Xavy Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 So I probbaly Need To delete my new profile on okc until they actually have an asexual option. :( Link to post Share on other sites
Fruity<3 Posted November 24, 2014 Share Posted November 24, 2014 Okcupid has really up-ed their game! They actually base quick matches on what you like now. I love it! :D Link to post Share on other sites
Fruity<3 Posted November 24, 2014 Share Posted November 24, 2014 So I probbaly Need To delete my new profile on ok ipod until they actually have am asexual option. :( Why? You could just indicate it on your profile and pick whichever orientation fits you the best that they have now. You could always 'disable' it instead, so all your previous effort wasn't wasted. Link to post Share on other sites
Xavy Posted November 24, 2014 Share Posted November 24, 2014 So I probbaly Need To delete my new profile on ok ipod until they actually have am asexual option. :(Why? You could just indicate it on your profile and pick whichever orientation fits you the best that they have now. You could always 'disable' it instead, so all your previous effort wasn't wasted. Point taken. You are quite correct. Link to post Share on other sites
RK800 Posted November 24, 2014 Share Posted November 24, 2014 I don't have an account there but that's great! Now if facebook would just add romantic orientations that'd be great..... Link to post Share on other sites
Mona Lisa Posted November 24, 2014 Share Posted November 24, 2014 If you select one of the new orientations, you get an option for whether or not you want to be "seen" by straight people. Hmmm. This would certainly cut down on the creepy, gross messages, but that eliminates a lot of potential friends. UPDATE #1: I did this out of curiosity (after choosing "asexual"), and now I'm just getting bisexuals (nothing wrong with bi people, but literally all my matches now are bi). Which doesn't really help me out, because they're still allosexuals. UPDATE #2: There are no asexual people on OKCupid within 250 miles of me. I am going to assume that it's because it's not an option for most people yet. Still depressing. Link to post Share on other sites
marki Posted November 24, 2014 Share Posted November 24, 2014 How did you get to select it? I still have no option for it. Update! So I sent them a message in feedback and they added me to the people to try out the new listings! I'm really sort of loving these people right now! You have to do it through the desktop site...mobile and app won't let you change it! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
sarcatholic Posted November 28, 2014 Share Posted November 28, 2014 I've just been on to OKcupids main page to see if it's been added and it has along with other options and other options for Gender. Man, that's double-extra weird, because I just went to their main page to sign up and give it a shot, but it's only displaying the old 3/2 options. Link to post Share on other sites
Xavy Posted November 28, 2014 Share Posted November 28, 2014 How did you get to select it? I still have no option for it. Update! So I sent them a message in feedback and they added me to the people to try out the new listings! I'm really sort of loving these people right now! You have to do it through the desktop site...mobile and app won't let you change it! I just sent them a message on feedback asking for the asexual option, let's see what happens. Link to post Share on other sites
marki Posted November 29, 2014 Share Posted November 29, 2014 Yup...desktop only. Link to post Share on other sites
Rising Sun Posted November 29, 2014 Share Posted November 29, 2014 I'm wondering if options depend on your country, considering that OKCupid automatically detects your country and may choose which options to show. Link to post Share on other sites
SorryNotSorry Posted November 29, 2014 Share Posted November 29, 2014 Meh. OLD still sucks for us men. OKC adding an asexual option is just another deck chair being rearranged on the Titanic IMO. Link to post Share on other sites
Xavy Posted November 30, 2014 Share Posted November 30, 2014 So, I sent OKC a feedback question about why I don't have the asexual option, and they gave it to me, so let's see what happens now :) Link to post Share on other sites
littlepersonparadox Posted November 30, 2014 Share Posted November 30, 2014 I've just been on to OKcupids main page to see if it's been added and it has along with other options and other options for Gender. Man, that's double-extra weird, because I just went to their main page to sign up and give it a shot, but it's only displaying the old 3/2 options. That's weird, i've just been back on the main page and all the new options are there for me. It's most likely they are currently in the intergration phase now, Thing is with systems in order to minimize risk it requiers a long transition period. At least they are moving forward and allowing some new sign ups to use it. Link to post Share on other sites
Batman's Ace Posted December 14, 2014 Share Posted December 14, 2014 Just checked today, and I've got the feature. Actually, to my surprise, the option told me to pick up to 5 orientations. Anyone know why they'd allow that many? Link to post Share on other sites
WhenSummersGone Posted December 22, 2014 Share Posted December 22, 2014 I'm really glad that I'm educating others about Demisexuality! I've gotten many messages about it and I even have a definition on my profile. Has anyone else gotten any messages about their orientation? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Xavy Posted January 1, 2015 Share Posted January 1, 2015 Hummm...my new asexual OKC profile is getting hits from a lot of bisexual and a few gay people too. No asexuals yet Link to post Share on other sites
marki Posted January 1, 2015 Share Posted January 1, 2015 I've gotten hits from a few asexuals..... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Xavy Posted January 1, 2015 Share Posted January 1, 2015 Oh, I got one sapiosexual today Link to post Share on other sites
marki Posted January 1, 2015 Share Posted January 1, 2015 Yay! OKC is kinda awesome now! Link to post Share on other sites
Strawberry_Star Posted January 1, 2015 Share Posted January 1, 2015 I went on my account today and there is no ace option yet Link to post Share on other sites
marki Posted January 1, 2015 Share Posted January 1, 2015 You've got to send them a message to be included. They are more than happy to let you be a part of the test. Link to post Share on other sites
JustAGuyInTinFoil Posted January 1, 2015 Share Posted January 1, 2015 I'll still state on my profile about my orientations, that way I'll crop up if people are searching for those specific keywords. Link to post Share on other sites
Xavy Posted January 2, 2015 Share Posted January 2, 2015 I went on my account today and there is no ace option yet Send them a message in feedback, you will get the option in a day or two. Link to post Share on other sites
Mona Lisa Posted January 14, 2015 Share Posted January 14, 2015 I just stumbled across this question on OKCupid: "Would you consider dating someone who has no interest in sex and experiences no sexual attraction to either gender if they were otherwise perfect?" Basically, this question asks if you're OK with dating an asexual person. This is so important, guys. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
marki Posted January 14, 2015 Share Posted January 14, 2015 Lol yup Link to post Share on other sites
Frigid Pink Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 I just stumbled across this question on OKCupid: "Would you consider dating someone who has no interest in sex and experiences no sexual attraction to either gender if they were otherwise perfect?" Basically, this question asks if you're OK with dating an asexual person. This is so important, guys. I dislike the wording of that question, although I used it when I was on OKC. I think it'd be better if they left off "if they were otherwise perfect" because that part seems to suggest that "asexuality" is a "flaw." Besides, nobody is "perfect," anyway. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Xavy Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 So, I deactivated my account (I didn't delete it altogether)... A screen popped up that asked why I was deactivating, it gave a few options, one of which was "I found someone" ...so I chose that option, because you know what ? I did find someone ..... And that someone is .......ME ! 6 Link to post Share on other sites
MaxAmoeba Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 Good! Link to post Share on other sites
email Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 When I plan on reactivating my account I'd probably add the Asexual option... except I get up to 40 messages a day and I bet at least twenty will try and start a conversation with me about my sexuality -_- Link to post Share on other sites
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