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For Sexual Partners, Friends and Allies

Are you a friend, relative or romantic partner of an asexual? Have some questions or need some support? Then this is the forum for you! You're welcome to use the rest of the board, as well, of course.

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A place to post all media, research, and literature regarding asexuality, including our own!

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Asexuality and sexuality are not black and white concepts; come here to discover and discuss the grey area in between, demisexuality, and all things related to sexuality and sexual identities!

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Just for Fun

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The place to play all of AVEN's greatest games. Come here to ban, sue and count to 30 against your fellow AVENites! Note: Mafia-type and Roleplaying games are found in Just for Fun.

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Polls that give the statistics that make up AVEN. The topics here are sometimes serious and sometimes not (variety is welcome). However, if you feel your subject and poll are just for fun please post it in the Just For Fun forum.

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