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The heckel am I?


Cj Quinn

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I have no idea what I am. I really don't. I failed the Kinsey test....... :(

There have only been three people in my life that I have been sexually attracted to.

The idea of sex with anyone else just.... bleh! Yucky! No! I honestly get nauseous! :wacko:

But I have these two friends, the girl is my ex, and the guy is our friend. I jacked him off less than an hour after I met him. At the time my ex and I were together and he was on our laps at the time...... :redface: :blush::ph34r:

I dunno why I did this.

But with BOTH of these two I saw them and instantly loved them, emotionally, physically and mentally. Just a click. :wub::wub: But.... now they are dating and I just keep imagining me with them. The three of us. It would be so nice. :blush:

So I THOUGHT I was a gray-ace pan-roman. :huh:

But what am I really? :unsure: :(

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What you're not is whatever some test tells you you are. Don't worry that you didn't match up with anything. I can't figure the logic of that thing out. I always get the X category even when I've indicated abstract "attraction" and preference for a specific gender.

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You are yourself, you should take a bit of pride in that and less focus on the labels :)

There's nothing wrong with the way you feel, the best thing to do I'd say is to be frank with your friends (the ones involved I mean) about how you feel.

Remember it's not a test, just go with the flow

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What you're not is whatever some test tells you you are. Don't worry that you didn't match up with anything. I can't figure the logic of that thing out. I always get the X category even when I've indicated abstract "attraction" and preference for a specific gender.

I'm quoting myself, yes. I retook the test. I can get it so whether I fall in X or F hinges on a single question: whether or not I "have no interest in sexual intercourse with anyone". I answer this true if they're asking about a desire for someone. False if it's merely an extension of the experimentation question above it: I could live without ever trying it, but an interested enough that if I ever found myself in the situation, well, I'd give it a shot. This is what gets me an F. Everything else I answer easily and truthfully, with bias towards letting them sort me. Doesn't work.

As a fun aside, it considers people with sexual desire (which I took liberally to mean arousal, not desire for partnered sex as I'm trying to get the test to sort me into it's categories) asexual when you answer like I do.

So, if I weren't asexual I would nevertheless be really frekking odd, so you're really not in this boat alone.

I wonder what the submissive question weights?

Oh, by the way, we should have directed you towards the grey-A area.

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You are yourself, you should take a bit of pride in that and less focus on the labels :)

There's nothing wrong with the way you feel, the best thing to do I'd say is to be frank with your friends (the ones involved I mean) about how you feel.

Remember it's not a test, just go with the flow

I agree with all of this.

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Moved to The Gray Area, Sex and Related Discussions forum.

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