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Anyone Else Here Have Things That, For Them, *ARE* "Sex"?


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What I mean is, is there anyone else in here that has a 'fetish' (I don't want to use that word, it doesn't seem appropriate in this context for some reason), that, for them, satisfies them and that's it?

For me it's breasts. If that's all sex was, I would never stop doing it :lol:

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Honestly not sure. I understand what you're trying to ask, but I still can't even come up with something comparable anyway.

For me it's breasts. If that's all sex was, I would never stop doing it :D

How does one "do" breasts? o_O

You know what, don't answer that.

Still legitimately confused, though.

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How does one "do" breasts? o_O

You know what, don't answer that.

Still legitimately confused, though.

The answer to questions beginning with "how" is always "With a machine."

(And if you actually know where that quote is from... congratulations, you're as much of a hopelessly obscure geek as I am! :lol: )

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Yes. I am basically "stuck" that way anyway. In an ideal world, the kind of stuff I'm into would take the place of the sexual act and actual sexual intercourse (including anything where the penis enters any bodily orifice) would be something that people did occasionally to "spice things up" (of course, in such a world, human fertility would plummet).

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I feel like back massages are about as good as it gets for me in terms of physical touch. Not sure I would call it "sex" or a fetish, though.

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well, what i find pleasing on a person are their hands and noses. Don't know why. always had that.

for me, an act... that would be cuddling. I love lying with a person and just pillow talk with rubs and major extra points if they smell good.

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Cuddling.

A heavy make out session with no urge to take it a step further.

Head scratches. Scratching anywhere, really. Rank your nails up my back, thighs, anywhere. :redface:

well, what i find pleasing on a person are their hands and noses. Don't know why. always had that.

for me, an act... that would be cuddling. I love lying with a person and just pillow talk with rubs and major extra points if they smell good.

This, all around.

Hands, and voices. If you have nice hands, and a nice voice - instant-aesthetic-appreciation-boner.

...or ia2b for short.

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watching netflix? *shrug*

There should be a sexual orientation called "Netflix-uality" :)

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I like cuddling, back scratching, really any non-sexual touch. I don't feel the need to go any farther than that :)

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Are we talking about what "gets you off," so to speak, or is it something you enjoy as much as many people enjoy sex? Because those to me are two very different beasts.

The former might be kink, for example, while the latter might be chocolate and playing with puppies.

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Feral_Sophisticate

What I mean is, is there anyone else in here that has a 'fetish' (I don't want to use that word, it doesn't seem appropriate in this context for some reason), that, for them, satisfies them and that's it?

For me it's breasts. If that's all sex was, I would never stop doing it :lol:

Yes. My girl can "get off" without being touched in her ladybits (or anything else that is remotely sexual). She's got one particularly sensitive part of her body (which I won't divulge, as I know it embarrasses her - she may not be on AVEN very often, but I don't want to "out" her and cause unnecessary discomfort) that - when properly "manipulated" (and when she's either held down or tied up) can make her have her "happy time".

Personally, I think it's awesome. It serves a dual purpose: she's not squicked by being touched in a way that she might not like, and my ego gets off on the fact that I'm getting her off with what is - to me - the simplest of touches.

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Janus the Fox

I can say that my Yiff fetish is "sex" that can be sex with any anthropomorphic animals.

This also covers scat, domination, submission, BDSM, violence, sick, urine, blood, diapers... Anything involving Yiffing, all in the constrains of virtual sex and fantasy roleplay.

How does one "do" breasts? o_O

You know what, don't answer that.

Still legitimately confused, though.

The answer to questions beginning with "how" is always "With a machine."[/font][/color]
T-There's I assume milking machines for the purpose of gaining sexual satisfaction of getting milked I'm sure in the fetish world... Google it maybe...
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I like the whole kissing, cuddling, back rubs and what not but if I had to pick one thing to do forever and that's it then my favorite thing is cuddling up with someone completely naked.....you heard me and just talking.

Something about being naked with someone and having nor expectations of the other person is so very intamate and completely satisfying I could do it forever

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Cuddling.

A heavy make out session with no urge to take it a step further.

Head scratches. Scratching anywhere, really. Rank your nails up my back, thighs, anywhere. :redface:

This. Nice slow drags of fingernails, especially on my scalp/neck. Feels great.

Sensual stuff and hugs and whatnot without any expectations for sex.

Taking a bath or a shower with someone with no expectations. (except maybe bubble bath or bath toys)

Playing with someone's ears. (they're soft and usually ticklish :'D)

As far as aesthetic appreciations; I really like paunchy man-bellies. (nice warm gurgly pillows to blow raspberries on hueheheh)

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Watching Netflix, listening to music, being on AVEN, Demisexual.org, Demigray, eating, playing video games, and multitasking a combination of them.

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hmm...

replacement for sex as in - this feels absolutely amazing, please never stop, this must be what heaven is: that's when someone traces their fingers gently over my back, especially along the spine - then delicious shivers of ecstasy overwhelm me as I go all goosepimply and my muscles melt. But this doesn't make me feel any special bond to the person, and it doesn't feel particularly intimate so almost anyone who wasn't a complete stranger could do this to me and I'd be fine with that.

replacement for sex as in - I'm feeling this deep emotional bond of love: that's sharing a long, sweet, cuddly kiss and snuggling all wrapped up in each-other's arms - with no touching of sex organs, even on the outside of clothes - and yes I'd prefer to be mostly dressed because I don't like being naked and I don't like skin getting all stuck-together and sweaty. Just being relaxed and melting into each-other, and feeling that mental togetherness with our heads/faces nuzzled close without any need to speak or even move.

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sharing a long, sweet, cuddly kiss and snuggling all wrapped up in each-other's arms - with no touching of sex organs, even on the outside of clothes - and yes I'd prefer to be mostly dressed because I don't like being naked and I don't like skin getting all stuck-together and sweaty. Just being relaxed and melting into each-other, and feeling that mental togetherness with our heads/faces nuzzled close without any need to speak or even move.

^That. There's almost nothing better than just curling up on a couch with my S.O. and just holding each other. No pressure for sex or "making out" maybe some gentle kisses, but mostly just holding each other.

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Baking/consuming cake!

Wait, wait, I take that back. Maybe. ^^

I can list a couple things~

  • Cuddling, kisses and on the body without any sexual air or expectation while enjoying an activity like reading or watching favorite shows, or discovering a new hobby. Just being held and giving/receiving affection without any reason at all but enjoying the other person's company.
  • Puppy kisses. You can never go wrong with those.
  • Sleeping. Can't get anything better than a nap with someone you love platonically or romantically, or getting some sleep and more than just a couple hours. Possibly with stuffed animals, and a fortress of pillows.
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