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Hi everyone, i finally got the courage to tell my problem, it's been 12 years that i don't know what's happening with me. Until my 18 years i was sexual, i felt a huge attraction to women, i was always seeing porn, suddenly i lost that attraction, first i was afraid i was becoming gay, because i always was very emotive, sensible, i never had that strong personality. Now to get an erection i have to convince myself what i'm looking to is hot, but i still don't feel any desire. Sometimes i think i'm in the middle between straight and gay, because if i try to do that with man i also can get a erection but no desire. I get romantically in love with women, but with no desire for sex. What a mess in my head, the worse is that i know what is sexual attraction and i feel something was taken from me. Anyone know whats going on?

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Well, sexuality is not supposed to change suddenly like that. Actually it tends to not change suddenly like that, but sex drive can change and it's easy to get the two mixed up.

We often never suggest this, but if it just changed out of the blue like that you should maybe check into it somehow with a specialest. I suppose it's possible though you were mystaking romantic attraction for sexual attraction. I'm not sure.

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I've read many posts, i heard that sometimes during puberty people are sexual and than become assexual, it may be my case. I've read in this forum so many types of people, i don't know in which i fit... I think the main difference of me, is that i used to be sexual.

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