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A little aromantic and less sexual (sex talk)


Frugal Luddite

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Frugal Luddite

Hi,

I think that I'm very likely a discouraged kinky person rather than asexual, but I have been desiring sex less with my partner of 5 yrs. I think that our relationship being older is part of my lack of interest, but I also think that I'm discouraged after years of not finding a lover into my kinks. We have an open relationship.

I also have injured my penis and now have peyronies. This has reduced my desire for real sex too or even romance with anyone. I still fantasize quite a bit, but even that has reduced a bit in the last year as I have had trouble finding someone into the same kinks AND frugal living.

Finally, I don't feel able to think of myself as an aromantic person. I just feel like I'm becoming a lazy guy romantically. This doesn't include spending time in romantic settings. I've just become much less iinterested in massages, cuddling, kisses, or even oral sex beyond tasting my partner.

I think I've felt lots of performance anxiety about foreplay and I've developed an aversion to kisssing, cuddling, massages, etc. ...

Am I just becoming selfish, or is it ok for me to no longer be into what society tells males to give females?

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