This is a list of members worldwide who are open to Private Message, email or IM exchanges with pen pals. Feel free to write to anyone posting here and have a chat. This isn't a dating service or anything; some people just like to discuss things one-on-one, swap stories, or get letters from distant strangers like in the good old days. If you have any questions about asexuality that you don't want to raise with the entire community or need personal advice on a dilemma, this is a good place to start out. Just click the Profile button at the bottom of someone's post for more information on the person and contact info.

If you want to post yourself here, use the following format, including only the information you wish:

City/Country:
Age:
Interested in discussing:
Write via: (PM/email/messenger/snailmail)
Chosen Gender:
Languages spoken:

Most of your information on interests and so on is in your profile (if it isn't, fill it in!) so you don't have to post anything more unless you feel like it.

Too busy - sorry guys

City/Country: Ottawa, Canada
Age: 19
Interested in discussing: I have a wide range of interests, and I'm always interested in finding some new ones!
Write via: (PM/email/messenger/snailmail) Any of these, but I will prefer to get to know someone first before giving my snailmail address
Chosen Gender: Male
Languages spoken: English, French, re-learning German

City/Country: LA county, USA
Age: 18 - legal, for all the good that does anyone
Interested in discussing: whatever
Write via: PM, AIM, ESP
Chosen Gender: female
Languages spoken: English, Spanish

City/Country: Sydney, Australia
Age: 20
Interested in discussing: Anything, esp. computer/web-related things, video games, occult, philosophy, mythology & religion
Write via: PM, Email, MSN Messenger. PM me for email
Chosen Gender: Female
Languages spoken: English

City/Country: Hull, England
Age: 24
Interested in discussing: Life, the universe and everything. Sci-fi, tv, good books, comics, music, science, and anything at all
Write via: any way
Gender: Female
Languages spoken: English, German (sort of)

Ohh yay!


City/Country: USA
Age: 16
Interested in discussing: Anything, although I've been on an artificial intelligence obsession lately
Write via: Anything, but I'd prefer PM or messenger
Chosen Gender: Somewhere in between androgynous and female?
Languages spoken: English, mostly French, and I used to know Hebrew! But I forgot most of it But I'd be willing to relearn

City/Country: Louisiana, USA
Age: 23
Interested in discussing: anything
Write via: (PM/email/messenger/snailmail) PM/MySpace
Chosen Gender: any gender
Languages spoken: English

City/Country: USA, California
Age: 21
Interested in discussing: Whatever. I'm just weird and dorky, so it'll help if you are too. And if you need help or anything and don't want to post it in the community, feel free to bother me.
Write via: PM and AIM, and snailmail if we become the bestest of friends!
Chosen Gender: I'm a girl!
Languages spoken: English. I try to speak French, but it's like a train wreck.

City/Country: Manchester, UK

Age: 34

Interested in discussing: Life, the universe, everything. See my profile

Write via: (PM/email/messenger/snailmail) I am on MSN, or you can pm me. Snailmail after a while I suppose but my handwriting is terrible

Chosen Gender: Female given a choice. TG technically

Languages spoken: English

All my love,

Kate

Hells, why not!?

City/Country: Geelong/Melbourne Australia
Age: 22
Interested in discussing: Weird and random conversations, Philosophy (often amounting to the same thing!), cars, music, and basically anything that is not too deep and personal

Write via: Any of the above
Chosen Gender: Male
Languages spoken: German, English and gibberish

City/Country: Detroit, USA
Age: 26
Interested in discussing: anything! music, movies, animals, science, sports, etc, etc
Write via: (PM/email/messenger/snailmail) PM/email...my handwriting is awful! and i have yet to re-install AOL IM to my computer...
Chosen Gender: female
Languages spoken: English, ASL, some Japanese

The Crazyjerseygirl a.k.a. Renee'


City/Country: Centeral Jersey USA
Age: 26
Interested in discussing: anythin but formula racing
Write via: (PM/email/messenger/snailmail) PM easiest
Chosen Gender: ladie
Languages spoken Alas only english

City/Country: Helsinki/Finland
Age: 25
Interested in discussing: Anything and everything as long as it is with humour. Every day life, dogs, movies, the difficulty of finding a truly good flat mate or mind boggling vastness of the universe. I don’t know, stuff. :roll:
Write via: PM/email/messenger only if you’re up at the same hours as me
Chosen Gender: Female, I sticking with what I was born with as change would be too mush of a hassle
Languages spoken: Finnish, English, very poor Swedish. I'd love to learn a Scottish accent... sigh... I’d love to learn a lot of things but none of it seams to be of any use in real life… :shock:

Hey why not...

City/Country: Billericay, Essex, England
Age: 14
Interested in discussing: Anything really
Write via: (PM/email/messenger/snailmail) Anything though snailmail is hmmm. You have to PM me for my email and messenger though
Chosen Gender: Female
Languages spoken: English. Sort of German and French. And latin though not fluent and that's probably irrelevant as no-one speaks it. And I can say hello, goodbye and count to 10 in Greek.

