Mia Story Posted November 5, 2014 Share Posted November 5, 2014 i'm a transgender and have known this from birth even though we didn't have the name. i had to hide that almost all my life. when i started school there was all this sex stuff and i felt dred because there was something else i had to hide or act about. it was a subtle feeling. i haven't felt that way again until i saw the asexual movie on netflix. then i realized that little part of me. i got very good at being sexual and even felt the hormonal urges and translated them to mean sex. but in the meantime i found out about asexual behavior in algae and how sexual behavior was only instituted in dire emergencies. i can still feel my eyes as they went blank and my mind grasped hold of this reality. asexual plants became a favorite of mine in explained sex to people. but i fell into sex and had a great and horrifying time dealing with all that stuff. the more i got into it the less comfortable i felt. i've been married three times and in each marriage cut off sexual relationships and was spurned. you would think i would learn! today i'm out as transgender totally and always mention asexual behavior as part of my makeup. there are times i cling to that. also i think asexual is actually a form of sex. the cells in our body are constantly having asexual reproduction. that happens much more often than sexual interaction. i don't feel badly about sex and think it is a wonderful alternative. but i think it is overused and abused. mia Link to post Share on other sites
iff Posted November 5, 2014 Share Posted November 5, 2014 welcome to aven. have some :cake: Link to post Share on other sites
softgoth Posted November 5, 2014 Share Posted November 5, 2014 ahh you've had such a hard time ! i hope you'll find support and friends here, welcome ! :) Link to post Share on other sites
Iggy Posted November 6, 2014 Share Posted November 6, 2014 Welcome! Link to post Share on other sites
CNGB Posted November 6, 2014 Share Posted November 6, 2014 Welcome! I had a very similar experience when I first learned about asexual plants. I remember telling my friends that I was asexual before I actually knew about asexuality. ^_^ Link to post Share on other sites
Lady Girl Posted November 6, 2014 Share Posted November 6, 2014 Hi and welcome to AVEN! Thanks for sharing your story and be sure to check out the Gender Discussion forum. I hope you love being a member here! :) Link to post Share on other sites
Ficulnean Posted November 7, 2014 Share Posted November 7, 2014 I would agree that both a valid alternatives, sexual or asexual. And, I think you'll like it here. Welcome to AVEN. Link to post Share on other sites
Mia Story Posted November 28, 2014 Author Share Posted November 28, 2014 thanks everyone for all the cake. and the nice comments. Link to post Share on other sites
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