, found this site, read the FAQ and the Asexual Perspectives page, and joined up. I'm still not 100% sure whether or not to identify as asexual but it feels more right then anything else so far. OKAY! With that out of the way how would you like to get to know me a little? :D I'm a 22 year old woman, I am usually shy and soft spoken when I first meet new people do to some slight bullying traumas but thanks to working at Dunkin Donuts and some therapy I am improving a lot. I tend to be a bit brash or unfiltered with my words but only when I am with people that I'm comfortable near or on the internet. Some people have told me that my no nonsense attitude and strong opinions are "refreshing" but I understand not everyone will see it that way so I apologize in advance if I get on your nerves. I like to be random, goofy, and spontaneous, the kind of girl that just starts doing the Macarena for no reason. Video games, anime, and manga are my life, I'm not obsessed but it does bring me the most joy and I'm not afraid to call myself a geek or an otaku. I'm also not afraid to admit that I love Pokemon and My Little Pony, I know a lot of people say it's for little kids but oh well. Any way I think thats all the important stuff so see ya around! Link to post Share on other sites
deem0 Posted January 23, 2015 Share Posted January 23, 2015 Hi, welcome to AVEN!! It is totally a-okay for you to identify as asexual if that's what makes you comfortable, and if you change your mind later that's totally fine too! ^_^ I know quite a few people on here who aren't entirely sure what labels fit them best, but AVEN can be really useful with providing information and different perspectives and that can really help when discovering your sexuality. We're a pretty friendly community too imo so I'm sure you'll make friends in no time! C: Link to post Share on other sites
OddAudio Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 Hello!! Have some cake and know you are not alone! :D Link to post Share on other sites
Ficulnean Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 Hello and a big welcome to AVEN! A lot of what you're describing is how I fealt too. Link to post Share on other sites
Karret Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 Welcome to AVEN! n.n There's lots of info around here, and if you still want some answers, there's lots of info here and I'm sure you'll be able to learn a lot about it and become confident in what term you feel best describes you~ C: I don't know why anyone should be ashamed to admit they like pogeymans... it seems pretty common for people to still like it. I may hate the show now, but the games and the cards are still so damn bitchin. * 3* Link to post Share on other sites
Lady Girl Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 Hi and welcome! I think you'll find that a lot of people here share some of your feelings and many are still searching for definite answers too. I hope you love being a member!!! :) Link to post Share on other sites
Lone Ranger Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 Hi SkylynxifyWelcome to Aven :) Link to post Share on other sites
Skylynxify Posted January 24, 2015 Author Share Posted January 24, 2015 Welcome to AVEN! n.n There's lots of info around here, and if you still want some answers, there's lots of info here and I'm sure you'll be able to learn a lot about it and become confident in what term you feel best describes you~ C: I don't know why anyone should be ashamed to admit they like pogeymans... it seems pretty common for people to still like it. I may hate the show now, but the games and the cards are still so damn bitchin. * 3* Yeah I stopped watching the show shortly after Misty got replaced by May and Max but I love the games and the cards, I have like 8 decks and I already beat Omega Ruby twice! :D Hi Skylynxify Welcome to Aven :) Thank you! Hi and welcome! I think you'll find that a lot of people here share some of your feelings and many are still searching for definite answers too. I hope you love being a member!!! :) Already it looks like a far better community then other forums and social sites i've been on, so friendly. Hello and a big welcome to AVEN! A lot of what you're describing is how I fealt too. Thanks, really it's just enough to know that there are other people but I need to be more social and open with other people. It's always easier with people that are like you. Hello!! Have some cake and know you are not alone! :D Thanks! OMNOMNOMNOMNOMNOMNOM! Hi, welcome to AVEN!! It is totally a-okay for you to identify as asexual if that's what makes you comfortable, and if you change your mind later that's totally fine too! ^_^ I know quite a few people on here who aren't entirely sure what labels fit them best, but AVEN can be really useful with providing information and different perspectives and that can really help when discovering your sexuality. We're a pretty friendly community too imo so I'm sure you'll make friends in no time! C: Thanks :D Link to post Share on other sites
