Awkward topic: What are your Ace Fetishes?

[pma01]

i have multiple. redhead females, small breasted females bras, nipples,, and masturbating. not porn. a person male or female pleasuing themselves

[Literary X]

I'm not sexually aroused by noses, but I find them so aesthetically attractive that I like to stick my fingers up them and bite them, etc. People tease me about it and call me a "nosephiliac" (although the correct term is "nasophile"). ^_^

[Lauren+Bear]

I have this weird thing for humiliation... I DON'T want to be humiliated, but reading erotica about humiliation turns my gears. I'm a pretty kinky person, but humiliation is definitely one of my hard limits, so I don't know why fantasizing about it arouses me.

[WhenSummersGone]

I really enjoy being dominated. It is highly arousing for me but I still wouldn't seek out sex just to be dominated. I also seem to have a thing for male hands and different locations.

[Frac]

This stuff is certainly not unheard of, and I'm one too. There used to be a forum for people like us but it seems to have disappeared.

Either way, I'm into stuff that seems to only be prevalent on the internet, which is a shame, because there would be real life communities for most other things that one can be into.

Doesn't really matter, because I have zero interest in attempting to emulate any of it in real life, especially with another person involved. The whole "physically impossible" aspect ensures that I won't take it so seriously.

[Sarcastic Bob]

I have this weird thing for humiliation... I DON'T want to be humiliated, but reading erotica about humiliation turns my gears. I'm a pretty kinky person, but humiliation is definitely one of my hard limits, so I don't know why fantasizing about it arouses me.

Awkward question: I hear the word "humiliation" used a lot in regards to this sort of thing. What exactly does it mean? I know it's not humiliation in the traditional sense because it takes place behind locked doors, but to be honest I'm not sure what other sort there is.

[Lauren+Bear]

I have this weird thing for humiliation... I DON'T want to be humiliated, but reading erotica about humiliation turns my gears. I'm a pretty kinky person, but humiliation is definitely one of my hard limits, so I don't know why fantasizing about it arouses me.

Awkward question: I hear the word "humiliation" used a lot in regards to this sort of thing. What exactly does it mean? I know it's not humiliation in the traditional sense because it takes place behind locked doors, but to be honest I'm not sure what other sort there is.

Well, I tend to fantasize about extreme and public humiliation. Humiliation is basically anything that makes your bottom/sub/what-have-you feel bad about themselves. It could be making them feel fat, laughing at them, making fun of parts of their body, making them dirty, de-humanizing them, making them into furniture or animals, calling them names, have others laugh at them, forcing them to do things they don't want to do (BUT DOESNT GO AGAINST THEIR LIMITS).

[RoswellValentine]

Not quite a sexual fetish as I have yet to be aroused by it, but one that sticks in my mind is crossdressing men. Not including makeup, but I really like seeing men (or those that have a masculine or androgynous appearance) in women's clothing and lingerie. Though I noticed that it seems to depend on whether or not I find it visually appealing, and maybe if it suits whoever is donning the clothes.

[binary suns]

[CNGB]

*coughs*

Anal, anybody?

[Goatybeard]

I've always liked the idea of having a relationship were you can do normally private things around your partner. That being said, I love casual nudity. Even if it's strangers in the locker room or nudists, it still does it for me. Not in a sexual way (unless I was already aroused to begin with) or even the nudity is sexy sort of way, but just in a I'm-comfortable-with-myself-and-I-don't-care-who-sees-me sort of way. It's hard to explain. I sometimes get kind of exhibitionist urges like that. Just walk to the shower without a towel on. That's the lamest exhibitionist urge, I know. I've thought about going to a nudist resort or something, but I don't think I could handle it.

I also really like androgynous people. Mostly men, or should I say "masculine" regardless of gender. By that I mean dressed like a man but the person looks like he/she could be either.

