gems500 Posted August 31, 2014 Share Posted August 31, 2014 Opinions are like assholes. Everyone has one. What is actually up for discussion is the post by the OP; not the viability of ALL mixed relationships and the logistics thereof. The OP has stated that her sexual boyfriend WANTS sex. She is making excuses for his orientation by calling him "thick" and "forgetful" of her many assertions that she is an asexual. She hasn't helped matters by sleeping with him at the beginning of their relationship which has probably confused him to no end. Both she and her boyfriend are deluded if they think that this particular mixed relationship will work out in the long run. End of story. It is their story, not yours, and they will decide how it ends, not you. Of course they will decide. But, it is my opinion that it will not end well. The OP asked for public opinions. The OP got mine. What is your problem with the democratic process of this message board? Only posts that you like get to be posted? I don't think so. These are my posts, not yours. I get to decide how I express myself, not you. Link to post Share on other sites
gems500 Posted August 31, 2014 Share Posted August 31, 2014 Feedback, most likely, will not be tailor-made to one's desires or needs when soliciting it from the general public (which is what the OP has done). Furthermore, whether or not my input is 'necessary' is certainly not to be determined by you. If the OP doesn't agree with me, again, they should find a 'Yes Person' to cosign with them rather than canvassing for general responses. I'll put it more simply then: I'm saying your "feedback" sucked. You have no right to tell someone else what/how it is they're feeling. The OP made no indication of wanting to be just friends. My feedback is just fine. Your feedback is rather rude and unnecessarily hostile. I am not telling anyone how they are feeling which should be clear from what I have written. I am merely expressing my opinions about the subject matter that the OP has presented on this forum. If you don't like my comments, you can go kick rocks. Link to post Share on other sites
Philip027 Posted August 31, 2014 Share Posted August 31, 2014 I am not telling anyone how they are feeling which should be clear from what I have written. Except that's exactly what you did and it's why you're getting called out on it. Unless the OP made some indication that they wanted "just friends" (which as far as I know, they have not), that is not a judgment you get to make for them. Not to mention that by accusing the OP of "wasting his time and stealing his youth" it pretty much just makes you sound like a jerk. The guy is not powerless in this situation. He is (presumably) mature enough to be able to decide what he wants to do with his time. So, yeah. Your feedback sucked. Call it rude if you like, I just call it like I see it. You've shown nothing but disrespect for the OP and their situation, so tell me, why exactly do you think you deserve any respect? Link to post Share on other sites
gems500 Posted August 31, 2014 Share Posted August 31, 2014 I am not telling anyone how they are feeling which should be clear from what I have written. Except that's exactly what you did and it's why you're getting called out on it. Unless the OP made some indication that they wanted "just friends" (which as far as I know, they have not), that is not a judgment you get to make for them. Not to mention that by accusing the OP of "wasting his time and stealing his youth" it pretty much just makes you sound like a jerk. The guy is not powerless in this situation. He is (presumably) mature enough to be able to decide what he wants to do with his time. So, yeah. Your feedback sucked. Call it rude if you like, I just call it like I see it. You've shown nothing but disrespect for the OP and their situation, so tell me, why exactly do you think you deserve any respect? The difference between you and me is that I will not argue with you about your opinions about the OP's posts. If this is how you see it, I give you permission to think it so, even though I think you are an idiot who needs to mind your business as far as the comments of other posters go. Call me out? Is that what you're doing? You're not enough. Go back for reinforcements. Link to post Share on other sites
Philip027 Posted August 31, 2014 Share Posted August 31, 2014 You've pretty much defeated yourself at this point nor are you able to explain your behavior, so reinforcements (whatever the hell that's supposed to mean) are definitely not necessary Link to post Share on other sites
gems500 Posted August 31, 2014 Share Posted August 31, 2014 You've pretty much defeated yourself at this point nor are you able to explain your behavior, so reinforcements (whatever the hell that's supposed to mean) are definitely not necessary Who am I supposed to "explain" my behavior to? To you? You are an obnoxious nobody on the Internet with delusions of grandeur. I don't surmise that an explanation to you of my behavior is necessary.. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted August 31, 2014 Share Posted August 31, 2014 I'm afraid I'll have to temporary lock this thread for Admod review. The mod of the forum might come back and unlock the thread at their discretion. ratherdrinktea, Administrator Link to post Share on other sites
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