Karret Posted January 25, 2015 Share Posted January 25, 2015 Welcome to AVEN! n.n There's lots of info around here, and if you still want some answers, there's lots of info here and I'm sure you'll be able to learn a lot about it and become confident in what term you feel best describes you~ C: I don't know why anyone should be ashamed to admit they like pogeymans... it seems pretty common for people to still like it. I may hate the show now, but the games and the cards are still so damn bitchin. * 3* Yeah I stopped watching the show shortly after Misty got replaced by May and Max but I love the games and the cards, I have like 8 decks and I already beat Omega Ruby twice! :D xD I think I stopped at about... the 3rd season? I watched the first, and the Johto ones, and the ones with Tracey, but after that... I think that might have been when I stopped. xDa Nice! I'm more of a collector of the cards, I keep them in a bunch of plastic cardboxes in a big ass shoe box. XDa I have over 1k. fdkluagsasidhfasg I love collecting them for the art and holos. * w* Oh shit, cool! XD I only have done so once, though I think there's still some post-game stuff I still need to do. xDa Link to post Share on other sites
ellastokes Posted January 25, 2015 Share Posted January 25, 2015 Hiya! Welcome to AVEN! :cake: You sound a lot like me in terms of sexuality. ^v^ Link to post Share on other sites
rocket1111child Posted January 26, 2015 Share Posted January 26, 2015 Welcome . I've found that I've learnt more about myself from exploring this site. Hopefully you can too. Link to post Share on other sites
Xavy Posted January 26, 2015 Share Posted January 26, 2015 Hi, welcome, being a bit unsure is something a lot of us here understand so don't worry. Link to post Share on other sites
Skylynxify Posted January 27, 2015 Author Share Posted January 27, 2015 Welcome to AVEN! n.n There's lots of info around here, and if you still want some answers, there's lots of info here and I'm sure you'll be able to learn a lot about it and become confident in what term you feel best describes you~ C: I don't know why anyone should be ashamed to admit they like pogeymans... it seems pretty common for people to still like it. I may hate the show now, but the games and the cards are still so damn bitchin. * 3* Yeah I stopped watching the show shortly after Misty got replaced by May and Max but I love the games and the cards, I have like 8 decks and I already beat Omega Ruby twice! :D xD I think I stopped at about... the 3rd season? I watched the first, and the Johto ones, and the ones with Tracey, but after that... I think that might have been when I stopped. xDa Nice! I'm more of a collector of the cards, I keep them in a bunch of plastic cardboxes in a big ass shoe box. XDa I have over 1k. fdkluagsasidhfasg I love collecting them for the art and holos. * w* Oh shit, cool! XD I only have done so once, though I think there's still some post-game stuff I still need to do. xDa I'm working on catching the Regis at the moment and oh geez I haven't tried counting my cards in years, not including the decks I have 3 booster boxes worth of cards. I even have some Megas and EXs! Hiya! Welcome to AVEN! :cake: You sound a lot like me in terms of sexuality. ^v^ Yeah I didn't think I was alone, Asexuality is a confusing thing, especially when you are in High School and sex is all anyone talks about. Link to post Share on other sites
