Cj Quinn Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 I have no idea what I am. I really don't. I failed the Kinsey test....... :( There have only been three people in my life that I have been sexually attracted to. The idea of sex with anyone else just.... bleh! Yucky! No! I honestly get nauseous! But I have these two friends, the girl is my ex, and the guy is our friend. I jacked him off less than an hour after I met him. At the time my ex and I were together and he was on our laps at the time...... :redface: I dunno why I did this. But with BOTH of these two I saw them and instantly loved them, emotionally, physically and mentally. Just a click. But.... now they are dating and I just keep imagining me with them. The three of us. It would be so nice. So I THOUGHT I was a gray-ace pan-roman. But what am I really? :( Link to post Share on other sites
Ficulnean Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 What you're not is whatever some test tells you you are. Don't worry that you didn't match up with anything. I can't figure the logic of that thing out. I always get the X category even when I've indicated abstract "attraction" and preference for a specific gender. Link to post Share on other sites
knout Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 You are yourself, you should take a bit of pride in that and less focus on the labels :) There's nothing wrong with the way you feel, the best thing to do I'd say is to be frank with your friends (the ones involved I mean) about how you feel. Remember it's not a test, just go with the flow Link to post Share on other sites
Ficulnean Posted October 23, 2014 Share Posted October 23, 2014 What you're not is whatever some test tells you you are. Don't worry that you didn't match up with anything. I can't figure the logic of that thing out. I always get the X category even when I've indicated abstract "attraction" and preference for a specific gender. I'm quoting myself, yes. I retook the test. I can get it so whether I fall in X or F hinges on a single question: whether or not I "have no interest in sexual intercourse with anyone". I answer this true if they're asking about a desire for someone. False if it's merely an extension of the experimentation question above it: I could live without ever trying it, but an interested enough that if I ever found myself in the situation, well, I'd give it a shot. This is what gets me an F. Everything else I answer easily and truthfully, with bias towards letting them sort me. Doesn't work. As a fun aside, it considers people with sexual desire (which I took liberally to mean arousal, not desire for partnered sex as I'm trying to get the test to sort me into it's categories) asexual when you answer like I do. So, if I weren't asexual I would nevertheless be really frekking odd, so you're really not in this boat alone. I wonder what the submissive question weights? Oh, by the way, we should have directed you towards the grey-A area. Link to post Share on other sites
WünderBâhr Posted October 24, 2014 Share Posted October 24, 2014 You are yourself, you should take a bit of pride in that and less focus on the labels :) There's nothing wrong with the way you feel, the best thing to do I'd say is to be frank with your friends (the ones involved I mean) about how you feel. Remember it's not a test, just go with the flow I agree with all of this. ** Moved to The Gray Area, Sex and Related Discussions forum. Byanyothername Asexual Q&A Mod Link to post Share on other sites
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