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binary suns

lol, rock hard breasts. wouldn't that be something :) always perky and a helluvalot easier to run with. and a natural weapon, if you know how to tackle with them >.< although chances are they'd be heavier....

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I've only seen them...never tried to cop a feel...lol I love that phrase!

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sparkalipoo

YES! Yes I am and have been for as long as I can remember, and when I was in school the other kids found out and it became a game to find ways to freak me out by flashing me without getting caught by teachers. I am also bothered by genitals and gonads.

If I may post a follow up question to the OP have you ever struggled with concerns that your mastrophobia is misogynistic? I have and its frustrating because I like women in general as people and respect them but fear they think I don't respect them because I find a part of their body disquiting.

I don't see how that would be misogynistic. As long as you don't make women feel gross about their bodies or treat them like they're lesser because of your fear. I'm bothered by genitals too, but I feel like that has more to do with my asexuality than misandry.

That was kind of a mean thing for your classmates to do.

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sparkalipoo

It makes me uneasy seeing other women's breasts bouncing and jiggling, just because I know who painful that can be. I kind of like my breasts. Sometimes I just hold them because it feels comforting too me.

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Member74140

I'm not put off by breasts if they're not portrayed in a sexual manner. I felt okay with nudity when I was drawing artist's models(although I refused to draw genitals). When it is sexual I am greatly disturbed. Hell, I get really nervous if I accidently put on a low cut shirt someone gave me because I assume my breasts are being presented in a sexual manner.

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TeddyMiller

In my case, I find the sight of breasts sexy, but that doesn't translate into any desire to touch them or have sex or anything.

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DragonSoulWithin

I suppose I wouldn't say scared or unsettled normally, though probably because I just don't notice. When people wear really revealing clothing I tend to feel uncomfortable, however. I am ok with women breastfeeding in public though, just because it's natural. As for my own breasts, I've been told I'm very 'chesty' and some people seem admiring of that, but I'm just, 'are you kidding? They are so annoying! They're always in the way and make running harder!' XD but really, with other people, I just don't pay attention

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YES! Yes I am and have been for as long as I can remember, and when I was in school the other kids found out and it became a game to find ways to freak me out by flashing me without getting caught by teachers. I am also bothered by genitals and gonads.

If I may post a follow up question to the OP have you ever struggled with concerns that your mastrophobia is misogynistic? I have and its frustrating because I like women in general as people and respect them but fear they think I don't respect them because I find a part of their body disquiting.

I don't see how that would be misogynistic. As long as you don't make women feel gross about their bodies or treat them like they're lesser because of your fear. I'm bothered by genitals too, but I feel like that has more to do with my asexuality than misandry.

That was kind of a mean thing for your classmates to do.

My experience of "feminism" is one in which I was taught to view any thought about women I may have as violent and misogynistic, I have for the most part overcome that "education", however there are gray areas for me like this issue of mastrophobia and possibly genitalphobia which may be viewed as misogynistic by more reasonable people than those who "educated" me originally. That is why I wanted the opinion of another mastrophobic individual, I believed that if they had the same or different experience it may illuminate for me what I may need to work on, as I fall somewhere on the autism spectrum and as a result am particularly suggestible, especially when I was younger and hadn't learned how to go into interactions with new people under the assumption that everything they say to me must be fact checked thoroughly.

No it wasn't very nice of my classmates to do that to me, however given some of the more egregious bullying I received, it was downright friendly by comparison. My suggestibility was discovered very early by my classmates, long before I or my parents knew about it, and allowed them to wreak massive havoc on me growing up, although perhaps the worst thing they did to me was drug my lunch everyday for nine years.

Anyway given my autism, agoraphobia, social anxiety and how my classmates messed around with me as a kid, I am also here on AVEN because I don't know if I am asexual or just really screwed up by abuse. This seems like a pretty safe place to explore that.

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Not scared or unsettled, I just find breasts gross. Even more so when they are enlarged and enhanced.