[Heatherbeee]

I've always liked the idea of having a relationship were you can do normally private things around your partner. That being said, I love casual nudity. Even if it's strangers in the locker room or nudists, it still does it for me. Not in a sexual way (unless I was already aroused to begin with) or even the nudity is sexy sort of way, but just in a I'm-comfortable-with-myself-and-I-don't-care-who-sees-me sort of way. It's hard to explain. I sometimes get kind of exhibitionist urges like that. Just walk to the shower without a towel on. That's the lamest exhibitionist urge, I know. I've thought about going to a nudist resort or something, but I don't think I could handle it.

I also really like androgynous people. Mostly men, or should I say "masculine" regardless of gender. By that I mean dressed like a man but the person looks like he/she could be either.

Not being funny, but I'm kinda with you on both of those things!

I'm not sure if it counts as a fetish as I don't get aroused by it either but I totally get what you mean about the exhibitionist urges! I'm weirdly facinated by the naked body and I don't know why but I just love being naked. I don't really mind who sees me to be honest, cause I see no reason to be ashamed of my body (my poor flatmate knows this...)

It's not a sexual thing, I just like the way we all look and are similar/ different and I like the 'freedom' of being naked. I've been to a nudist beach and I loved it :P

Also, I can't explain why but I've always kinda loved trans people, it's kinda like I admire them. Girls who can actually pull of looking like guys are weirdly attractive to me :/ I'm not interested in the sex part but I dunno, I just think they're pretty cool.

Other than that, I don't really have any weird interests....I've been in relationships before and tolerated the sex part cause I liked the person and the intimacy (read:cuddles). I like being looked after and having a strong male influence around me, but I had a girlfriend who totally filled that role too :)

[The Wreyck]

I've got a sadistic streak that definitely does it. I enjoy dominating yaoi (malexmale manga) and occasionally yuri (femalexfemale), especially when the one being dominated is inexperienced with or not traditionally homosexual. It's not simply dominating sexual acts. Rather, it's the emotional dominance displayed in their everyday lives, and brought to its extreme in the sexual encounters. I often fantasize of dominating in a relationship like that myself, but also sometimes desire to be on the receiving end as well. It's like, if I'm sometimes dominated over as well, it'll bring me down a notch and keep me from going too far in the dominating and sadism, which I fear my capabilities of doing.

It's definitely a very strong kink for me that can manifest itself in many ways, though I've never allowed it to leave fantasies (which are few) or masturbation. That could be worrisome. Besides, I'm not exactly interested in relationships, sexual or not.

[Marshmallow Tree]

(Typed in 'paraphilia' and I'm pleasantly surprised by what I've found!)

For me I like vore (though nothing to do with digestion or anything bitten off), bondage and domination. A man lying tied down being engulfed...yeeeess.. xD

[Lady Valacri]

I'm not sure if this is a kink but I just love old style pinups. Those are the kind of women I can get excited over. Something about them is classy, yet sexy.

[Syphon]

To my knowledge, I have no known fetishes.

[xmicahx]

Warning TMI!

I have a fair few sexual and non-sexual fetishes. None that I have acted on, but I think I am becoming open to the idea. I really like muscle and heavily tattooed men, especially male muscular legs and butts. Most of the time this is non-sexual but it definitely crosses into sexual arousal at times.

I think I have a fetish for genitalia in general, especially for certain types of female genitalia (I won't go into specifics) but it seems strange to some since I dont find women sexually or emotionally attractive.

I also have a fetish for sexual body fluids, penetration and orgasms, and I find it difficult to finish without seeing the finishing product.

[crinklyace]

Diapers for me. The louder and thicker the better. But it's more than a fetish -- it's like a security blanket. I feel at peace with the world.

[Cj Quinn]

I really get excited most when I have to pee...... I generally hold it for as long as I can cuz that makes me all tingly

But I also get excited by music I really enjoy or some people smell really really good. Sometimes I would just cuddle up to my ex and smell her til I was dizzy.

I REALLY like biting my ex's neck. She made the most amazing noises and lovely faces, she turned pleasing colors and her body was warmer making her smell nicer (She was normally very cold physically speaking).

Also men with deep voices. ten out of ten.

long fingers, long hair, people who can sing.

[Crealityisabeast]

For me, and I guess that it's asexual (since I dont get all hot and bothered by it) is men with well groomed beards and long hair. Basically a well groomed lumberjack.