Yolly

City/Country: Pennsylvania, USA
Age: 23
Interested in discussing: I have a wide range of interests, am passionate about gender and feminism, and would love to discover something new.
Write via: PM
Chosen Gender: Woman
Languages spoken: English and German

City:Herndon,VA(Washington DC area)USA
Age:23 (will be 24 next week)
Discussion topics: Anything except computers, video games, sci-fi, Lord of the Rings, or fundamentalist religious beleifs.
Write via: PM,email, snail mail, etc.
Chosen gender:Female
Languages: English and Spanish(sort of)

City/Country: Ca-Naaaa-Da
Age: 15
Interested in discussing: Art, music, crazy thoughts that pop into people's heads, music, writing. Wackiness.
Write via: (PM/email/messenger/snailmail) PMs, then maybe e-mail.
Chosen Gender: Um..... female, I guess. Gender is pointless.
Languages spoken: I can speak English. I learned it from a boooook.

City/Country: Vancouver, Canada
Age: 20 and 2 months
Interested in discussing: skate/snowboarding, music, languages, and other things
Write via: PM, email, messenger, snail mail
Chosen Gender: I'm a girl, looking for a guy I guess, or a girl-friend.
Languages spoken: French, Japanese, planning to start learning Swedish...

City/Country: Newcastle, Australia
Age: 19.
Interested in discussing: Anything, as long we can sustain a conversation about it.
Write via: PM, email, messenger. We'll see about snailmail.
Chosen Gender: Female.
Languages spoken: English, and Australian.

City/Country:Eastern, China
Age: 24
Interested in discussing: it's all ok
Write via: (PM/email/messenger/snailmail) - any
Gender: Male
Languages spoken: Chinese, English, or perhaps you can teach me still another

City/Country: Canada (Ontario)
Age: 29
Interested in discussing: Anime, books, pets, the nature of the universe
Write via: (PM/email/messenger/snailmail) PM
Chosen Gender: Male
Languages spoken: English

City/Country: USA
Age: 44
Interested in discussing: A/S marriage, divorce, impact of early trauma on sex, feminism, my dog (he's great)
Write via: (PM/email/messenger/snailmail) PM
Chosen Gender: female
Languages spoken: english

Edit: I'm not around enough to make a good penpal so I've removed my info.

I always wanted to have a foreign pen pal :mrgreen:.

City/Country: Amsterdam, Netherlands
Age: 23 and a half
Interested in discussing: just everyday stuff, whether it's the neighbours' cat or Meaningful Insights on Life (my everyday life varies a lot, lol)
Write via: email is where you can reach me the easiest (and what the heck is snailmail?)
Chosen Gender: female, definitely. No question there.
Languages spoken: Dutch, English, I'll have a go at French or German but it would require lots of poking around in dictionaries. Which is always fun :wink: .

Cool... I don't mind messages

City/Country: Southwest, USA
Age: 23
Interested in discussing: pretty much anything
Write via: (PM/email/messenger/snailmail) -- PM, email, messenger (MSN mostly) and myspace
Gender: am female...don't care about who writes me though
Languages spoken: Just English

City/Country: St. Louis, USA
Age: 24
Interested in discussing: Everything except politics. Stay away from politics!
Write via: (PM/email/messenger/snailmail) -- PM, email, AIM
Gender: definitely female
Languages spoken: English, some German, some Sign Language

***just removing my info because I'm no longer online enough to start new penpals and busy with RL

City/Country: near Frankfurt, Germany
Age: 21
Interested in discussing: everything about music and computer technology, but also open to personal, politic or philosophical questions, too
Write via: PM me first (and ask for E-Mail/ICQ/MSN/Skype/Snailmail)
Chosen Gender: Male with some female traits
Languages spoken: German, English

City/Country: Atlanta, USA
Age: 21
Interested in discussing: Anything that doesn't require me to be serious
Write via: (PM/email/messenger/snailmail) pm, until we become such good friends that we have to email each other long delarations of plutonic love every hour!
Chosen Gender: Female-ish
Languages spoken: english. I can also understand a bit of basic italian and spanish.



(and in case anyone that remembers me was wondering, yes I did die)

I would encourage anybody to contact me if they are bored, because -- chances are -- I probably am, too!

City/Country: North Carolina, United States
Age: 21
Interested in discussing: Up to you, really.
Write via: PM's, messenger programs (MSN, AIM)
Chosen gender: bah!
Languages spoken: English, some Italian

Anyone can contact me if they want PM me, email me, and i also have AIM (just look below my post)

*deleted*

City/Country: Canada
Age: 30
Interested in discussing: Whateva
Write via: messenger/email
Chosen Gender: Male
Languages spoken: English/Pig Latin

City/Country: Richmond, Virginia/USA
Age: 21
Interested in discussing: Just about anything
Write via: PMs, E-mails, AIM, MSN, Yahoo(AIM is the most reliable way of getting ahold of me right now though).
Chosen Gender: Androgyne . . . however, I currently masquerade as a male.
Languages spoken: English(there are others, I just don't feel like making a list right now)

Country: USA

State: Texas

City: Azle

Gender: Female

Age: 16

Sexual Orientation: Bisexual-Asexual (I like both male and female romantic partners, but don't want sex.)