Karret Posted January 27, 2015 Share Posted January 27, 2015 Welcome to AVEN! n.n There's lots of info around here, and if you still want some answers, there's lots of info here and I'm sure you'll be able to learn a lot about it and become confident in what term you feel best describes you~ C: I don't know why anyone should be ashamed to admit they like pogeymans... it seems pretty common for people to still like it. I may hate the show now, but the games and the cards are still so damn bitchin. * 3* Yeah I stopped watching the show shortly after Misty got replaced by May and Max but I love the games and the cards, I have like 8 decks and I already beat Omega Ruby twice! :D xD I think I stopped at about... the 3rd season? I watched the first, and the Johto ones, and the ones with Tracey, but after that... I think that might have been when I stopped. xDa Nice! I'm more of a collector of the cards, I keep them in a bunch of plastic cardboxes in a big ass shoe box. XDa I have over 1k. fdkluagsasidhfasg I love collecting them for the art and holos. * w* Oh shit, cool! XD I only have done so once, though I think there's still some post-game stuff I still need to do. xDa I'm working on catching the Regis at the moment and oh geez I haven't tried counting my cards in years, not including the decks I have 3 booster boxes worth of cards. I even have some Megas and EXs! Oh cool. C8 I've been trying to catch some legendaries [like.. I have one of the Uxie/Mesprit/Azelf ones left, and I think Entei, too..] and yeah XDa but hopefully I'll figure out the right time of day to look for them! XD Oooooh nice~ 8D I don't think I have any megas, but I have a fair amount of EXs. God.damn. I loved the Legendary Treasures set. * w* It's the only expansion that really truly stands out to me as super awesome. fjkbasdkgsdvd One of my favorite cards is a full art card of theeee Seismitoad EX card for I think Furious Fists. fkughedgksdfglskfg I won it for free, too! When I went to the midnight release of ORAS/Smash Bros! XD Link to post Share on other sites
Skylynxify Posted January 27, 2015 Author Share Posted January 27, 2015 Welcome to AVEN! n.n There's lots of info around here, and if you still want some answers, there's lots of info here and I'm sure you'll be able to learn a lot about it and become confident in what term you feel best describes you~ C: I don't know why anyone should be ashamed to admit they like pogeymans... it seems pretty common for people to still like it. I may hate the show now, but the games and the cards are still so damn bitchin. * 3* Yeah I stopped watching the show shortly after Misty got replaced by May and Max but I love the games and the cards, I have like 8 decks and I already beat Omega Ruby twice! :D xD I think I stopped at about... the 3rd season? I watched the first, and the Johto ones, and the ones with Tracey, but after that... I think that might have been when I stopped. xDa Nice! I'm more of a collector of the cards, I keep them in a bunch of plastic cardboxes in a big ass shoe box. XDa I have over 1k. fdkluagsasidhfasg I love collecting them for the art and holos. * w* Oh shit, cool! XD I only have done so once, though I think there's still some post-game stuff I still need to do. xDa I'm working on catching the Regis at the moment and oh geez I haven't tried counting my cards in years, not including the decks I have 3 booster boxes worth of cards. I even have some Megas and EXs! Oh cool. C8 I've been trying to catch some legendaries [like.. I have one of the Uxie/Mesprit/Azelf ones left, and I think Entei, too..] and yeah XDa but hopefully I'll figure out the right time of day to look for them! XD Oooooh nice~ 8D I don't think I have any megas, but I have a fair amount of EXs. God.damn. I loved the Legendary Treasures set. * w* It's the only expansion that really truly stands out to me as super awesome. fjkbasdkgsdvd One of my favorite cards is a full art card of theeee Seismitoad EX card for I think Furious Fists. fkughedgksdfglskfg I won it for free, too! When I went to the midnight release of ORAS/Smash Bros! XD I have Uxie, Azelf, and Mesprit, Uxie was really hard because he only appears between 8-9 pm if that helps. I have Heatran, Palkia who is ruby exclusive, the musketeer trio, I succeeded in getting all 4 Regis, both Latios and Latias, Ho-oh who is also ruby only, and I forget the rest right now lol As for cards two of my favorites is my Aegislash EX and Skarmory EX I just found those randomly, don't remember which set but still, really badass steel type pokemon. I also collect Magic: The Gathering cards. You? Link to post Share on other sites
Perseus Posted January 27, 2015 Share Posted January 27, 2015 Welcome to AVEN! We are glad you found us and know you are not alone. Link to post Share on other sites
