Prodigy100 Posted October 12, 2014 Share Posted October 12, 2014 This is a question I've pondered with for sometime now. Weather or not I'm asexual. I think about sex, but not with anyone, I just think about the act of sex and I think to myself how weird it is. I analyze it. I find it generally interesting how powerful sexual energy is in that it can get two complete strangers to undress in front of each other. I think sex is weird but an important part of what it means to be a human. I'm a sophomore in college now. I've always struggled to find a reason to engage in sex. There was this girl that I found myself spending a lot of time with. She was pretty, and interesting. All the while hanging out with her I couldn't image myself having sex with her. I was only able to image myself taking her out on dates, making out with her, buying her things, but never sex. Even when we were in my room alone I just couldn't get myself to think about having sex with her. My friends asked me why I never made a move and I always thought it was because I was shy, but sexual energy is so powerful that it doesn't matter weather or not your shy, I think it was just because I wasn't interested in sex. But oddly enough, I did get erections around her. Lastly, I do get horny and I do masturbate, sometimes to porn, but I can never imagine myself having sex with a beautiful girl I saw or a girl I might be talking to or interested in. I'm I asexual? Sorry for the wild shatter of thoughts! Thanks for reading! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
verily-forsooth-egads Posted October 12, 2014 Share Posted October 12, 2014 Of course no one can tell you how to identify etcetera but it sounds very much like you fit the definition of asexual. I suggest you do some more reading on the site if you're still unsure. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Prodigy100 Posted October 12, 2014 Author Share Posted October 12, 2014 Thanks for your reply! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Maven2014 Posted October 12, 2014 Share Posted October 12, 2014 Yes, nobody can tell you how to identify, but it does sound like you are somewhere along the asexual spectrum. As HTM said, have a good look around here and see what has you thinking 'yes, that makes sense to me' or feels familiar to you. Ask more questions. You're very welcome here. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Prodigy100 Posted October 12, 2014 Author Share Posted October 12, 2014 It would seem that I'm Gray-A sexual. Interesting... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Teavana Posted October 12, 2014 Share Posted October 12, 2014 I'm a sophomore in college too! It's for you to decide but you fit the definition for asexual, demisexual or gray area. By the way, I also masturbate to porn but I can't imagine myself having sex. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Ficulnean Posted October 12, 2014 Share Posted October 12, 2014 I would say that you sound asexual to me, but that is for you to decide. We even have topics up for just porn and fetishes here: liking those doesn't make you sexual unless you actually feel a desire to go and have sex. Otherwise it could just be a libido thing. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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