Awkward topic: What are your Ace Fetishes?

[iamphoenixfire]

I recently discovered the following (possible tmi):

a. i love guys with long hair.

b. like somebody else said, french kissing. i dont know why the idea of having someone's tongue in my mouth is so amazing for me, but it is.

c. heterochromic eyes. eyes of two different colors, eyes with different colors in them.... i love them.

d. lastly, i dont really know if this counts.... but i have this fantasy in my head of being pressed against a wall and just making out aggressively and not really much else going on.... it's a strange one.

[-tzi]

Prolly one of the more common ones: latex clothing

And what usually tends to go with it: masochism

What's interesting, though, is that the latter could act as a "wrapper" for certain sexual practises: things I'm normally indifferent to may become interesting if performed in a certain way or setup.

This does still require me to have formed a deep emotional bond to the other person and consequently have not yet had such experience... so I'm basically speculating. Maybe some day...

[PurveyorOfBadPuns]

I have a marco/micro fetish, which after finally thinking about why, comes from my masochism (I'm somewhat sadist).

I'm in to S and M. Everytime I think there's a limit to it, I discover there isn't.

Can't have S and M sex though, as I lack the desire to have it.

I know I'm replying a lot later than your comment was posted, but I just wanted to let you know as someone who has friends deeply involved in the kink community that S&M without sex is a lot more common than most people seem to think. :) A good number of people are in it just for the S&M.

[saige]

I'm demisexual or greysexual and I don't know if this applies as a fetish, but sometimes I see men who turn me on. I'm into tall, thin men who are toned with long hands (that aren't too muscular or too wispy) and large feet. They all have similar facial features. If I'm feeling particularly anxious, I like the idea of some one digging their nails into my skin.

[AWhiteGyrfalcon]

I have hair, lips and skin fetishes.

I love longer hair, i long to brush or have my hair brushed...love to have patterns traced on my skin or doing it to a partner. The feel of soft skin, soft hair..yum ..sets my skin vibrating.

I also love full pink or red lips, on men. Watching that person talk...

I also love scent..anyone who smells gd i want to follow and sniff..

Fantasy dream is 3 some with 2 guys, 1 dark, one fair..(im a woman). But is only attractive and arousing in fantasy as im asexual..sex horrifies me..but the idea is hot lol

[Wiseman]

I have a few actually, but the most dominant fetish would be female feet.

[Maria92]

I've got a fair few, though none that apply to meatspace. In mindspace, though....

1) Bondage

2) submission

3) masochism

4) Tentacles (yeah I know...)

5) Some others I won't go into...

Still trying to reconcile all this with the whole asexual thingydingy...but from the first post, I suppose it isn't a conflict after all. :3

[Wiseman]

Ohhhhh. Tentacles and bondage. I completely forgot about those.

[ladygrey-ace]

Trust, I guess? Also, the idea of being wanted.

[Shoomon]

I always thought that I was just messed up or weird, but I guess now that I think about it this could be a fetish. I find I am very aroused by the idea of having sex with fictional characters or even real people whose personality or character I find attractive. This usually only happens when I know it would never be possible to act on it (such as with fictional characters). I am never sexually attracted to the person/character/actor, only the idea of it.

*hides from embarrassment because never shared that before*

Oh, also, in a completely non-sexual way, I love seeing girls with short hair (and beanies are a plus)

[whatsmyname]

My partner got me into sploshing, I would never of considered it before I got with them but it really pushes my buttons now. Getting wet and messy is awesome but again I think its linked more to seeing other peoples pleasure (it really turns on my partner) and I actually enjoy the cleaning up afterwards more haha, its so satisfying to see a totally messy shower cubicle covered in food then just hose it all away down the drain. I'm an auralist as well, nothing can turn me on as much as hearing other peoples pleasure, moans and groans. I don't watch porn I listen to it haha!