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Speaking of which, was anyone else on here totally freak out when they saw the video "Anaconda" with Nicki Minaj's boobs and butt hanging out? That was literally like the most scary, ridiculous, and terrifying thing I've ever seen. Like, the Joker or some creepy grim reaper from another universe is less intimitading to me. (The only reason I saw that video was because iisuperwomanii's video about how her Indian parents would react to that video was there and so I clicked on it.)

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I'm not put off by breasts if they're not portrayed in a sexual manner. I felt okay with nudity when I was drawing artist's models(although I refused to draw genitals). When it is sexual I am greatly disturbed. Hell, I get really nervous if I accidently put on a low cut shirt someone gave me because I assume my breasts are being presented in a sexual manner.

Hey.. that's just like me. I'm just curious though. You don't not put on low cut shirts also because of what various religions say about modesty, do you? I used to think that way until now. Nowadays, I don't really think about that that much anymore. I just wear what everyone else wears, but nothing too short or too revealing. For instance, there wouldn't be any boobs hanging out (like with a sweetheart neckline or anything), but if it's very slightly exposed I don't care anymore. What about you? Same goes for me for pants. Nothing too long or too short so that no body parts are too exposed. I just keep my clothing in moderation so that I'm neither overly covered nor overly exposed.

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Hey.. that's just like me. I'm just curious though. You don't not put on low cut shirts also because of what various religions say about modesty, do you? I used to think that way until now. Nowadays, I don't really think about that that much anymore. I just wear what everyone else wears, but nothing too short or too revealing. For instance, there wouldn't be any boobs hanging out (like with a sweetheart neckline or anything), but if it's very slightly exposed I don't care anymore. What about you? Same goes for me for pants. Nothing too long or too short so that no body parts are too exposed. I just keep my clothing in moderation so that I'm neither overly covered nor overly exposed.

For me, its actually appealing when I see clothes that are not ultra skimpy. Despite the ideals shown in movies and photos, most human bodies look ugly when bare. I can like thin and lowcut clothes, but for the most part I'd actually like to see 'conservative' standards. Keep in mind I mean non-sexualized, not traditional. There are some really crappy old types of fashion too.

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I'm not put off by breasts if they're not portrayed in a sexual manner.

Thing is, artists wouldn't be portraying these (which they do, and often) unless they were trying to appeal to people in a sexual manner.

Trying to claim otherwise is like trying to stroll around naked in a red-light district under the supposed pretense that you're just there to give anatomy lessons.

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Purnkin Spurce

Only in public if a woman is topless or breast feeding. yes I know people think it's ok, but I've never felt comfortable with it. Seeing a total's strangers boobs with a baby latched on was never a normal thing to see for me. Even in movies it can be a bit uncomfortable if the camera is focused on a pair of naked boobs. I don't mind when they are covered up, I think the female form is beautiful. Just not as a sexual object or some other human is attached to them.

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Amoeba-Proteus

I think they're pretty gross. And I hate my own. They also gross me out.
They're annoying.

I'd rather others' were covered. But then again, I prefer bodies in general covered.

As for their sexual status, I don't get it. I don't understand everyone's fascination with them. They're big jiggly globs of fat on a person's chest. How hot.

:mellow:

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.diva plavalaguna.

I like them. I don't get 'em, but I like them. I wouldn't mind if mine were slightly smaller, though, and I'm hoping that happens through weight loss. I don't really like to see them exposed randomly though. It's always shocking, whether it's a man or a woman.

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Guest Cairne Bloodhoof

No, I am not. I take them as a natural part of womans body. I think they look good, as long as women keep them natural and don't go to plastic surgeries.

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As this is an old thread, and had no replies for 8 years up until now, it will remain locked. I have also cleared out the latest responses since they don't make sense now and are off-topic.

 

If people want to have discussions about the topics covered by this old thread they can make new threads.

 

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