As I said elsewhere, I have had two sexual partners (despite being in my 40s). The first I felt obliged to have sex with, and we dated for a year or so. The second, I think I was attracted to, and not just superficially but enough to want to have sex on that basis. They were very attractive. Supposing it is the case that I have never experienced attraction strongly enough to want to havce sex, before, then is this state of "flux" going to be permanent or will I move on from desiring sex with them? I don't necessarily care either way, though I don't think any sexual relationship with them is go