Fruity<3 Posted April 24, 2014 Share Posted April 24, 2014 ***There my might be TMI in here, so I'm going to give a trigger warning just in case*** Hey everyone, This is probably a weird question, but I was curious if there was a way to make sexual activities more interesting? I'm a nonlibido asexual that doesn't really get aroused. I have a boyfriend and I feel very comfortable with him. I'm still a virgin, but I'm very open to trying PV sex. The thing is, though, I don't get aroused. He's used his hands and mouth on me before and, in no offense to him, I get massively bored. Last time, I just started to watch the tv behind him >.> I just don't feel anything interesting. He's very understanding and comprehends the situation quite well. There's no pressure at all from him. Anyway, my question is this: are the games or activities I can do during sex to make it more interesting for me? Or at least to help preoccupy my mind. haha he said before I could read a book or that we could try to have a casual conversation, but I feel like either would be difficult XD Any advice or ideas would be greatly appreciated! I want my first time to be more exciting then just 'bleh', though my expectations are rather low. Thanks in advance! Vegan cake for you :D! Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted April 24, 2014 Share Posted April 24, 2014 You could try having a movie on, or music, if he's OK with that. Personally, I just run song lyrics through my head, or make my "to do list" or chore list or... yeah. It's really boring. :lol: So, pretty much whatever you do to make a doctors waiting room more exciting, or a long road trip more exciting, try that. :) Link to post Share on other sites
Philip027 Posted April 24, 2014 Share Posted April 24, 2014 I would think that if you're nonlibidoist and you don't get any particular enjoyment out of your partner's satisfaction, there isn't a whole lot you can do. You can't really force yourself to enjoy something that you don't particularly enjoy. That goes for anything else in life. Link to post Share on other sites
Human_001 Posted April 24, 2014 Share Posted April 24, 2014 I suggest roleplay. it probably won't increase your libido, but you might have fun playing a character. It would be like taking acting lessons, in which the characters are having a sex scene. Link to post Share on other sites
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