Spectre/Ex/Machina Posted October 20, 2014 Share Posted October 20, 2014 Is there any avenue you would like to express given we had our own forum? How important is it that your partner also have an open mind to your fetish(es)? When did you realize the not only were you Asexual, but also a Fetishist? How deeply ingrained into your sexuality are you fetishes? Could you live without expressing this part of yourselves? Are open about it? Are you scared of them? Are you a fulfilled and proud Asexual Fetishist? Link to post Share on other sites
apokalyptisch Posted October 21, 2014 Share Posted October 21, 2014 I read this topic earlier and was thinking about the first question, and just happened across the Intersectionality spot that just opened up. Might be a good place? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ How important is it that your partner also have an open mind to your fetish(es)? - v. important When did you realize the not only were you Asexual, but also a Fetishist? - very shortly after realizing there was something different about my sexuality, I realized that the sexual part of me is kinky How deeply ingrained into your sexuality are you fetishes? - being kinky will come up in every sexual interaction I have at some point, it's very deep Could you live without expressing this part of yourselves? - I largely do, but it has also been incorporated into my usual fashion, choices in music, personal identity, etc. Are open about it? - very much so, to the point of sharing tips with strangers :D I am not open about everything, and will gauge peoples' comfort level Are you scared of them? - nope! Are you a fulfilled and proud Asexual Fetishist? - I'm very much a demisexual, but yep, essentially. Link to post Share on other sites
Spectre/Ex/Machina Posted October 21, 2014 Author Share Posted October 21, 2014 Is there any avenue you would like to express given we had our own forum? A: AceFet experiences, I want to read other peoples stories and exchange my own curiousities. How important is it that your partner also have an open mind to your fetish(es)? A:It is important to me, I think it can bond us closer. When did you realize the not only were you Asexual, but also a Fetishist? A:I more or less figured I had fetishes before I realized I was Ace, but did not really indulge due to fear hang-ups. How deeply ingrained into your sexuality are you fetishes? A:They are my sexuality, I can't separate it. Could you live without expressing this part of yourselves? A:Yes, but I'd very unfulfilled. Are open about it? A:Oh, yes. Are you scared of them? A:I use to be but no more. Are you a fulfilled and proud Asexual Fetishist? A:Yes I am. Link to post Share on other sites
WünderBâhr Posted October 22, 2014 Share Posted October 22, 2014 Moved to The Gray Area, Sex and Related Discussions forum. Byanyothername Asexual Q&A Mod Link to post Share on other sites
Schrecken Posted October 22, 2014 Share Posted October 22, 2014 Is there any avenue you would like to express given we had our own forum? Not sure about that How important is it that your partner also have an open mind to your fetish(es)? For me it is extremely important, as the vanilla stuff holds really no interest for me on its own and if the kink/fetishes aren't there that would be like eating a hotdog w/o the mustard or drinking coffee w/o cream and sugar, in other words, why partake of it at all? When did you realize the not only were you Asexual, but also a Fetishist? I've known about the fetishes long before I figured out I was grey-a, way back when I was a teen. I knew that my interests certainly weren't part of typical mainstream sexual or romantic behavior. How deeply ingrained into your sexuality are you fetishes? I've had them since I was a child. Could you live without expressing this part of yourselves? If you mean by expressing as actually partaking in them as opposed to confining them to fantasy, then I have lived w/o expressing them all my life until now. However, I have expressed them in a limited, thinly concealed fashion in my artwork and writing. Are open about it? Only recently, but all of my life I have gone out of my way to suppress them. But even now I only discuss them with people who I can trust and I know they are also into kinks and fetishes. Are you scared of them? I was never scared of them, just mortified and embarrassed that I have such interests. I am trying hard to get over that but I still struggle. Are you a fulfilled and proud Asexual Fetishist? I guess you could say I'm being fulfilled because I currently do have a partner who I can indulge in my kinks with, I wouldn't say that I'm proud, though. Link to post Share on other sites
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