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  1. 1. Are you sex repulsed?

    • Yes
      68
    • No
      35
    • It depends on situation
      50
    • I'm only when it can concern me
      58
    • From time to time
      11

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Just a poll on sex repulsion

As about me, I don't mind sex and even put sex scenes at my works but I start to be when I feel it can concern or happen to me. I don't imagine myself being, touched, penetrated and having/doing oral sex. Let other people do what they want but I don'\t want to be involved in this.

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Striped Sweater

I'm the same way. Don't care what other people do, just leave me out of it! :P

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Shadow Conqueror

I *understand* in the sense of why people have sex and do sexual act's.. and I don't find that weird. I can write fictional pieces that involve people having sex in the stories (however I do not get aroused).

It's a bonding and intimate act for some and some people love/ desire that aspect. What I do not understand is why people can't understand there is other ways to stimulate being close, intimate, and bonding without being aroused and sexual. That isn't up for me to judge tho, and up to whatever someone else does.. I do not want to hear about it (porn is the grosses thing ever). In general most things involving other people does not repulse me. I'm very accepting of other people's sexuality and interests and would hope other's would understand/ respect mine, also.

BUT also the thought of it being in 1st person and it being a "non-fictional" story and not the 3rd person nerator, freaks me out. I am repulsed at the thought of seeing someone's gentiles, touching them, or having sex with them. The point of it is to gagging of thinking about seeing someone's gentiles - the "repulsion" is a bit to the extreme on it. The thought of someone penetrating makes me feel violated and grossed. A guy giving me oral sex? Gross and wrong feeling.

Repulsed and no libido and or interest for sexual interaction.

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ChihuahuaDaddy

I'm not repulsed by sex. I just feel apathy.

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WhenSummersGone

It depends on the situation for me. As for other people I'm not interested in hearing about their sex lives. I'm turned off by porn these days.

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TheBioNerd

I haven't actually been in a sexual situation so it's a little hard for me to gauge. Just from thinking about it and what I've seen, there seems to be a few factors involved for how repulsed I am. Thinking about myself having sex, the sex of the person matters. When I think about it with a guy...like, I literally had trouble typing that the thought of it disgusts me so much. With a girl, I'm a bit more apathetic towards it. I'm not sure I'd care to do it, but I'm not revolted by the thought of it.

As far as with other people having sex with each other, I do feel repulsion depending on the situation. If people are having sex within a committed relationship, that's totally fine. If someone is having sex outside of their relationship without their partner knowing (i.e. cheating), I find that completely revolting. I think my degree of repulsion is directly correlated to the degree of love I see within the sexual act itself, if that makes sense. If cheating is involved or I think about myself with a guy (I'm literally gagging just from typing it out), I see no love within that act, so I find it repulsive. If there are just two people going at it who love each other or I think about myself with a girl, I see love there and so I'm not repulsed by it.

Also - I feel like this is fairly common for really monogamous people like myself - I'm completely revolted by the idea of someone I have feelings for having sex with other people. I can't stand the thought of them having had sex before they met me, while we're friends, or after we stop talking. That part might be a little strange, but I've always liked the idea of being with one person my whole life and also my partner being with one person (me) their whole life. I'm just a hopeless romantic that way :P.

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I´m sex repulsed, to the point I´m repulsed not only by sex involving me, but involving others too. I can´t imagine that people I like and respect are sexual and do probably these extremely disgusting types of sex you can see in porn. Sex is a thing I can connect with heartless, selfish, shallow jerks but not with nice people. :(

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Yes. Kinda goes with the territory of being nonlibidoist and a little sex-negative.

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AnomalyEternal

I am only repulsed when the prospect of sex involves me. I can't stand anything remotely sexual in my immediate vicinity or anything to do with me. However, I can read about sex perfectly fine and have even viewed porn (I wanted to see what all the hype was about Ok .-.) and it didn't bother me.

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Charr Lee Gray

I'm not sex repulsed

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It depends on the situation with me.

In the past I have not been sex repulsed, but since I haven't been with anyone in a while it seems as though I am to some extent. It's difficult to put into words so I'll have to leave it at that for now.

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SquirrelCat

No.

Sex isn't something that concerns or bothers me.