A little bit about me: I have no interest in actual sex, but do like cuddling, holding hands, and kissing very much. I enjoy art, poetry, and music. My E-mail adress is Blondechick00013@aol.com. You can IM me at my e-mail adress. For now, I don't do phone calls.

City/Country: Portland, Oregon, US
Age: 21 (And I'd prefer to talk to someone who is close to my age...)
Interested in discussing: Anything, but I could probably best carry on a conversation involving social sciences, Scotland, musuems, Terry Pratchett/Discworld, Neil Gaiman books (though I haven't read the Sandman series yet), movies, celtic/folk music, etc.
Write via: PM or AIM (DroveTheSnakes)
Chosen Gender: My chosen gender or yours? Well, I consider myself to be female most of the time and I don't have a preference of your gender.
Languages spoken: English and a teeny tiny bit of Italian

City/Country: Denver, USA
Age: 21 (about to be 22)
Interested in discussing: Travel, music, mathematics, drugs, psychology, philosphy, sociology, world affairs.
Write via: PM/email
Chosen Gender: Male
Languages spoken: Polish and English, some French

City/Country: Denver, USA
Age: 23
Interested in discussing: Anything as long as no sex
Write via: PM/email
Chosen Gender: female
Languages spoken: english

Hi all i'm online all the time. Like to chat non sensible chat. Just chit chat.

Look forward to gettting to know you all. I like to chat with everybody.

Lter.

City/Country: Spokane WA
Age: 23
Interested in discussing: Anything
Write via: (PM/email/messenger/snailmail) PM or email
Chosen Gender: F
Languages spoken: English and about 5 words of German...Learning more though.

City/Country: London/uk
Age: 24
Interested in discussing: anthing really! Even if you want to vent to someone thats ok too. I'm always intrested in hearing new music so feel free to talk music as well. But genrally anything goes.
Write via: PM or email
Gender: Male
Languages spoken: English.

I love pen-pals


City/Country: Levittown (northeast of Philly), PA
Age: 26
Interested in discussing: Whatever pops into your head
Write via: (PM/email/messenger/snailmail) pm, email (though i can only write back in the middle of the night
Chosen Gender: Female
Languages spoken: English

City/Country: Stockton, California, USA
Age: 21
Interested in discussing: Anything. Philosophy, Psychology, politics, culture, Literature, Occult, History, Cinema, Games.
Write via: (PM/email/messenger/snailmail) all of the above plus I like being/having phone pals. If you want my e-mail, address, or Phone PM or messenger me.
Chosen Gender: Gamer.
Languages spoken: English, a pathetic amount of french

I don't mind discussing sex/sexuality as long as I don't have to actually do it.

Ok so here it goes:

City/Country: Pembrokeshire, Wales, UK
Age: 24
Interested in discussing: anything really - just wanna meet other asexual ppl and the like. i'm kinda an open book!
Write via: best way of get'n hold of me is at: dibs81@hotmail.com(PM/email/messenger)
Chosen Gender: Female (bi-sexual)
Languages spoken: Welsh and English

City/Country: Somerville, MA, USA
Age: Holy c---, I'm 31 (+ elapsed time, in years, between today's date and 9/22/2006) already
Interested in discussing: adventure/extreme sports, paranormal experiences, culture jamming/guerilla art ideas, radical politics, anything else.
Write via: (PM/email/messenger/snailmail) PM me first for other method. Sorry no messenger (I shot him).
Chosen Gender: Does this mean my gender or the gender of the people I choose to communicate with? Anyway, M and either, respectively.
Languages spoken: English. I also write Spanish.

I am married but I am very much ALONE. I can't really talk to anyone how I feel. There is an isolation because I don't fit the mold of the sex driven world. I prefer to remove myself from the clan.

City/Country: Las Vegas, USA
Age: somewhere between 18-48 with much experience in some areas and hopelessly inexperienced in other areas.
Interested in discussing: anything and everything but preferably issues that most people never thought about, or sensitive issues - something deep down you can never tell anyone else.
Write via: lifespace1000@yahoo.com
Chosen Gender: asexual female
Languages spoken: mostly english but LIFE threw many other languages at me some of which stuck. If you want to discuss anything, email me.

City/Country: Los Angeles, CA, USA
Age: 31
Interested in discussing: anything
Write via: (PM/email)
Chosen Gender: Male
Languages spoken: English

I think it'd be cool to have an asexual penpal

city: Bellingham Wa
Age: 20
Intrested in discussing: anything. Things you can't discuss with people face to face.
Write via: pm, email (chris_shard@yahoo.com)
Gender: female
language: english

City/Country: Wrightstown, NJ
Age: 17
Interested in discussing: Anything
Write via: AIM: Twoglaszeyez MSN: Chickofthe_90s@hotmail.com
Chosen Gender: Female
Languages spoken: English

:twisted:

I would love to make some friends and am always willing to talk.
I would describe myself as easy-going, unemotional, quirky, and somewhat adventurous.
I love music (folk, rock, alternative, 70's punk), film, travelling, hiking.