C-3PO Posted October 21, 2014 Share Posted October 21, 2014 I didn't really know where to post this because it is both regarding my gender and my romantic orientation, but I think it fits best here. So almost everytime I talk with a guy, I get nervous, as if I have a crush on him, which is véry annoying, most of the time I just want to be his friend, but it's like my brain is like, HE IS A BOY!! YOU HAVE A VAGINA!! MUST!! BE!! LOVE!!, and I don't really know what it is. It is making me very insecure about my gender, because I don't have that with girls, at all, and does that mean I am "just" a girl, because I only have female friends and barely hang out with guys, even though I feel like I am more on the masculine side of the gender spectrum(fluctuating between agender and demi-boy actually). Link to post Share on other sites
Valja Posted October 21, 2014 Share Posted October 21, 2014 I know, I have a similar problem, but not only with guys, it's hard for me to talk to girls that I don't know either. With guys is more problematic because when I want to befriend one he thinks I flirt or something ,don't know, and asks me out but I want to be only friends. Link to post Share on other sites
greay as ice Posted October 21, 2014 Share Posted October 21, 2014 this is me but with girls. gets very annoying after a few years of this. my solution to this: be friend with people that already have a partner and therefore my brain does not get uppity with me and try to confuse the whole thing. Link to post Share on other sites
Anime Pancake Posted October 21, 2014 Share Posted October 21, 2014 I'm not sure what your question is Link to post Share on other sites
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