[Guest]

I don't know is it a fetish or not. I'm into XVI and XVII c, Hungarian and Lithuanian men. I also like long haired women.

Gay love and sex also makes me a kind of aroused.

[Phofaux]

I like being in control. A submissive guy or two is a beautiful thing to me. I sometimes wonder if i'm not a bit of a sadist. I'm fine with women too but hurting them would never occur to me. Unless they wanted me to, i guess. I am also a voyeur though only if it is gay sex. Watching hetro sex sickens me. I also have a strange obsession with dolls and mannequins. I feel like a freak now.

[whatsmyname]

I like being in control. A submissive guy or two is a beautiful thing to me. I sometimes wonder if i'm not a bit of a sadist. I'm fine with women too but hurting them would never occur to me. Unless they wanted me to, i guess. I am also a voyeur though only if it is gay sex. Watching hetro sex sickens me. I also have a strange obsession with dolls and mannequins. I feel like a freak now.

Nothing to feel like a freak for! As I'm sure you're aware sexuality is massively varied for a lot of people, kinks are a totally natural expression of that :)

[TheStarrySkai]

I don't really have sexual fetishes, but I do have things that I like:

I have a thing for people with curly/wavy hair. Usually when their hair isn't short or long. Shoulder length maybe??? Around there. It's so pretty/cute when their hair moves and bounces when they move. =) I also like androgynous people. I don't really know why. I just do.

For some reason I also like when people act like a wolf/dog in a cute way.

Due to jrock/fanfiction/anime/manga I have developed a liking for shounen ai/yaoi. Not the really intense stuff where they're having sex all the time though. That gets super boring fast.

[Cress]

I don't know if they're fetishes, but there are a few things that I irrationally really like. Most of them are aesthetic:

-Long, slender fingers

-Wristbones, collarbones, hipbones

-When the veins are visible on people's wrists (maybe after they've just been running etc), running up their forearms

-Preppy sort of fashion; vests, button-up shirts, waistcoats, hats, etc.

-When normally polite people swear

-When a person has both masochistic and sadistic tendencies (sadistic to a lighter extent than masochistic though)

[Shoomon]

-When normally polite people swear

I really like this too!

[AnomalyEternal]

-Preppy sort of fashion; vests, button-up shirts, waistcoats, hats, etc.

-When a person has both masochistic and sadistic tendencies (sadistic to a lighter extent than masochistic though)

All of my yes

[ChihuahuaDaddy]

I feel really awkward admitting this, but I really enjoy giving gentle back massages to girls/women, depending on their body type. I love the feel of a delicate, feminine back. There have been a few girls who have told me that I am very great at giving massages.

I feel like such a damn freak.

[Exosk]

I get aroused by fighting. I think there's nothing hotter than a fencing bout or some MMA sparring. ... With a very prominent amount of intellectual fighting, which is what really turns me on about fighting- it can't be just mindlessly swinging punches. It has to be well-planned, well-executed work. Going to martial arts club at school may as well be like going to a strip club for me, watching those guys carefully flip each other over their shoulders and pin each other in locks.

I really enjoy this aesthetically, but no arousal comes from it.

This might be kinda weird, but veins are a real turn on for me.

I don't mean like big sticking-out veins like bodybuilders have...I mean how you can sometimes see blue veins through people's skin. Mostly on their wrists and/or hands, but sometimes around the from/back of their head too.

I also enjoy this aesthetically.

I'm a bibliophile; few things make me swoon harder than being surrounded by books. I love the feel of a nice hardcover, and the smell of dusty old pages is one of my favorite scents.

Yesss, books give off an amazing vibe - probably releases endorphins for me, but again no arousal.

I don't know if they're fetishes, but there are a few things that I irrationally really like. Most of them are aesthetic:

-Long, slender fingers

-Wristbones, collarbones, hipbones

-When the veins are visible on people's wrists (maybe after they've just been running etc), running up their forearms

I also like these aesthetically.

