writer24 Posted September 30, 2014 Share Posted September 30, 2014 Okay, so I'm aromantic, and I have had squishes before on a fair number of people, but they have all been people I know. In fact, I usually only have squishes on people who I'm really, really good friends with, but I have had a really weird thing happen this past week. I have a squish on someone I've barely shared a sentence with. Like I just really want to be friends with them, hang out, and all of that. It's so weird, and I don't understand why I like this person so much. We've basically never met. Does this happen to anyone else or am I just being really weird.....? Link to post Share on other sites
Palovana Posted September 30, 2014 Share Posted September 30, 2014 Yeah...this happens to me quite a lot, actually. I've gotten squishes on famous people before. Link to post Share on other sites
imgone Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 I am pretty sure I had my first squish a few weeks ago. I was walking around campus and I saw this girl sitting around reading a book, and my first thought was oh wow she looks cool and I want to be friends with her. I thought that was it, but she was in one of my classes and started talking to me! It was cool. But yeah I didn't know her at all. Link to post Share on other sites
Arf Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 I ONLY get squishes on people I don't know well. Link to post Share on other sites
Schrecken Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 That's usually the case for me - I'll get a squish (or even a full-blown crush) on someone I only know as an acquaintance - someone you see occasionally and say hello to and that's about that. Link to post Share on other sites
(A)rrogant Avian Posted October 1, 2014 Share Posted October 1, 2014 I have gotten a squish in the past on someone who I barely know, although I mostly find myself squishing on people who I know, but really want to get to know more. Link to post Share on other sites
little_bird Posted October 2, 2014 Share Posted October 2, 2014 I have a massive squish on this bloke in one of my lectures - I saw him at this uni-wide thing we all had to go to, and then it turns out he's in my tutorial today! I admit I had to concentrate not to grin like a mad thing, and I got to sit next to him, but there wasn't opportunity to talk and then the tutor said things about not being able to forget my face, which ruined my good mood anyway. But still! ^_^ Mildly worried he thinks I'm mad now, but, hey, all the best people are, right? Right? Link to post Share on other sites
Vestal Posted July 17, 2015 Share Posted July 17, 2015 I ONLY get squishes on people I don't know well. Same here. I tend to fall platonically in love with men I don't know personally. I get crushes on celebrities all the time. Link to post Share on other sites
Nadia Hope Posted July 17, 2015 Share Posted July 17, 2015 You are not weird. That happens to me too, sometimes I just look at a person who I barely know and think of how I really want to be friends with them. :) Link to post Share on other sites
Cleo Posted July 17, 2015 Share Posted July 17, 2015 It happens to me with people that just give off special kind of vibe, people with super good first impression. :D Link to post Share on other sites
words are futile devices Posted July 17, 2015 Share Posted July 17, 2015 Happened to me five months ago, with the guy I'm still hardcore squishing on. We still don't know each other very well, but, uhh... we're working on it! Sounds like you're definitely not alone, OP. :) Link to post Share on other sites
blue2 sky Posted July 18, 2015 Share Posted July 18, 2015 I always have crushes on strangers. Link to post Share on other sites
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