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Is anyone else repulsed by certain sexual stuff ?


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Mainly I was thinking about the doggy style position , where to me seeing a butt that way would just be repulsive , cause it dosnt even look like a butt standing up , I mean also men online say all this stuff about how they submit and how the men feel dominant and In control , well there's no way on earth I want to submit to anyone , to me it's like they want to disrespect you , and they see you as lower class , in the natural animal world , yes it does happen , but that's for mating purposes only , but us humans just do it for fun , it's like that position is just so gross to me , I would never do it , even if I was sèxual that position would never be done by me , does anyone else find it a.) gross b.) the way sexual guys talk about it is almost degrading , ?

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Yes I find it repulsive and everything else to do with sex. And good point about the way some guys talk about sex its rancid.

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Haha I feel exactly the same about doggy style :P I am sexual active due to a sexual partner but I do tend to avoid certain things because I think it is gross of mostly just ridiculous.

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Believe me there are girls who also want to do gross things and didn't care about being submissive. It is not only for one gender, it depends on the person. If someone respects you then he will not ask you to do things that you find weird or you may feel repulsed. Personally the whole sex thing repulses me (that is why i don't do it) but there are guys who feel like me too (thanx God!).

Hm i remember a sexual guy who had told me that one of his gfs demanded things like doggy and anal but he didn't want to do these things.

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I get what you're saying, but don't make generalisations about sexual men. There are plenty of respectful individuals out there.

yeah I understand there are respectful men , and disrespectful woman also . Dot worrie I won't judge , it's just ive seen sexual men prefer it on online forums and stuff ,but I gues people on the internet isn't everyone .
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Believe me there are girls who also want to do gross things and didn't care about being submissive. It is not only for one gender, it depends on the person. If someone respects you then he will not ask you to do things that you find weird or you may feel repulsed. Personally the whole sex thing repulses me (that is why i don't do it) but there are guys who feel like me too (thanx God!).

Hm i remember a sexual guy who had told me that one of his gfs demanded things like doggy and anal but he didn't want to do these things.

Aww no I feel sorry for him , yeah it must be hard the other way round because of social expectations , yeah I understand there are girls who like it too , I just meant im more likely gonna have a guy want to do that to me as with a girl it wouldn't be very possible aha.
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The whole sex thing repulses me but I don't care what other people are into, if all parties are consenting then I don't think there's anything wrong, and a lot of women talk degradingly about sex and men and like to dominate too ..TBF it's not just men.

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All of it !! As a person who cannot have kids sex meets no need OF MINE . I just am disgusted by all of it and have a very strong refusal to ever do it

I also hate how I'm going to have to do it one day whether I want to or not - well that's not true no one can make me , period !

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The whole sex thing repulses me but I don't care what other people are into, if all parties are consenting then I don't think there's anything wrong, and a lot of women talk degradingly about sex and men and like to dominate too ..TBF it's not just men.

Yeah I know it's not just men , of course there's lots of sex crazed women out there , I just tend o be more aware of the guys cause there's a more likely chance that guys would want to see my butt than a girl cause there more straight guys than lesbians/bi girls , you get me . But of Course there are many nice guys out there .
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All of it !! As a person who cannot have kids sex meets no need OF MINE . I just am disgusted by all of it and have a very strong refusal to ever do it

I also hate how I'm going to have to do it one day whether I want to or not - well that's not true no one can make me , period !

Yeah don't let anyone make you ! Stay true to yourself and never do anything you don't want to just to make others happy !
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Haha I feel exactly the same about doggy style :P I am sexual active due to a sexual partner but I do tend to avoid certain things because I think it is gross of mostly just ridiculous.

if you don't mind me asking , how do you feel when you have sex , for what reasons do you do it , do you feel connections to your partner ? Or do you feel wierd , , sorry just wondering aha .
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Not that it repulses me, but if I can not have to hear about it, I'd like to keep it that way. I don't go on and on about how great being asexual is, so I don't want to hear about what you did/want to do in bed.

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Yes I find it repulsive and everything else to do with sex. And good point about the way some guys talk about sex its rancid.

Yeah my non sex life is a mixture of repulsion , and also I can't seem to connect sex with love , it's like two opposites , also im just not generally intereste in sex as I just don't feel lust in that way , it's like an alien concept in which I don't wish to understand , I also feel like a kid who shouldn't even know about sex aha .
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When I was a sexual person, I was very particular about what I would and would not do, much to the disappointment of my partners. I guess you could say I was very...vanilla in my sexual tastes. There weren't many positions I found unpleasant, but moreso the way I would be asked to spank my partner's ass, or to pull her hair, or call her a bitch during sex...things that put her in a submissive role. I always wanted things to be on equal footing, where neither of us was dominant nor submissive to the other. I absolutely refused to perform anal sex...sorry, but poop comes from there...ick. I was also a very "weird" guy in that I didn't generally like oral sex, especially wen I was asked or expected to ejaculate in her mouth or even worse *shudder* on her face like is done in pornographic videos.

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Yeah, some things that people do I find rather gross, like getting cum in one's mouth (I'm hoping against all odds that it won't ever happen to me, but the chance still exists, even if it happens accidentally) and oral/anal contact (really, really sick). As for various positions, I can't think of any that gross me out (though some sound like they would be rather uncomfortable and difficult to do). Supposedly doggy style works better than missionary for some people because the man can't penetrate as deep from that angle (and hit the cervix, causing pain, if he's really well-endowed), and also for very overweight people it might be the only way they can have sex. Though I guess it would be hard to want to do for a guy if he's grossed out by looking at butts.

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When I was a sexual person, I was very particular about what I would and would not do, much to the disappointment of my partners. I guess you could say I was very...vanilla in my sexual tastes. There weren't many positions I found unpleasant, but moreso the way I would be asked to spank my partner's ass, or to pull her hair, or call her a bitch during sex...things that put her in a submissive role. I always wanted things to be on equal footing, where neither of us was dominant nor submissive to the other. I absolutely refused to perform anal sex...sorry, but poop comes from there...ick. I was also a very "weird" guy in that I didn't generally like oral sex, especially wen I was asked or expected to ejaculate in her mouth or even worse *shudder* on her face like is done in pornographic videos.

yeah ! Poop comes out of there , it's like butt holes are gross , yet for some reason female butts are Suppost to be attractive ?! , it's still a poop hole except it's on a bigger scale butt !! Haha .
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Haha I feel exactly the same about doggy style :P I am sexual active due to a sexual partner but I do tend to avoid certain things because I think it is gross of mostly just ridiculous.

if you don't mind me asking , how do you feel when you have sex , for what reasons do you do it , do you feel connections to your partner ? Or do you feel wierd , , sorry just wondering aha .

I don't feel connected with him or something, I am just very neutral and unsexy about it.

And I only feel weird when we do stuff that I find...weird haha xD most of what I experience as weird is completely normal for most people though.

I don't mind having sex as long as it is with my boyfriend. I just never initiate it and get quite bored when it takes too long. I have sex with him because he likes it very much and although I don't need it or think about it I don't mind having sex from time to time.

I am lucky to have a partner who understands and doesn't mind it. :)

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Oral sex is a big no for me. I don't like having it performed on me, and I'm really uncomfortable performing it on someone else.

That and anal sex are the only firm nos for me so far, though tbf I've not yet had sex of any kind other than oral either.

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