[Guest]

I don't know if they're fetishes, but there are a few things that I irrationally really like. Most of them are aesthetic:

-Long, slender fingers

-Wristbones, collarbones, hipbones

-When the veins are visible on people's wrists

Oh yeah, all of those. Collarbones are really great.

One of my friends has long fingers and loads of visible veins in her wrists. So nice. <3

[Vivaldi Ives]

Deleted because I wasn't quite sure it fit with the topic of this thread.

[Exosk]

....

No, I hadn't heard of it nor I do not remember hearing of it. Thank you for sharing.

[NiTeLight]

Dom/sub, from either POV, where the focus is on caring for the sub.

Collars and necklaces which accentuate the curve of the neck, particularly the hollow between the collarbones

Celtic designs (though this would be painted on, because I hate tattoos...)

Victorian and medieval clothing

Pet names like "little one", "love," and "beloved"

People with tails and (pointed) dog ears - this is strictly non-meatspace only because there isn't tech in existence to the level I like

Nerdy references/quotes in conversation :D

Driving my partner to incoherence with pleasure and watching them fall apart as they surrender to it

Mildly possessive behavior when alone (jealousy is not nice) - like kisses to the top forehead

Sucking on things (not oral sex - I just like keeping my mouth occupied, e.g. like a lollipop, or a necklace charm...)

Shibari and mild bondage

Guys with shoulder length hair

Sports-loving girls in tomboy outfits

Guys in feminine, but not female, clothing - e.g. an elegant, flowy jacket

Androgynous guys

Three-way relationship with two (bi) males, but not necessarily having all three of us participating at once - perhaps not even having me interact (or be a recipient) sexually at all.

Tight fitting clothing that accentuates the curves of the upper torso

V neck shirts

[Beware The Demopan]

I really seem to like heartbeats, especially when they're visible. That and midriffs.

[ethereal_energy]

I recently realized that saxophones turn me on. They're the only thing I have ever thought was sexy (but now I'm sorta gray but whatever.) If a person has a saxophone then it makes them more attractive, but not really sexual. Luckily I am in a band this year with five male saxophone players. :D

[sindi]

I'm not sexually aroused by anyone or anything, but I do have an asexual fetish about men who have long hair. I'm obsessed. I suppose I'm also a bit of an asexual sadist. I don't like hurting anyone, but seeing someone I like hurt gives me something of a warm, fuzzy feeling.

I don't know if I really have a fetish, but this made me think... I love to play out some pretty horrible scenarios (violence, misery, drama... what not) in my mind, and that gives me a brief warm, fuzzy feeling in my stomach. It's not sexual arousal though - sexual arousal is different, I know it, because I don't completely lack a libido.

When I need to deal with my libido, I don't even feel like fantasizing those miserable scenarios, but go for something bland which in itself isn't arousing to me, basically just to pass the time. Sometimes rarely the fantasies themselves feel arousing though, and it's confusing, 'cause they're seriously random!

For instance I once felt aroused when imagining a perfectionist control freak mother forcing her daughter to live the life of a "perfect girl", in such detail that her nails had to always be perfectly polished. Wtf?! :lol:

Edit: I guess it could be something about submissiveness in that fantasy, but it wasn't like her mum made her do anything inappropriate or degrading. She just demanded straight A:s from school, perfectionism in the daughters way too many demanding hobbies etc...

[noparlpf]

Purring. I think I would probably sleep with a catgirl who could purr regardless of my usual preferences.

[Ekho]

Uhhh, furries. A bunch of things under that domain. I'll just leave it at that. ._.

And crossdressing, watching or the idea/act of doing so.

[Synchrèse]

I've always liked long-haired, bearded guys (especially with a goatee).

I'm also fascinated by men's forearms, especially with visible veins and masculine jaws.

None of these arouse me, but I find them so aesthetically plausible and fascinating that I consider them as fetishes.