Karret Posted January 27, 2015 Share Posted January 27, 2015 I have Uxie, Azelf, and Mesprit, Uxie was really hard because he only appears between 8-9 pm if that helps. I have Heatran, Palkia who is ruby exclusive, the musketeer trio, I succeeded in getting all 4 Regis, both Latios and Latias, Ho-oh who is also ruby only, and I forget the rest right now lol As for cards two of my favorites is my Aegislash EX and Skarmory EX I just found those randomly, don't remember which set but still, really badass steel type pokemon. I also collect Magic: The Gathering cards. You? Ooooo~~~ That does actually! 8D Thanks! <3 Once I get that one I can get I think it's Palkia after that. I haven't gotten the Regis yet. I only have Latios.. I have Ho-oh annnd Tornadus and Cresselia Oooh nice! 8D Nope, only pokemon for me. I collected Yu-Gi-Oh cards for a very short while, but that ended pretty quick. XDa Link to post Share on other sites
Skylynxify Posted January 28, 2015 Author Share Posted January 28, 2015 I have Uxie, Azelf, and Mesprit, Uxie was really hard because he only appears between 8-9 pm if that helps. I have Heatran, Palkia who is ruby exclusive, the musketeer trio, I succeeded in getting all 4 Regis, both Latios and Latias, Ho-oh who is also ruby only, and I forget the rest right now lol As for cards two of my favorites is my Aegislash EX and Skarmory EX I just found those randomly, don't remember which set but still, really badass steel type pokemon. I also collect Magic: The Gathering cards. You? Ooooo~~~ That does actually! 8D Thanks! <3 Once I get that one I can get I think it's Palkia after that. I haven't gotten the Regis yet. I only have Latios.. I have Ho-oh annnd Tornadus and Cresselia Oooh nice! 8D Nope, only pokemon for me. I collected Yu-Gi-Oh cards for a very short while, but that ended pretty quick. XDa Same, Yu-Gi-Oh card game just didn't interest me as much. I don't have Tornadus or Cresselia, I haven't been lucking at all with the Mirage Islands :( Link to post Share on other sites
GwendolynAngel83 Posted January 28, 2015 Share Posted January 28, 2015 Yugioh? Where? XD I freaking love that game. Me and my sister play all the time and we dragged our friend into it XD Link to post Share on other sites
PyroNeko Posted January 28, 2015 Share Posted January 28, 2015 Welcome!! :cake: It's nice to meet you! It's completely okay to be unsure. ^_^ What's your favorite Pokemon, by the way? Link to post Share on other sites
Member54880 Posted January 28, 2015 Share Posted January 28, 2015 Welcome! That's okay that you're still questioning your orientation. Feel free to look around the different boards, especially Q&A, to see what you relate to, and feel free to ask questions if you have any!I used to really be into Pokemon, but I've only played the first 3 generations of games, and watched the anime up until the first season of the Diamond and Pearl saga.I also like anime, and there's a thread for it here: http://www.asexuality.org/en/topic/111768-anime-club-o%E2%89%A7%E2%88%80%E2%89%A6o/ Link to post Share on other sites
Karret Posted January 28, 2015 Share Posted January 28, 2015 I have Uxie, Azelf, and Mesprit, Uxie was really hard because he only appears between 8-9 pm if that helps. I have Heatran, Palkia who is ruby exclusive, the musketeer trio, I succeeded in getting all 4 Regis, both Latios and Latias, Ho-oh who is also ruby only, and I forget the rest right now lol As for cards two of my favorites is my Aegislash EX and Skarmory EX I just found those randomly, don't remember which set but still, really badass steel type pokemon. I also collect Magic: The Gathering cards. You? Ooooo~~~ That does actually! 8D Thanks! <3 Once I get that one I can get I think it's Palkia after that. I haven't gotten the Regis yet. I only have Latios.. I have Ho-oh annnd Tornadus and Cresselia Oooh nice! 8D Nope, only pokemon for me. I collected Yu-Gi-Oh cards for a very short while, but that ended pretty quick. XDa Same, Yu-Gi-Oh card game just didn't interest me as much. I don't have Tornadus or Cresselia, I haven't been lucking at all with the Mirage Islands :( Tornadus was actually a cloud in the sky~~ I think it happens when you have all of theeee musketeer trio in your party and you soar. C: Cresselia's one you have to luck out on, though, I suppose ; 3; Link to post Share on other sites