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I'm sure I am. I believe being asexual and a non-libidoist makes me that way because I think I lack what would make me overcome my natural repulsion for sexual acts. I know this isn't the case for all sexuals but I generally assume a lot of people are kind of disgusted to have sexual acts with others unless they're sexually attracted to them or have a really strong sexual desire right now. I lack both so it makes sense for me that I could not find sex not repulsive. I am, however, completely fine with other people having sex. It's just acts that would involve me that repulse me.

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Christinanc93

I find it horrible and degrading in any circumstance.

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LessThanGeorge

I'm not repulsed by sex in any sense. This is definitely because I got to experience it firsthand, quite a few times. The feeling I get during sex is similar to the feeling I get when I lift at the gym: hey, I'm doing physical activity. I never got the pleasure that other people do, but I'm not adverse to sex at all. I do engage in discussions about it, albeit from a more objective standpoint. Sex is a natural life function, and besides that, an interesting topic in my opinion.

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LenaLuthor

I am sex repulsed. Oral sex is especially repulsive to me. Ew God damn it, no thank you!

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Faith Formation

Same as what most people have said: it depends. We don't mind people liking what they like, but we do mind when it's shoved in our face, and it's just crossing the line when it starts to involve us in any sense.

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I am sex repulsed. Oral sex is especially repulsive to me. Ew God damn it, no thank you!

I think oral is the most repulsive form of sex. Even when I read on it I feel dizzy.

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turtleswithhats

Very. It seems so animalistic and weird and undignified to me. Ill never understand it and anything even vaguely descriptive of sexual acts makes me feel a bit physically sick, which is all the time because naturally thats all other teenagers seem to want to talk about.

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Cereal Tendencies

More paranoid than repulsed for me, I would say. Possible trigger:

Coming from someone who was molested at 12 :unsure:

French kissing, oral sex, etc makes me uneasy just thinking about it, but the act itself I'm apathetic about

Still a virgin, my opinion could change (or not)

Voted for "only when it can concern me"

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It depends for me.

I'm fine with sex. I even encourage it. I read it, write it... Hell, I even have a porn blog on tumblr (purely aesthetic). I can talk about it without too much awkwardness (that's a lie, I can be pretty awkward about it). And I can even imagine myself having sex sometimes without being too disgusted by it. But thinking about actually having sex just turns me off completely and feels really gross. I don't get it, and I don't want it. But I'm sure my sex-repulsion probably has something to do with dysphoria as well.

Also, when I'm intoxicated, I can become quite... loose. (French) kissing is pretty gross, but I've been known to do that while drunk; other people usually initiate it, I just play along. And if someone decides to sit on my lap, I can't always control how my body decides to react.

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I can happily handle a sensible conversation revolving sex, especially online text chat. But not if it's incessant immature details about your sex life....and prying into my lack of sex life and such just because you want to judge me or use it for gossip is a great way to get me to insert my fist up your nostril and send your brains flying out your ears....assuming you have any.

Other than that, I'm pretty easy going. ^_^

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  • 2 weeks later...

I don't mind in music that sounds fun like Jeffree Star, BOTDF, Geoffrey Paris, and Millionaires but if it's someone making advances on me then it's repulsive or in movies I don't like it but I tolerate it as long as it's short and doesn't show to much.

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  • 3 months later...

very sex-repulsed. I don't like any physical contact beyond a hand-shake at all, and the naked human body does nothing for me at all

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I am most of the time when it concerns me, otherwise it depends. I watch porn a lot, but when it comes to other people telling me about their sexual experiences or even just that they want to have sex or something I'm like, "Woah hold on there buddy, I don't wanna hear about this at all."

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The thought of actually engaging in it disgusts me. But reading about it or seeing it can vary from disinterest to annoyance to enjoyment, depending on the context and how active my libido is at that point. Eg. the genders of the individuals involved, if I'm rooting for them to get together or not, if the "romance" feels tacked on or if it feels genuine, how well it is filmed/written, etc. Which says nothing about my feelings about that stuff in real life, because couples smooching where I can see them or people talking about their sexual experiences in front of me make me feel horribly awkward and uncomfortable and makes me want to go bleach my brain.

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  • 5 months later...

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