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I tried to do a search on this, since I've seen a couple of people mention it in their posts. Are there other aces (of spades, of diamonds...)?

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Means a romantic asexual. Ace of Spades means an aromantic asexual. Least, that is what I've heard.

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Means a romantic asexual. Ace of Spades means an aromantic asexual. Least, that is what I've heard.

Yup, this. These two symbols seem rather common among asexuals, much like the Black Ring. :)

I've heard people try and define what the aces of clubs and diamonds might mean... but unlike hearts & spades, there has never been an agreed symbolic meaning to them.

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Really? That's so cool. I thought it was all just a reference to the cards!

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In terms of asexuality, as far as I know there is just Ace of Spades and Ace of Hearts.
As stated above. Ace of Hearts is a romantic asexual, Ace of Spades is a aromantic asexual
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Ace of Hearts= Romantic asexual (hetero/homo/bi/pan)

Ace of Spades= Aromantic asexual

Ace of Clubs= Grey-romantic asexual*

Ace of Diamonds= Demiromantic asexual**

*Could also apply to greysexuals in general

**Could also apply to demisexuals in general

Correct me if I'm wrong about the last two, not entirely sure

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This is all very interesting! Thank you so much for the thread and answers as I have also been wondering. <3

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Ace of Hearts= Romantic asexual (hetero/homo/bi/pan)

Ace of Spades= Aromantic asexual

Ace of Clubs= Grey-romantic asexual*

Ace of Diamonds= Demiromantic asexual**

*Could also apply to greysexuals in general

**Could also apply to demisexuals in general

Correct me if I'm wrong about the last two, not entirely sure

There seems to be a slow general consensus going towards those definitions among the community, but I've never seen ace of diamonds and clubs include greysexuals and demisexuals, to be honest... The way I've seen it used, at least so far, has always centred around romantic orientation :P

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I actually saw people using the ace of diamonds as a symbol for demisexuality (not demiromanticism) before. I would kinda like for them to get that one because the only other symbol of demisexuality I know is that ugly as hell heart symbol. Hideous.

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Ace of Hearts= Romantic asexual (hetero/homo/bi/pan)

Ace of Spades= Aromantic asexual

Ace of Clubs= Grey-romantic asexual*

Ace of Diamonds= Demiromantic asexual**

*Could also apply to greysexuals in general

**Could also apply to demisexuals in general

Correct me if I'm wrong about the last two, not entirely sure

that's funny, because clubbing is sort of like nonattachment but a whim you might do, so non-patterned

while diamonds are (notoriously?) a symbol of relationships, or whatever... with the "notorious" aspect being buying love, which is conditionalism... leads to demi

don't mind the dark connotations tho... I don't anyway... lol.... <.< >.>

edit: and naturally spades are opposite of hearts because they're visually opposite. upside down and black.

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The clubs and diamonds thing is new to me, but I read quite a nifty explanation of the spades and hearts not so long ago.

Ace of Spades is for people who are not just asexual but aromantic too, as they've gone the whole hog so to speak, they are asexual in spades!

Ace of Hearts is for romantic asexuals (hetero, homo, whatever) because of the obvious connotation of the 'love-heart'.

Edit... Thinking about diamonds, we wear them in eternity rings because 'diamonds are forever', but likewise the stone takes an awful long time to be formed. Like a demisexual's attraction you might say?

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