I dont know what it is about it that makes this so pleasing to look at, but it's just one of those things that I see and am incredibly pleased by. It actually makes people more attractive (aesthetically pleasing) to me. Like, I work with a a guy who has started growing his hair, and recently was able to put it into a pony tail. This instantly made him so much more attractive.

A good ponytail and a well groomed beard makes some people just so pretty, and I just want to stare at them.

[DreadfulTypewriter]

Fat, basically. There's no upward limit either, the bigger the better, even to the point of immobility. I'd never actually partake in actively gaining weight or getting another to do so because health, but the idea would turn me on greatly. Why, I have no clue. It kind of causes me some inner turmoil to tell the truth. Because it's something so objectively bad for you, yet I can't help but love it.

Yep, Cool_Blue, same here. No idea where it comes from, but I've been fascinated to no end with the idea of extreme weight gain ever since I was a kid. I developed a workaround for the health issue by only imagining myself gaining weight while in another (usually fictional) person's body, which somehow makes me feel less guilty about health related things if the body involved isn't actually a real one. I've had "inner turmoil" about it, as you say, for a long time, too. But to me now, it's more a place I can go in my mind that's free of judgements like that, free of the strictures of society.

[Eoria]

I have a huge thing for submissive males. It can be anything from simply being tied up and dominated to pegging to more extreme things like torture and humiliation. As far as they're willing to go as long as they're submissive. It doesn't matter who's on the dominant end. I'm kind of disappointed I'm not interested in actually doing that sort of thing. I also like male crossdressing. I like female crossdressing too, but it's less of a fetish and more of a, "Wow she looks really cool!"

I also like breasts and round butts. I just like the shape and softness of them (at least they look soft). So I also like people playing with them, sucking them, etc.

There's also a lot of hentai stuff I like that I'm not going to name off here. Some of them are very simple things, some of them are very extreme things, and a lot of them are things I definitely do not like when real people are involved.

Oh, and freckles are pretty adorable too.

[butterflydreams]

Fast cars. Driving them fast or aggressively on nice roads is such a turn on. Love seeing a cute girl driving an uncommon, but fast car. Still waiting to see a woman driving a Porsche 944 or even better, a classic 911.

[Someone Else]

Trust, I guess? Also, the idea of being wanted.

Someone being _extremely_ passionate about me, a passion that a friend probably wouldn't have. That makes me feel something, often.

[RoswellValentine]

Some more that come to mind: I kind of like tentacles, sometimes I'll like a character because of their white (or blonde) hair [sometimes because I compare an original character to them and I find similarities], and sometimes dark-haired boys with glasses.

[Diceman]

I've never tried it before, but I love the idea of tasting the blood of someone I'm in love with. I not only like the taste of my own, but to me it's by far the most intimate fluid in your body. Blood is life, and it's all locked up and more difficult to get at than your usual bodily fluids. I love blood. But I can't get a girl to go on a normal date with me, so I don't know when the hell I would ever bring that up =P

[The Wreyck]

I've never tried it before, but I love the idea of tasting the blood of someone I'm in love with. I not only like the taste of my own, but to me it's by far the most intimate fluid in your body. Blood is life, and it's all locked up and more difficult to get at than your usual bodily fluids. I love blood. But I can't get a girl to go on a normal date with me, so I don't know when the hell I would ever bring that up =P

Is it weird that I totally love and agree with this, although until now I don't know if I would have thought of it necessarily as a fetish, but maybe it is for me also? O_o The whole fetish idea is confusing to me.

[JangoFett]

I have a few, I don't like most of them though. Wish I didn't have them, with maybe one exception.

The focus of all of them really is underwear, so I have a big wedgie fetish (probably the one I hate the most) normally in relation to women though not necessarily. I like womens underwear in general, especially lace on men or women it just looks and feels so good. I can't wait for the day when mens underwear is as varied and awesome as womens is right now.

[WhenSummersGone]

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[Guest Sheka4]

I have to say I'm into BDSM, somnophilia, and leather gloves.