Skylynxify Posted January 29, 2015 Author Share Posted January 29, 2015 I have Uxie, Azelf, and Mesprit, Uxie was really hard because he only appears between 8-9 pm if that helps. I have Heatran, Palkia who is ruby exclusive, the musketeer trio, I succeeded in getting all 4 Regis, both Latios and Latias, Ho-oh who is also ruby only, and I forget the rest right now lol As for cards two of my favorites is my Aegislash EX and Skarmory EX I just found those randomly, don't remember which set but still, really badass steel type pokemon. I also collect Magic: The Gathering cards. You? Ooooo~~~ That does actually! 8D Thanks! <3 Once I get that one I can get I think it's Palkia after that. I haven't gotten the Regis yet. I only have Latios.. I have Ho-oh annnd Tornadus and Cresselia Oooh nice! 8D Nope, only pokemon for me. I collected Yu-Gi-Oh cards for a very short while, but that ended pretty quick. XDa Same, Yu-Gi-Oh card game just didn't interest me as much. I don't have Tornadus or Cresselia, I haven't been lucking at all with the Mirage Islands :( Tornadus was actually a cloud in the sky~~ I think it happens when you have all of theeee musketeer trio in your party and you soar. C: Cresselia's one you have to luck out on, though, I suppose ; 3; How would you like to be my first friend on this site? Welcome!! :cake: It's nice to meet you! It's completely okay to be unsure. ^_^ What's your favorite Pokemon, by the way? If we're talking legendaries it is hands down Giratina origin form, Diancie is number 2, for non legendaries it's between Garchomp, Aegislash, Amphros, or Gengar for starters it's either Infernape or Sceptile, and Eeveelution is Sylveon. How about you? Link to post Share on other sites
Karret Posted January 30, 2015 Share Posted January 30, 2015 Tornadus was actually a cloud in the sky~~ I think it happens when you have all of theeee musketeer trio in your party and you soar. C:Cresselia's one you have to luck out on, though, I suppose ; 3; How would you like to be my first friend on this site? Eeee~! Why I would be honored! <3 > w<!! Thank you. UuU <33 Link to post Share on other sites
Skylynxify Posted January 30, 2015 Author Share Posted January 30, 2015 Tornadus was actually a cloud in the sky~~ I think it happens when you have all of theeee musketeer trio in your party and you soar. C:Cresselia's one you have to luck out on, though, I suppose ; 3; How would you like to be my first friend on this site? Eeee~! Why I would be honored! <3 > w<!! Thank you. UuU <33 YEAH! I have a friend! :D Did you draw your avatar? Link to post Share on other sites
Karret Posted January 31, 2015 Share Posted January 31, 2015 Tornadus was actually a cloud in the sky~~ I think it happens when you have all of theeee musketeer trio in your party and you soar. C:Cresselia's one you have to luck out on, though, I suppose ; 3; How would you like to be my first friend on this site? Eeee~! Why I would be honored! <3 > w<!! Thank you. UuU <33 YEAH! I have a friend! :D Did you draw your avatar? Huzzah!~ \o/ Human interaction! I did indeed! > w< Did you draw yours? o 3o Link to post Share on other sites
Skylynxify Posted January 31, 2015 Author Share Posted January 31, 2015 Tornadus was actually a cloud in the sky~~ I think it happens when you have all of theeee musketeer trio in your party and you soar. C:Cresselia's one you have to luck out on, though, I suppose ; 3; How would you like to be my first friend on this site? Eeee~! Why I would be honored! <3 > w<!! Thank you. UuU <33 YEAH! I have a friend! :D Did you draw your avatar? Huzzah!~ \o/ Human interaction! I did indeed! > w< Did you draw yours? o 3o I wish! I swear I am a creative person, I have all these great images in my head but when I try to put those on paper something horrible goes wrong. I checked out your other pictures, there pretty good. Link to post Share on other sites
Karret Posted February 1, 2015 Share Posted February 1, 2015 Huzzah!~ \o/ Human interaction! I did indeed! > w< Did you draw yours? o 3o I wish! I swear I am a creative person, I have all these great images in my head but when I try to put those on paper something horrible goes wrong. I checked out your other pictures, there pretty good. Awww~ I know how you feel. ; w; I'm always having to compromise how I saw something in my head, and it's usually a lot more lame. dkughasklgk XD It just means you know quality. UuU!! Eeee~~ thanks! > W< Link to post Share on other sites
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