The Wreyck Posted September 12, 2014 Share Posted September 12, 2014 People show up and change our points of view.. It has happened to me. I was totally "Do not touch me" and now I have changed that at least for one person. Her touch is different. I am a hyper romantic and demi who is a hopeless romantic when it comes to a special someone. So people do tend and change things around. I hope it is change for the good. My closest and longest ongoing QPP says that it seems different this time. She says that every other squish I've had they seemed unhealthy and always resulted in my being upset in the end (the upset thing is totally true). She says this is the first time she's seen my liking someone in a positive manner who also seems to like me (albeit in a different form than myself). She seems to think their is potential in the relationship. I hope she is right. I really don't wanna screw this one up. Link to post Share on other sites
writer24 Posted September 12, 2014 Share Posted September 12, 2014 I have trouble talking to people, so if I have a squish on someone, which is pretty rare, it tends to be the people whom I can just sit and talk to without feeling self conscious or worry about what they think of me or what I'm saying. It tends to be a person I feel really comfortable around, and who I feel like I could be around all the time. I usually end up becoming really close friends with them, but that doesn't particularly mean that all my close friends who I can talk to become squishes. It's really hit and miss for me and has happened with both guys and girls. Link to post Share on other sites
aceaceboebace Posted September 25, 2014 Share Posted September 25, 2014 I always thought that because I wanted kids and a family so I just assumed I was romantic. I thought about it and realized that I dont want a romantic relationshi but I do want to be married and raise a large family with another asexual preferably. I want to meet other aces. I need to go to some pride parades or something because I dont know if any ace meetups near me. :( Link to post Share on other sites
FurrMurriX Posted September 25, 2014 Share Posted September 25, 2014 Really hard to say, I kinda get Squishes quickly when I get close to them... but never lasts long, and to be honest I think I might confuse it with friendship the whole time, but bleh, hard to say. You just feel different when your with them, you open up more and just find it fun to chat with them (Yet again pointing to friendship). For me its really hard to know which is which (Friendship from Squishes) -lifts hands- So don't really know I guess. Link to post Share on other sites
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