Guest Posted December 17, 2014 Share Posted December 17, 2014 In general I don't imagine myself having sex at all and some sexual behaviors just make me scared but there is a kind of paradox. I'm strongly repulsed by oral sex but use to fantasize myself receiving it and I've had a dream where I was doing a blow job while in real life I'm very grossed by giving it. Strangely, I liked it very much and wasn't disgusted and was satisfied I done it. Very strange thing. I also had a dream when I participated in a kind of gang bang. ( There were maybe 5 men and had sex with two of them in the same time and then with almost all of them) . I never have fantasies like this and don'\t watch porn and such scenes. So it sounds like a paradox. Link to post Share on other sites
Frac Posted December 17, 2014 Share Posted December 17, 2014 Have you been exposed to a lot of media with sexual content lately? Even something like pornographic ads on some website? I've noticed that my dreams tend to mostly involve things that I encounter in my daily life, so perhaps it's the same for you. Link to post Share on other sites
Manly Ace Posted December 17, 2014 Share Posted December 17, 2014 Maybe a defense mechanism. Link to post Share on other sites
CrowWakes Posted December 17, 2014 Share Posted December 17, 2014 It could simply be a stress related incident. I worry about work related problems and people from my work show up in my dreams it could be that you had a sexual related stressor. simple things like a person hitting on you. I will state I am not a doctor and do not know for sure. Link to post Share on other sites
knout Posted December 17, 2014 Share Posted December 17, 2014 I think it's more common than you'd think to have people only enjoy one side of oral sex and they may be repulsed by the other end of it.In the same way, our conscious self and our dreams often are totally different, we can enjoy something and have nightmares about it, just like we can be repulsed by something when awake and yet have pleasant dreams about it. There's nothing to really be afraid of, dreams can often be a way of blowing off steam, letting out bottled emotions, or be totally random... Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted December 17, 2014 Share Posted December 17, 2014 In general I don't imagine myself having sex at all and some sexual behaviors just make me scared but there is a kind of paradox. I'm strongly repulsed by oral sex but use to fantasize myself receiving it and I've had a dream where I was doing a blow job while in real life I'm very grossed by giving it. Strangely, I liked it very much and wasn't disgusted and was satisfied I done it. Very strange thing. I also had a dream when I participated in a kind of gang bang. ( There were maybe 5 men and had sex with two of them in the same time and then with almost all of them) . I never have fantasies like this and don'\t watch porn and such scenes. So it sounds like a paradox. Not liking something in real life but liking a dream about it isn't a paradox. That happens all the time!! Don't put more importance on it just because this time it involved sex. Link to post Share on other sites
Light02 Posted December 17, 2014 Share Posted December 17, 2014 Oh my God, the same thing happened to me yesterday (for the second time) and I was going to make a thread about it! So weird. Link to post Share on other sites
Skycaptain Posted December 17, 2014 Share Posted December 17, 2014 In general I don't imagine myself having sex at all and some sexual behaviors just make me scared but there is a kind of paradox. I'm strongly repulsed by oral sex but use to fantasize myself receiving it and I've had a dream where I was doing a blow job while in real life I'm very grossed by giving it. Strangely, I liked it very much and wasn't disgusted and was satisfied I done it. Very strange thing. I also had a dream when I participated in a kind of gang bang. ( There were maybe 5 men and had sex with two of them in the same time and then with almost all of them) . I never have fantasies like this and don'\t watch porn and such scenes. So it sounds like a paradox. Not liking something in real life but liking a dream about it isn't a paradox. That happens all the time!! Don't put more importance on it just because this time it involved sex. Well said. It is no different from liking to watch an action movie whilst abhorring violence in real life. Whilst sometimes dreams can be "interpreted" as revealing subconscious desires, a lot of the time they are just random images passing through the brain. It is why some people dream in colour, some in black and white, some dream sounds, some dream silently. Other people don't even remember dreams. We are all different. There is no paradox here Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted December 18, 2014 Share Posted December 18, 2014 Have you been exposed to a lot of media with sexual content lately? Even something like pornographic ads on some website? I've noticed that my dreams tend to mostly involve things that I encounter in my daily life, so perhaps it's the same for you. No, never. Moreover sex in my dreams looks much different than this from my imagination or things I've seen. Link to post Share on other sites
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